i have just got in from teh school run, and a mum asked to have a word, and said my dd1 has been bullying her dd, and that my dd1 has been told about this by the school.
i have asked dd about it, and she says she hasnt, and no-one has spoken to her about it.
it transpires that the girls she is frienmds with hve been horrible to the girl,. but not ddd1.
do i call the school and see whats happening?
encoiurage dd1 to be friends with other girls?
tell the other girls mother that dd1 says it wasnt her, and i'm inclined to belive dd1.
ask dd1 to stop the other girls when they are being horrible (easier said than done when your 9years old and your best friend is the most important person in the school to you)
or just sigh and go 'oh girls do it all the timem, by next week they'll be friends'
i do do hope dd1 hasnt been bullying anyone, as bullies made my life hell throughout primary school.