Hello!
Well we have had our LO placed since March but no AO yet (form has been posted but not processed yet).
After being given the run around when trying to register him at the GP, there have now been 2 incidences where medical professionals have contacted first the foster carer and then the birth mum about our LO!!!
The first time was about a prescription which they called FC to ask about for some reason. We weren't too bothered by this but we complained verbally anyway and were told records had been updated, note added to his file etc so it wouldn't happen again.
This time our GP referred him to the hospital for an appointment, the hospital for some reason needed to cancel it (after a 6 week wait grr!) and they phoned birth mum! Credit to her, she did tell the SW about it. But it is obviously a safeguarding issue and could have been very different if they contacted birth dad. We then complained to the hospital who basically said it is the GP/our fault for not updating the records. But the GP maintains they have updated the records, after we badgered them for ages about it the first time. So we're just being punted back and forth.
Now I am thinking what to do next, make an official written complaint?? I am afraid to take him to the dr again until the AO is through - but even then I don't trust them to get things done properly!
Our SW said "it's always the medical professionals" who do this!!