I am really unsure how much I should be weighting each of the pros and cons in my decision and would really appreciate some words of wisdom.
This would be my first postdoc job, got my PhD over the summer in the social sciences. Ultimately my aim is to get a permanent Lecturer position with a weighting more towards teaching than research.
Job 1: Lecturer (teaching-focused) at the non-RG but well-regarded university I got my PhD at, 12 month fixed term. Teaching focused. 30 minute commute, parking provided. Familiar site and faces, fits around family life easily. They would support me making an application for a postdoc grant to follow on from the contract to hopefully stay on doing teaching + research. But of course no guarantees, I could be job hunting again come Easter.
Job 2: Research Associate at an RG, well-regarded university in the next city along. 18 month fixed term. Research only contract, working on another researcher's project but allowed to teach 1 day a week. 90 minute commute via car, Park and Ride and a long walk. Means I'm out of the house from 7am to 6.30pm; I'm a single parent to two teenagers so they don't 'need' me home but like me to be around. Good progression structure but I'd have to change to a research + teaching pathway after this contract and of course no guarantees again. Better pay prospects although Job 1 have said they will match starting salary.
I am honestly frozen with indecision so any advice would be great. I do realise I'm lucky to have 2 offers but this feels like a big decision.