I’ve been to one WPUK meeting which was relatively near me (still had to dash for the last train though), and it was great. Really well run and security pretty good- police outside and lively female (feminist?) security inside.
I was in the middle of dealing with a serious complaint against me at my university for transphobia, made by a student I’d never knowingly spoken to, let alone taught - in a completely different faculty from mine. So I really appreciated the solidarity of that meeting.
I’d go to the Oxford one except it’d be a 3 hour journey and I’m teaching till 6pm (on a Friday afternoon - I know!!!)
I take Dr Kathleen Stock’s view that we all need to be open about these things. The more of us who are, the less power goes to the MRA extremists who are using the trans cause (who have some legitimate complaints about general societal discrimination) to attack women, and particularly feminists.