Interesting reading here, and I'm basically having the same term as most of you! I find the refusal to do any preparation really difficult to deal with - perhaps it was ever thus, but this cohort's willingness to openly acknowledge that they've done none of it is something else. I don't think they are defiant or hostile for the most part - just kind of passive and apathetic about it. After a seminar with first years on Monday where only one person had read the five - FIVE - pages of an article I assigned, and nobody at all had watched the collection of clips from a film that took me ages to cut, edit and collate, I got a bit cross I have to say. My third years are a bit better, thankfully - but still, more blank faces than you'd expect in an advanced module in a specialist degree that they have chosen to do. And why does nobody take notes anymore - I'm not even expecting a pen and paper, even on a device? Instead they are all taking photos of slides, which is bananas since they all get posted to the VLE anyway.
Our school - and uni - are hot on student-centred stuff too, so we must strive to reduce expectations and give grace and leniency and cater to different learning styles etc. Nonetheless, I agree that students as a whole seem determined to be unhappy and dissatisfied. I understand why that might be the case, but it is draining.
I have given up on research entirely, for a variety of reasons both contractual and existential. I'm fine with it, for now. I figure the amount of work I currently put into teaching and teaching-related admin is adequate exchange for my full wages.
I may follow your lead, @KStockHERO , and procure some new teaching outfits for a little boost. Fake it till you make it etc. I lost some weight over the last year and none of my old reliable "I'm a professional" rigouts fit me anymore. Now, just to find the bloody time to look in shops...