Hiya. My LG adopted 9MO just turned 3 last month. She's generally doing amazing and comes across as a smart little cookie. She understands what the process of reading is and that letters blend to make words and can sometimes tell me what a word is if I sound it out for her if that makes sense. She can also count fairly well. Both of the above very much depend on her mood
She's also fab physically. Can ride a bike no stablisers. She also socialises well with other kids and can play really well. However I'm starting to worry about her speech again. I generally can tell what she is saying most of the time but I still sometimes struggle. I looked into it and something I noticed was that she often misses the first letter of her words and apparently this is quite atypical and a bit of a red flag? I've spoken to nursery who have always said she's doing great but on pressing them about it they said that they'd also noticed her speech 'isn't the clearest' although they didn't really elaborate on how it is compared to others her age. She speaks very conversationally in long sentences and understands literally everything. We also both don't think she makes great eye contact sometimes although this is more often if you're trying to talk to her about something she doesn't want to talk about and she makes great ec with her peers. She's generally happy at home and nursery although moving to preschool has been quite hard for her and she's regressed a bit (toilet training gone a bit downhill, occasional challenging behaviour etc) Anyway, nursery are going to get their SENCO to spend some time with her and see what they think and also probably refer for speech tx so I'm impressed with how proactive they're being. I was just wondering if anyone can share experiences of what to expect with this and how I can best advocate for her from this point? I was also wondering if anyone could roughly break down what funding she's entitled to at this age and make any suggestions on how this might be spent to help her? I'm not hugely concerned but I just want her to get the best chance she can to thrive. TIA