When I was doing my matching criteria I told my sw that I definately wanted a little girl, during the course of homestudy she "guided" me into saying that I would be happy to accept either sex as I am a bit of an old git and I am single so I would be not be first choice when it came to family finding. Well as the months have gone on I have found myself really worrying that I might be matched with a little boy ( no offence to anyone who has got one) but my heart is really set on a girl, it always has been and I believe it always will be. I am seeing my sw this week for the fnal time before panel so I have to tell her but I am dreading it because I know she will try and convince me to leave it either sex, but I dont want to be in the position of saying no just because I have been given the chance of a boy. Any advice?