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Students entering sexually charged phrase in Menti exercise

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aridapricot · 19/10/2024 18:09

This is a first-year module where I am teaching two guest lectures only this semester. In the second lecture, I gave the students a Mentimeter Wordcloud to see how much they remembered from the first one. The third-largest word ended up being a short phrase that I'd never heard about. I assumed it would be some kind of Internet or regional slang (I am a non-native English speaker, teaching in a region with a strong dialect and regularly encounter phrases I don't understand) entered as a prank. I just said, in a light tone, something like some words didn't seem relevant to the task (there were a couple others which were irrelevant and obviously a prank) and I was therefore not going to comment on them.
Back in the office, I checked the phrase online - turns out it is indeed recent Internet slang, which attempts to mimic the sound that someone would make when spitting on their partner's p*nis during oral sex.
I contacted the module convenor, my line manager and a couple of key L&T contacts about this immediately, they were supportive and confirmed that these kinds of behavioural issues are getting worse and the university is tightening up the behavioural policy and code of conduct.
I have had people playing pranks on Menti in the past, and really I think it's their prerogative as adults to not engage with course content if they don't want to (all is ask is that they aren't disruptive and that they don't expect me to spoon-fed them content they've chosen to miss). I hesitate between thinking this is such a prank gone wrong, from obviously immature individuals, and that me going to my line manager is overkill, and thinking that this is inacceptable in a university context and that everyone at university should have the right to teach and learn without being faced with gratuitous and uncalled for sexual content. Making sexual comments to others is also regarded as sexual harrassment by my university.
I am in the position that apart from being a contributor to this module I am also HoD. Initially I thought of issuing a very generic message to the whole department, reminding them of behavioural expectations and keeping it low key, but now I think that I need to address the issue directly and firmly, and making it clear to students that such behaviour is completely inappropriate and I am not minded to tolerate it in my department (obviously the culprits cannot really be punished or identified as Menti is anonymous).
What would you do?

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BarbaraHoward · 07/11/2024 13:01

GCAcademic · 07/11/2024 00:56

At that age, plenty of young people actually are in the workplace. Their employers certainly aren't making endless excuses for them until they are 25 or so in the way that some parents seem to do.

I also wonder if this would have happened if the OP wasn't female. I doubt a male lecturer would have to deal with this. There's been a shift in beahaviour in the last couple of years where we've noticed some really vile attempts from students to undermine female lecturers.

Yes, a friend created a Spotify playlist to play in class during exercises and breaks. She thought it would be a nice thing to create atmosphere in a large class.

Unfortunately she had to quickly end it due to the sheer number of disgustingly sexually graphic songs that were added. I don't think that would've happened to a male lecturer.

MidnightMeltdown · 08/11/2024 20:35

hangingonfordearlife1 · 06/11/2024 13:38

i think you are taking it too seriously. i'm guessing you are talking about the ku tah thing. 18-21 year olds are just big kids. i certainly wouldn't have approached a line manager about it

They are old enough to know better. I think it shows massive disrespect to the person teaching them. I can't imagine that this would have happened when I was at university (admittedly a good 15 years ago now!)

Even a 10 year old would be told off for this sort of behaviour at school.

worstofbothworlds · 15/11/2024 23:32

I'm afraid I'm old school and make them stick their hands up.
(I've been anonymously harassed in student feedback so I've no interest in giving them another tool).

BarbaraHoward · 16/11/2024 12:57

worstofbothworlds · 15/11/2024 23:32

I'm afraid I'm old school and make them stick their hands up.
(I've been anonymously harassed in student feedback so I've no interest in giving them another tool).

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My preference, but I'm greeted with a wall of silence unfortunately.

worstofbothworlds · 16/11/2024 20:16

I make them discuss for 5 minutes and then wait in uncomfortable silence till someone speaks. They soon learn.

Balletdreamer · 16/11/2024 20:23

Even adults in my workplace cant be trusted to behave when anon. Do you have Teams? You can make word clouds in the poll function and I think you can see who posted what.

DanielaDressen · 16/11/2024 20:31

Singleandproud · 19/10/2024 18:21

I assume it's Hawk Tuah, they probably don't even realise it's sexual in origin it's just the newest viral joke. Same as "Whatta those" a few years ago, "Very demure" over the next few months, "skibidi toilet" in Primary schools.

Just assert your boundaries again. If you know who did it a quiet word in their ear so that they know it isn't as anonymous as they thought. Anonymity gives me false bravado they would never usually have

They’ll absolutely know it’s sexual in origin. Everyone on TikTok will have seen the videos. The majority of people their age will be on TikTok. Sadly I’d also be assuming that due to either your age (?) (my students are amazed I’m on TikTok , they think anyone over 25 doesn’t know what it is) or potentially being a non English native speaker they’d assume you wouldn’t know what it was and were maybe hoping to embarrass you by you saying it or asking what it meant. I’d be furious.

I’ve never used menti but use padlets and word cloud and never had this issue but I teach on a professional (undergrad) course with a fitness to practice/cause for concern process so they’d probably be worried about action.

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