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Do you challenge yourself?

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LastNightMyPJsSavedMyLife · 05/10/2026 19:05

As in do something difficult out of choice rather than deal with something difficult.

I’m going through a ‘just do it’ phase and decided to travel solo to the other side of the world. I’m glad I did it and have a sense of accomplishment but blimey I can’t wait to get home.

Anyone care to share their ‘just do it’ story?

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WhatNextImScared · 07/10/2026 02:40

I did, but since I had children I’ve struggled with having enough time or energy to be challenging to myself too. I feel pretty miserable and lacking focus as a result. But I have kids with some complex needs and just supporting them is hard enough and exhausting me (and sometimes leaves me feeling like I’m doing a really shit job at that too)

Bubblewrap100 · 07/10/2026 07:22

Yes, just sold my house as I thought it would be good to try living in a new area. Yet to see how that will work out as haven’t found anywhere to buy yet.

I’ve done challenging things, like travel the world by myself. I’d go to the other side of the world, no problem. It’s more close to home things I find really challenging, like going to a social mixer by myself and having to talk to strangers. I can’t stand the awkwardness. I should do things like that more but find it so painful.

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