This is part of where we're going wrong. The hand-holding and spoonfeeding is not what HE is for. But so much emphasis is placed upon retention, not least getting the backsides on seats in the first place, that a large amount of undergraduate syllabuses these days are swallowed up in the basic study skills, nuts, and bolts that as a student I was expected to find out for myself in addition to my lectures and seminars.
Taught content is inevitably suffering as a consequence. And no, to come back to your point, I do not think this makes the students more appreciative of us. The reverse is true, I suspect.
Our own MEQs and NNS responses consistently state that students want more time with us. In response to those requests, we factor in more time. What happens? The students rarely bother to turn up for any additional sessions or drop-ins we offer. The complaint 'we're not given enough assessment guidance' is perennial, even in one particular module where every weekly seminar is devoted to completing one small piece of work toward the summative assessment. They also get a suggested template (my own lecturers would have laughed at this and told me to crack on and arrive at my own structure!)
I'm not sure what more I can do, other than write the damned assessments for them.
I can't remember whether I've made this point upthread, but I also find the practice of asking students to critique their lecturers is so, so damaging and undermining. As the above example illustrates, students don't necessarily know what they want: what they think they want and how this translates into practice are two entirely different things. They might not want some boring drill on a supplementary issue, but actually need it in order to pass their course: as lecturers, we and not they are best-placed to judge that particular point.
Invite negative criticism, and you'll get negative criticism. Aside from this, the union apparently has records somewhere showing that MEQs consistently rate women lecturers lower than men. For various reasons that I won't go into here, I'm disappointed but not surprised about this one.
I'm so jaded by this time. Most academics I know are incredibly committed and contribute a not-inconsiderable amount of goodwill to their work.
Academia most certainly does not love us back.