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Things in literature they really annoy you?

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changing47 · 11/10/2026 14:59

For me, it’s when characters are referred to as the X girl or the Y boy by characters who are perfectly aware of their names.

Dumbledore in Harry Potter referring to the ‘Malloy boy’. He knows his name is Draco. Just say it. In Game of Thrones Lyanna is referred to as the Stark girl by people who know her name is Lyanna Stark. It drives me mad.

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canklesmctacotits · 11/10/2026 15:38

It isn’t a literary trope. It’s real life. In schools/institutions with generations of patronage by the same family, where (for example) a head and deputy head have taught the dad and the older son and the youngest son (happened in my family), that’s how they are sometimes identified. It’s shorthand for (say) “the family that raises sensible but not very clever kids, who donated to the Asia library, who have history here - doesn’t matter which individual child it is because this wider context matters”. I’ve come across it in school, a law firm, a hospital/medical setting, an alumnae club.

BeaAndBen · 11/10/2026 15:38

changing47 · 11/10/2026 15:34

I have no idea why these people who do it all the time don’t just say ‘I’m asking John Smith if he fancies a pint tonight’, instead of ‘I’m asking the Smith boy if he fancies a pint tonight’. I don’t believe anyone is doing this in real life.

I've heard teacher do it. "The older Smith boy is causing problems in Y6 since he was left off the football team".

I've heard it about my youngest - "Isn't that the BeaAndBen baby? Is her mother nearby?" (No, because she'd climbed out of the pushchair while I was talking to her older brother. )

changing47 · 11/10/2026 15:43

canklesmctacotits · 11/10/2026 15:38

It isn’t a literary trope. It’s real life. In schools/institutions with generations of patronage by the same family, where (for example) a head and deputy head have taught the dad and the older son and the youngest son (happened in my family), that’s how they are sometimes identified. It’s shorthand for (say) “the family that raises sensible but not very clever kids, who donated to the Asia library, who have history here - doesn’t matter which individual child it is because this wider context matters”. I’ve come across it in school, a law firm, a hospital/medical setting, an alumnae club.

What about in all the numerous examples when the setting is not a school?

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changing47 · 11/10/2026 15:45

BeaAndBen · 11/10/2026 15:38

I've heard teacher do it. "The older Smith boy is causing problems in Y6 since he was left off the football team".

I've heard it about my youngest - "Isn't that the BeaAndBen baby? Is her mother nearby?" (No, because she'd climbed out of the pushchair while I was talking to her older brother. )

If they know the name of the year six child why not just say ‘Johnny Smith is causing problems?’

If they know the name of the baby why don’t they say ‘is that Maisie BeaAndBen’?

I’m pleased I don’t know anyone who does this in real life because it would drive me crackers. You know their name. Use it.

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luckylavender · 11/10/2026 15:47

changing47 · 11/10/2026 15:29

Do they? If I know someone I use their name. I don’t know anyone who wouldn’t. It would seem incredibly rude in real life to talk about 59 year old David Colegate who you’ve known for years as the Colegate boy.

Yes they do. As people keep telling you.

changing47 · 11/10/2026 15:50

luckylavender · 11/10/2026 15:47

Yes they do. As people keep telling you.

I simply don’t believe it but it’s not what this thread is about.

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brownbootsandhats · 11/10/2026 15:51

School

hospital that sees repeat customers

social workers that see the same family

lawyers dealing with problem s through generations

Police officers

the lady down the street who has watched a generation of kids from the same household grow up

it can still irk you but it does have a literary purpose and is natural for many people

brownbootsandhats · 11/10/2026 15:52

I simply don’t believe it

now that would annoy me - use of cliches

KatStratford · 11/10/2026 15:52

It is a speech pattern indicative of a sub-set of society where lineage is deemed to be of importance. It is of more value in this context than simply using a person’s name. It also adds context to their background and/or position in the hierarchy.

AshCullen1894 · 11/10/2026 15:54

Typos. Like they instead of that. Little errors spoil many good stories.

canklesmctacotits · 11/10/2026 15:54

changing47 · 11/10/2026 15:43

What about in all the numerous examples when the setting is not a school?

What about it? It’s the same thing. It’s a reference to the “stock” you come from, I suppose. It’s shorthand for a clan and a long history where the specific individual comes with a backstory.

