Our kids have annual letter box contact with BM which up to now has been fairly regular. We have a very close relationship with birth siblings, adopted separately before ours were born, so a few years older. Their letterbox contact dropped off when they went through adolescence and I thought it was their choice as they became more autonomous but BM has missed this year's letter and I wonder if now they are not little ones anymore, she has lost interest.
Was wondering if others have had this and whether you maintained contact at your end. FWIW, our kids are not remotely interested or bothered one way or the other, occasional vague interest but when I show them the contact letter, it's as though I've just told them what someone I work with who they've never met is up to: 'OK, hmmm....riiiigght....that's nice......what's for tea?'
DH says just leave it, I feel a bit more conflicted, like I should do more to keep her in touch with what they are doing.
What do you think?