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Do you eat for health as well as pleasure?

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Thevegetarianchef · 25/09/2026 14:58

I was talking with dh about this week's food shop.
He bought me some low calorie snacks that I have that are half the calories of kettle crisps I love.I tend to mix and match snacks.
He couldn't believe I would eat something less enjoyable and I said many things I eat are due to health tbh.
For context he is overweight anyway.
Got me thinking do the majority of people eat for health ie brown breads high fibre cereal fruit veggies or just because it's delicious which I understand as a chef.
I've always had what's cheapest, healthiest or quickest to get ready.

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lljkk · 25/09/2026 16:37

I mostly eat for energy. I'd say there are 5 parameters informing my daily food intake decisions, from most to least compelling maybe: 1.Energy, 2.taste, 3.high fibre + enough iron = OP's "healthy", 4.cost, 5. convenience. Maybe 6. low salt.... I'm older so i can't eat a lot of calories, I'm not wasting my calories on things that don't taste nice. A whole meal break sandwich with mayonaise and cheese would tick all the desired boxes for lunch, for instance.

I'm surprised anyone wouldn't eat healthier foods with all of the online advice and medical advice on tv.

I don't watch TV but am thinking that there's so much BAD advice everywhere else, I try to keep most advice about diet at arms length.

I genuinely like plenty of foods that are low calorie snacks, anyway, like oranges or romaine lettuce or green beans.

RampantIvy · 25/09/2026 16:37

FeliciaFancybottom · 25/09/2026 15:09

I eat foods that I enjoy, most of which are healthy. I'm certainly not going to eat something I hate the taste of just because it's 'good' for me.

Same here. I love salads and vegetables. I find creative ways of making them interesting to eat. I also like foods that are less healthy, but don't binge on them.

(I have just eaten a small piece of carrot cake 😃)

I can't eat insoluble fibre due to IBS so I avoid wholewheat anything, but as I eat loads of vegetables I do get lots of fibre anyway.

I would say we eat a healthy diet and "naughty" foods in moderation. None of us are overweight.

UniquePinkSwan · 25/09/2026 16:38

i never eat sugar, whether that’s in sweets or food. Everything I eat is highly nutritious and I feel amazing for it.

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Deadleaves77 · 25/09/2026 16:39

I dont eat food I dont like no, when I eat I enjoy it but I dont just eat the absolute most delicious foods I can.

I enjoy healthy food, vegetables, pulses, grains are all tasty. I dont find it difficult to make enjoyable tasty, healthy foods.

theblame · 25/09/2026 16:44

Yes, I eat stuff I don’t like such as peppers, celery etc as they’re good for me

Mysticguru · 25/09/2026 16:45

It's not just about weight or body shape though is it? The organs like liver, kidney's and pancreas need good food and water to stay healthy. Over eating or eating wrong food that turns into fats get stored firstly in the liver then in the stomach cavity. Eating the right food that have the right calories, fat content, protein and carbs helps restore health to those organs and removes the visceral fat as well as keeping diabetes at bay

theblame · 25/09/2026 16:45

Posted too soon. I don’t mean I actively dislike them, I just don’t enjoy eating them
if I ate what I wanted it would be cake, pizza and a whole load of carbs

5128gap · 25/09/2026 16:52

Health first and foremost with the odd unhealthy thing I like. However, when I say like, I mean really like. So if I was going to have crisps, I'd not choose less unhealthy less nice ones over the ones I wanted. All in or not at all.

Sunbringer · 25/09/2026 16:53

Of course, I eat nuts and seeds and whole grains and omega fats and a range of fruit and vegetables for micronutrients as well as fermented foods and those with functional food claims.

I don’t eat low calorie things for ‘health’ as to me lesser energy doesn’t = health. Health is something promoted by something added not taken away. Eating low calorie food for me would be for weight loss which isn’t the same as ‘health’ promotion.

Certainly not low calorie UPF.

elledee412 · 25/09/2026 18:19

I’m on a GLP-1 so at this point I mostly just eat so I don’t pass out, but if something doesn’t taste good then I’m never hungry enough to force myself to eat it anymore.

I’m a bit neurotic about my 1 year old, though, because I’ve struggled with my weight since I was very young (hence the GLP) and don’t want that for him.

FinallyHere · 25/09/2026 19:01

Thevegetarianchef · 25/09/2026 15:04

I'm surprised anyone wouldn't eat healthier foods with all of the online advice and medical advice on tv.

The word ‘healthy’ is going a lot of heavy lifting in your introduction. I’m not sure there is agreement of what that actually means.

Consider how much of what you see online and on TV about ‘healthier’ foods is actually directly or indirectly advertising thief own products, someone selling something you would not otherwise eat.

if food is actually healthy, why would it need to be advertised?

Much research is ultimately funded by food industry organisations, so that anything which does not support the message they want to plug. Only research which provides supportive results ever get quoted.

Then consider the difference between the eye catching headlines and the actual article on which the headline is based.

it’s taken me until my sixties to understand what good really is good for my body, the kind which lets me notice when I’m full and can then easily stop eating. That gives me a spring in my step and has my skin clear and glowing.

of course it’s absolutely fine to have small amounts of ‘treat’ foods , say kettle chips but I find it easier to just not eat them than to have a few and then stop. As for eating a less palatable but lower calorie substitute, it’s very likely they will be highly processed with salt and flavouring to make anyone eat them.

Ever since big food manufacturers in the 1970’s discovered that they could make highly processed food with long shelf life taste enticing with salt and flavourings, heavily advertised to make them attractive to the consumer, our notion of what is ‘healthy eating’ has become seriously distorted.

The rise in consumption of these foods accounts for the increase in average weight and heart disease across the population.

