I’m currently pregnant and (all going well) will be due to go on maternity leave mid April. I am an external examiner for 2 universities - for uni 1 it is my last year and I would have been stepping down at the end of the year anyway. For uni 2 it is more awkward as I started the role in September and haven’t actually performed any external examiner duties yet.
In principle, I could continue these roles as I likely would be able to out aside a few days over the summer to look at the exam scripts, and then as needed throughout the year. However I’m guessing that might impact my maternity leave from my main employer?
My question is, how late is acceptable to tell them to allow them time to find maternity leave cover and will uni 2 let me return to the role after my 1 year of maternity leave?
I ask because unfortunately I have been through recurrent miscarriages and I’m a bit reluctant to tell them before 20 weeks incase the same thing happens again. I also really don’t want to burn bridges with uni 2 in particular as it’s a department I want to build a lasting relationship with (and could even see myself working in one day).
Any advice?