Don't phrase it like that "a formal meeting to discuss by progress" sounds like you are looking for a performance review.
Also agree with @Mellownellow - phrase it as a chat about your career development, and next steps, and possibilities beyond the end of your current contract.
By passive, I mean - you need to do some research <grin> on likely next steps in your particular discipline & field within it. That's a professional responsibility, really, if you do want to progress. I'm honestly a bit surprised that you're not aware of the likely structure of a career (but then I'm not your Director of Research - I do a lot of this sort of developmental work in my own department)
In my field, the next steps would be about applying for a fixed-term and/or permanent lectureship, but mobility is generally required in that you have to move where the job is. You'll need to think about whether you can move your family, or commute (either each day or staying over 2 days a week or whatever). A permanent post means you can apply to relevant research councils as Co-I or PI. Seek out grant schemes which cater for someone at your career stage - post-doc transitioning to leading a team. Have you done any teaching? It can be a great way of learning about the full professional requirements of academia.
If you don't want to teach, then you need to be looking at various Fellowships, where you pitch to lead your own research project or longer term contracts working on other people's projects, but really, there's very little career structure to those. A 5 year contract might be the most security you can look at; if you're written in to a grant - either as a postdoc research fellow or Co-I, then you should try to negotiate a more senior title and/or salary, but if you're only 2 years post-doc then that's fairly unlikely frankly. An academic career is a long marathon.
You also could develop a network of peers - potential & actual collaborators, people who may have posts, conferences, etc etc. You can meet up at conferences and so on, and they can be really helpful in just learning how to navigate academia. A good network is one of the essential parachutes in academic life - for fun & support, as much as opportunities.
It's great (and essential) you've been building your CV, but that won't help if you're not proactive about next steps.