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Made an 'anonymous" complaint, now waiting for the fall out

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DewDropsAndCobWebs · 05/10/2026 21:15

Sorry so long, I did not want to drip feed

Over the month or so, I have noticed the area behind my (rented) residence was losing small trees and shrubs.
On one particular day, quite a few seemed to be missing.
Today, while walking my dog, I came across one of my reasonably new neighbours, (also renting at same place) and caught them in the act of lopping off branches!
Like with a full ten foot reacher type thing!

To clarify, it is a rental property, in a protected wildlife sanctuary , and the trees are also protected and tagged.

I asked them what they were doing, they replied "nothing" gave a hard glare and left right away.
I carried on walking the dog, and while out, came across one of the property managers, and filled them in.

I said I wanted to keep it anonymous, they agreed and said they will do a walk around and "discover" it. The manager said to expect a property wide notice to all residents reminding them not to harm the land/trees/birds/animals. They also pointed out that the property could get a hefty fine from Fish&Game if it was discovered.

The errant neighbour will know immediately it was me, they share a balcony and stairwell with us, so will be hard to avoid.
It's going to be so awkward waiting for the first time we see each other after this. I don't know how she will react.

Up to this point we got on reasonable well for people who don't know each other , nods hello, I offered the use of my clothes line when they moved in, which they have used a few times , she offered me a box of sweaters she didn't wear anymore, that type of thing.

I know I did the right thing, but I hate waiting for the fall out.
Anyone else been in this kind of situation? Do I act like nothing has happened? Do I try to avoid her for a while?

OP posts:
Besidemyselfwithworry · 08/10/2026 01:16

DewDropsAndCobWebs · 05/10/2026 21:43

So I think she is doing it for a better view, she is actually second floor and set back, but I am sure she wants a water view from her balcony.
We can't just go cutting down trees to see the water better when you are in a park!

I hate awkwardness, I hate feeling like ' a rat' I feel like I should have told her off more myself rather than report her....

There is no way to hide from her, and our front doors face each other kitty corner so she will see anytime I go on or out.

You might not have to worry about bumping into her if this breaches the tenancy rules!

Lifepop · 12/10/2026 14:15

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