I know men do look at porn and it doesn't have anything do do with me blah blah, but I've just found lots of porn sites on the laptop for the first time. My DH has been having some problems at work, and I've tried to be supportive, but sometimes I feel that his work problems are always there and it's like an emotional rollercoaster of him saying his job is terrible and he's about to be fired etc and then it always turns out OK, but it means we can't plan anything. We cant think about having another child or even go on holiday in case he loses his job. I work too, but part time and he is the main breadwinner. |I don't know the likelihood of him losing his job as he's an incredibly pessimistic person by nature. I just feel so annoyed with him sometimes and yesterday was one of those days. I felt exhausted by the stress of it and didn't know how to be sympathetic or supportive when I didnt feel like it. But back to the porn- do you think it's a symptom of him being unhappy? would you raise it with him and ask him, or just leave it?