I'm experienced but arguably more junior than most colleagues in the project team. My boss & the colleagues have mostly hands-off roles, they contribute some ideas few times a month, while basically I do 91% of all the work on own initiative (& 8% on their direction).
Colleague X quit his paid job months ago, missed many recent meetings. The others still want him to be involved. always invited, cc'd, deferred to, etc.
X had research idea-1 that made negligible progress for 18months until I wrestled it off of him. Me+Boss dreamt up research idea-2 in a new area for all of us (ie, I don't think anyone is more expert than me, truly). I went off & did lots of work on ideas1 & 2, today described progress to others. It's science so I expect (want) helpful criticism, but....
Today X was short with me, almost barking "I can't understand why you got results like that!" X had every opportunity to be more involved in last 3.5 yrs, take over, plan the research, direct me to do his way, but never did, now he's shirty at methods he doesn't like. Today's mtg was left a bit vague, I will "take on board" their critical comments.
I just wondered if anyone had dealt with an X type colleague. Feels like he's foisted on me but not helping. What strategy kept you sane?