John Yudkin was hounded out of his profession for exposing the dark workings of the food industry in his book about sugar Pure, white and deadly by food industry powers wanting to demonise fat in order to increase consumption of their processed rubbish substitute food.

Goodness, if you are still reading, thank you. Glad to get that rant off my chest.

TheeNotoriousPIG · 25/09/2026 19:05

I cook from scratch a lot... mainly because it tastes better, it is presumably better for my health, and I like cooking... even more so since I got a dishwasher, so I don't have mountains of washing up to deal with afterwards!

cupfinalchaos · 25/09/2026 19:14

I love healthy food which helps but no way am I depriving myself of the occasional crappy treat! I want to enjoy my life and as long as it’s only occasional what’s the harm?

Allmarbleslost · 25/09/2026 19:48

Well i mean I don't eat salad and vegetables because i enjoy them. If I only ate what I wanted to eat my diet would be 80% carbs and 20% cheese.

Harry12345 · 25/09/2026 19:59

I don’t enjoy meals if they’re not healthy, I eat fresh foods and have fruit if I want something sweet. I need to eat healthy due to a health condition so feel awful when I eat rubbish. It’s probably bordered on disordered eating at times but if I’m not strict I pay the price

iloveslowhorses · 25/09/2026 20:02

We are all different. I genuinely enjoy salad and veggies and would and do actively choose them over a pizza or a burger. DH cannot understand that, if health was no issue he’d eat a pizza or a burger every day. But it is, so he doesn’t.

NormasArse · 25/09/2026 20:05

I’ve got an app on my phone that gives a score out of 100 on packaged foods. It’s really interesting how some foods are marketed as healthy, but in reality are full of crap.

Dr13Hadley · 25/09/2026 20:09

There are some foods I love that are healthy which I enjoy eating because I like the taste and they’re good for me! They include seeded crackers from M&S and cottage cheese, dates (in moderation) and brown rice because I like the texture and flavour more than white rice (I know calorifically they aren’t much different but brown rice has more fibre).

I still do eat more crap than I should though. Chocolate is my weakness and I really don’t like dark chocolate sadly.

lebin · 25/09/2026 21:00

Not sure I understand what you’re asking - I assume most people eat for health and pleasure?

Five days a week I’ll have oats and fruit or similar for breakfast. If at the weekend I want a sausage sandwich I’ll have white bread, butter and ketchup because that’s how I like it. I know it’s not healthy - but in this instance I wouldn’t choose low fat alternatives because it’s a pleasure food not a health food.

GameOfJones · 25/09/2026 21:16

"Healthy" food can be a bit of a minefield though can't it? I wouldn't class a low calorie processed snack as healthy, but I'm one of the low UPF and more whole foods brigade!

I suppose I'm just cynical about a lot of the food industry. I look at these Skinny Whip bars and Huel Shakes in the supermarket that state they are healthy and just think "you're not even food." It all just seems like marketing bullshit that kept me obese for most of my life. I made the switch a couple of years ago and have never looked back. Nobody is trying to market carrots to me which tells me they're exactly the sort of thing I should be eating more of 🤣.

In your example I would happily eat crisps but would make sure they're just potatoes, oil and salt. I wouldn't worry at all about how many calories they were.

I do understand what you're saying though and I eat for both health and pleasure I think. I won't eat something I actively dislike but I eat plenty of foods that I will tolerate because they're good for me. Courgettes is one example, sardines are another! I try to model that for my children too.....not everything you eat has to be your favourite food. Sometimes it's good to eat an ingredient because it's good for us.

The more you eat healthy food though the more you enjoy it I think. I used to hate cottage cheese with a passion and now I genuinely love it so I've trained my taste buds somewhere along the line.

QuietComet · 25/09/2026 23:34

Thevegetarianchef · 25/09/2026 15:04

I'm surprised anyone wouldn't eat healthier foods with all of the online advice and medical advice on tv.

Surely everything in moderation?

I love food. I love trying new dishes and cuisines. I love going out for tasty meals and eating delicious ingredients. I could easily be the size of a house if it wasn't for diligent eating and an intolerance of fatty foods (sob).

My partner eats because he needs to. He has dry bread, he enjoys tasty food, but it's not high on his priorities. Funnily enough though, left to his own devices, his diet would likely be worse than mine, because he would be focused on convenience rather than nutrition and taste.

QuietComet · 25/09/2026 23:35

Allmarbleslost · 25/09/2026 19:48

Well i mean I don't eat salad and vegetables because i enjoy them. If I only ate what I wanted to eat my diet would be 80% carbs and 20% cheese.

95% cheese, 2% chutney, 1% grapes, 2% chocolate.

SpottyAlpaca · 25/09/2026 23:40

Both. I enjoy eating fresh fruit & veggies so I eat loads of both every day.

I also enjoy eating crisps & chocolate and drinking beer & wine. So I consume them as treats a the weekend because eating them every day would be unhealthy & stupid.

moto748e · 25/09/2026 23:45

50 years ago I ate a lot of wholemeal bread, wholemeal pasta, bloody alfalfa! Nowadays I hardly ever eat any of all that stuff, but I've been a veggie since I was about 20. So maybe a bit less healthy now, pizza (home-made), veg curries, quiches (sometimes home-made!), chilli beans. And egg and chips too! But no biscuits, cakes, sweets (except, rarely, home-made), no shitty soft drinks. It's done me OK so far, but it's easier for men.

Sparklyhat · 26/09/2026 00:25

I think this thread has made me realise why I’m so overweight. I’ve never thought of it before but for every meal and every snack I eat what I fancy. I don’t choose the healthy option, ever 😞 I am aware of that fact now and see how many people eat for health instead of what they fancy and I will try and adapt to that way of thinking

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