For those who actually would like to know a bit more history and can think outside of stereotypes:
It is difficult to explain the enormous cultural differences between us, them, and you, which mean it wasn't right, or even possible for Rom to do what Jews chose to do after the war.
It is also hard to explain how history has proved it right without people starting to be anti-semetic, or think we are.
The same issue with explaining about how pictures of Roma children where appropriated as being of Jewish children.
Gaudja could relate to pictures of Jewish children, but not interested in Romani children for decades.
Even the Jews took a long time to recognize that saying it didn't matter if pictures of Rom children headed to death, where being shown as Jewish children was wrong, because it was eradicating the identity of the eradicated.
At that time it was particularly important for the Jews to separate themselves from even more unpopular races and other groups. Survival and all that.
If we try to talk of any of it, quickly people will decide wrongly either we hate Jews, or the attempted eradication's where understandable, and the usual accusations are poured out.
(Edited to say: wrote that before the offensive posts started!)
Rom where and are more concerned with the survival of the living culture.
The majority mourn the dead of the Samudaripen or Porrajmos and destruction of specific races within the race, as a private tragedy of death and misfortune that would easily be appropriated or encourage more of the same to happen.
There is no space for us in your society. We have different ideas of how a society should work, and they are contrary to yours. You tried to force our assimilation and are left with the better of us mainly hidden, and mainly Irish travelers in our place.
You cannot give us back the space you have taken and wonder why we aren't shouting about the attempted 'final solution' when we have been through so many negative solutions to our continued existence...
Below is just Germany. Hatred of both Rom and Jews was everywhere and continuous.
Rom had been subjected to extermination laws based on race in Germany from 1566 by Maximillian I (the first anti Rom laws are 1416) and these mass exterminations weren't something new.
1659 saw the first big German mass murders of Rom in Neudorf.
1710 Frederick I enslaved all Rom men, all women whipped and branded, and children taken. Any who fought back legally killed.
1721 extermination of all Rom ordered by Emperor Karl VI. Mass round up and mass murder.
1725, All surviving Rom 18 and over that could be caught, to be hanged.
Throughout the 1800's lots of notables wrote about Rom as 'racial vermin' including the idea that not 'owning a country was in itself a marker.' (Even Darwin thought Jews and Rom to be 'less culturally advanced')
The idea of Volk came into being and being without it would become a nothing, 'a phantom like the Gypsies and Jews.'
Non-territoriality marked Rom (and Jews) as asocials, even if Rom where in the army, police, or landed farmers or vineyard owners. Then blood and degrees of ancestry was used to define who both were
1863, Richard Liebich secured the concept that Rom where "lives unworthy of life" It was not an unusual attitude, but it cements it within acceptable ideas around polishing up the Nordic Master Race.
By then casual individual and whole group murders happened regularly, but not seen as being crimes worthy of investigation.
1929 'Lives unworthy of living ' was the joint book title of a psychiatrist and a magistrate arguing for euthanasia of the Ballastexistenzen. 'The dead
weight within humanity.' This was the physically deformed, hereditary diseases, and in unrecoverable comas. The Rom where placed under 'hereditary diseased.'
After the war many Jewish societies sought to raise their race from being seen as asocial by pointing out their similarity of lifestyle to the Gentile. In the process pointing out the differences of many Rom to the Guadja. I'm afraid plenty of Jews at that time, wanted to distance themselves to the point of claiming they where the only ones selected for eradication through race.
The talk is always of Rom as an illiterate wandering underclass. But before WW11 there was a whole more educated sector, our equivalent to historians and academics and your educated middle class.
Many of these people often had semi settled lives, owning land and businesses, and traveling between them and events and gatherings.
Some had family partially married in with Gaudja, and held positions in both societies. They tended to come from particular Vitsia (family lineage) and Natsia (races within race)