I could understand if you object to the notion of a person not being known for who they are rather than who they’re descended from. But you seem to be bothered by the naming convention only. Which is a weird thing to get hung up on, especially on the basis of a lack of knowledge. Bottom line, this isn’t a literary trope and it might irritate you less if you understood what it actually is.

changing47 · 11/10/2026 15:57

brownbootsandhats · 11/10/2026 15:51

School

hospital that sees repeat customers

social workers that see the same family

lawyers dealing with problem s through generations

Police officers

the lady down the street who has watched a generation of kids from the same household grow up

it can still irk you but it does have a literary purpose and is natural for many people

All of those things are literary tropes that annoy you?

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HeinousBeaker · 11/10/2026 15:58

changing47 · 11/10/2026 15:17

Yes, annoying! And when they have characters say ‘would you like Frosties for breakfast, my eldest sister who recently divorced?’

I don’t understand why editors don’t intervene to stop the shoehorning information into dialogue in such an unrealistic and annoying way.

The x boy doesn’t bother me but this really does - so clumsy. And I hate it when characters look at themselves in the mirror and describe all their features

changing47 · 11/10/2026 15:59

canklesmctacotits · 11/10/2026 15:54

What about it? It’s the same thing. It’s a reference to the “stock” you come from, I suppose. It’s shorthand for a clan and a long history where the specific individual comes with a backstory.

I could understand if you object to the notion of a person not being known for who they are rather than who they’re descended from. But you seem to be bothered by the naming convention only. Which is a weird thing to get hung up on, especially on the basis of a lack of knowledge. Bottom line, this isn’t a literary trope and it might irritate you less if you understood what it actually is.

This makes no sense whatsoever.

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Lifenov86 · 11/10/2026 16:00

I have just used it with my dh. Can you pick you the youngest jones boy on the way to karate. Didn’t seem a weird thing to say at all

changing47 · 11/10/2026 16:01

HeinousBeaker · 11/10/2026 15:58

The x boy doesn’t bother me but this really does - so clumsy. And I hate it when characters look at themselves in the mirror and describe all their features

Yes and when they meet another character and they think how their shirt stretched slightly over their muscles and their blue jeans looked expensive and well cut. No one thinks that much about someone else’s outfit.

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Lovemelovemycat · 11/10/2026 16:01

BeaAndBen · 11/10/2026 15:38

I've heard teacher do it. "The older Smith boy is causing problems in Y6 since he was left off the football team".

I've heard it about my youngest - "Isn't that the BeaAndBen baby? Is her mother nearby?" (No, because she'd climbed out of the pushchair while I was talking to her older brother. )

Not at our local schools! Wouldn’t something along those lines be the preserve of a public school?

Provatewiddle · 11/10/2026 16:01

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changing47 · 11/10/2026 16:01

Lifenov86 · 11/10/2026 16:00

I have just used it with my dh. Can you pick you the youngest jones boy on the way to karate. Didn’t seem a weird thing to say at all

Why didn’t you just say ‘can you pick up Daniel Jones’? I honestly don’t understand it.

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changing47 · 11/10/2026 16:02

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Ooo that’s me told 😂😂

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Redflagsabounded · 11/10/2026 16:03

Horses.so much. Incorrect descriptions, incorrect behaviours, acting as fast magic taxis over long distances.

And every peasant type in a historic/fantasy world knowing how to ride. Just like that. Galloping off into the sunset when in reality the vast majority would fall off in 30 seconds flat. Horses were fucking expensive (proportionately even more so than today) and most peasants would never have touched one, let alone ridden one. And I'd extrapolate that to fantasy worlds too.

Sidebeforeself · 11/10/2026 16:03

changing47 · 11/10/2026 15:14

I have never heard anyone in real life ever refer to someone whose name they knew as the Smith boy or Jones girl. I don’t think Dumbedore dislikes Draco at all. There is nothing to suggest anything other than pity and concern. And he does, on other occasions, call him by his name.

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I think is a very common way of speaking about someone with disdain.

Lovemelovemycat · 11/10/2026 16:03

The detective “wrinkled his nose” then he does it in every chapter. You’re ready for it and it’s such lazy writing.

Lifenov86 · 11/10/2026 16:05

changing47 · 11/10/2026 16:01

Why didn’t you just say ‘can you pick up Daniel Jones’? I honestly don’t understand it.

Maybe it regional but it’s a perfectly normal speech pattern.

lots of things annoy me in books, ages being wrong or odd words used, but this is just a way I have heard many people speak

Provatewiddle · 11/10/2026 16:05

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