This is a moan, I admit it. I got a desk reject today. Never had that before. I am devastated. It's just the sheer amount of work I put into this paper which seems like such a sunk cost now. I could have spent that time with my kids for all the good it's done me, and wish I had. I think the editor actually worked hard to make it not too utterly demoralising, but the comments were on the other hand quite damning. The paper was clearly rubbish. I am honestly wondering whether to carry on at this point or to look for a different job. I just don't know whether I can continue to carry the shame of being so crap at publishing. Sorry, this is a real self-pitying moan, but I can't even share this with colleagues because I feel so humiliated! Anyone else (ever) feel like this? How do you pick yourself up?