Am just about to do second letterbox. Our social worker recently visited to do our good bye visit as our child is legally adopted now. We chatted about letterbox and how the second letter was almost die and she asked if we would be adding a photo. I said we would as agreed however she said she thinks ds is becoming too identifiable now he is becoming older and she wouldn't send a photo.
I'm so confused as to what to do. We had a lot of difficulties with the ao due to birth family and dh is now so peed off he has said no photos. However I feel it was what we agreed and I can't help but think of the birth family opening the envelope to find no photo. We live closer than we would like to them and have bumped into birth mum once already - would it be ok to do a photo perhaps from behind or with hat and glasses on? I just don't know what to do for the best.
People further down the line do you send photos?
Thanks for any advice
Whatutalkinboutwillis · 28/04/2015 21:46
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