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Pleasantly surprised how cheap retirement is..

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Reproician · 24/09/2026 12:29

Two years ago I was earning £70k and living very nicely on it.

Then stuff happened and I decided to take very early retirement. I have good pensions to come in 5 years' time, but meantime have some casual work which earns £4k pa and investment income of about £12k. I planned to live off savings to fill the gap and budgeted up to £20k pa.

Now, I realise I am very fortunate and I am definitely not claiming poverty. I realise being well set up and then moving to a lower income is entirely different to a lifetime lived on a low income. My mortgage is paid off etc, but I am finding I only need to draw on the saving for one off big purchases. I've drawn £6k altogether in 2 years.

I'm still living a good life. I still spend without thinking to hard on the things I want, I still have a busy social life, I still travel multiple times a year.

Being able to be fully flexible means everything is cheaper. I can at the time of the week/month/year when flights are cheapest etc. And the money I must have been spending on clothes, food, travel for work etc. PlusbI think when you're working hard there's a tendency to spend on "treats" that you don't feel the need for when lofe is.lore relaxed.

Just me and an adult son at home. He pays some keep, but I don't make any profit out of him.

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Thistimearound · 25/09/2026 19:41

I realise being well set up and then moving to a lower income is entirely different to a lifetime lived on a low income. My mortgage is paid off etc
True but this is very much how it’s supposed to be though isn’t it.

Life is generally much more expensive in the earlier years - saving for a first car, a deposit for a first house, having a whole house worth of furniture to acquire, then young children to raise and pensions to save for.

It’s why comparing salaries makes so little sense - 20k or 50k or 100k a year as a 30 something with huge expenditure and a lifetime to save for is not the same as 20/50/100k as a retiree in the same way as salaries in high cost of living areas are not comparable to salaries is low.

Shinyhappyapple · 25/09/2026 19:43

Tedsnan1 · 25/09/2026 18:14

You are living the life you describe on £1300 a month? How can you afford to travel and have a busy social life?

More like £1600 per month

Allseeingallknowing · 25/09/2026 19:49

Zerosleep · 25/09/2026 19:12

I hope I am in a good position when I retire. I have a disability which may force me to retire early but I hope not. I have already put 30 years into my NI contributions for full state pension and I have a work pension with a projected value of £60k currently plus lump sum of £268k. I’m hoping I have enough as I don’t own any property. And to be honest I don’t really know if the projected value is accurate or even if it will be anywhere near that.

Sounds like a fabulous pension!

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Zerosleep · 25/09/2026 20:02

Allseeingallknowing · 25/09/2026 19:49

Sounds like a fabulous pension!

I hope it is, you know how these projections are, you never know if they are just pie in the sky. I’m hoping it feels fabulous when I get there. I may have two Sen kids grown up and still with me. Some days I’m unsure I will make it I’m so bloody tired.

ThisOldThang · 25/09/2026 20:06

Pibrea · 25/09/2026 19:35

This is why the pension triple lock needs to go

She's not claiming the state pension. Her income is private pensions and ISA investment income.

Dr13Hadley · 25/09/2026 20:14

If I retired tomorrow I could guarantee I’d save so much on food because I’d have time to cook from scratch! I’d probably halve the food budget for the week without even blinking. Everything has to be bought with time/convenience in mind. Not only the products but where they are bought from too. With more time I’d be able to shop around.

MrsJeanLuc · 25/09/2026 20:17

@Reproician I was like you when I first retired. Agree completely about the clothes, for example.

But, the thing is, you are relatively young (if you retired early). I have found as I get older I increasingly have to pay someone to do things I used to do myself - particularly gardening (it hurts me so much to kneel!), but also decorating, minor repairs, etc.

ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 25/09/2026 20:21

Reproician · 24/09/2026 14:15

I've always been a saver. Some of the deposit for my first house came from savings I'd built up from birthday and Christmas money in my childhood! It always went in to Post Office Savings Certificates.

When I started work I always had a standing order set up for savings on payday. Pay yourself first, not what you can afford at the end of the month. Later that became a S&S ISA.

When I was promoted over the years, I increased regular savings, not automatically increasing lifestyle, although that did happen too, I haven't been scrimping all my life.

Apart from a mortgage I've never borrowed anything. If I can't pay for it I can't have it, which means you are never stuck in a cycle of monthly payments.

And I've been lucky. Good mental and physical health and supportive family background means I've had opportunities to take and always been in work. Never in high paid jobs by MN standards and I started at the bottom and worked up, but I always progressed every few years. No career break for DC which I think was absolutely crucial, especially now I'm on my own.

I'm very pleased you're doing so well, OP. It sounds like a lot of very sensible decisions for retirement over the years, and you're reaping the best rewards now.

I agree, health matters hugely when it comes to getting a good life of working constantly too. My health declined badly in my mid 30s a decade ago after a horrible head injury and post concussion syndrome before being injured permanently by an off label antipsychotic that gave me a neurological involuntary movement disorder 😢

Sadly, I'm a bit of a spender and my mental health has been pretty bad since my TBI. I've spent quite frivolously over the years as an emotional response to my health, and I've got a pittance of a part time job now, and my pension is dreadfully meagre. I also took some time off as a career break to look after my youngest children, so that didn't help.

Enjoy your retirement, OP. It sounds great and well deserved. ✨️🏆

thicklysettled · 25/09/2026 20:24

Badbadbunny · 24/09/2026 15:41

We never started spending frivolously. Not even when we were teens. We worked hard for our money (part time jobs alongside school/college etc) in evenings and weekends. We didn't know each other back then so it was coincidental we both did the same. Every penny spent we carefully thought about. I used to spend some wages and save some wages, religiously every week. Going to the bank every Monday lunchtime to bank, usually, at least half of my part time job wages. I limited myself to what I'd spent on the Saturday shopping trip out and for socialising/pubs/discos on Friday/Saturday evenings. It was in the era of high interest rates, so I was motivated by watching the interest get added to the account on top of the pay-ins. Me and DH didn't meet until early 20s, but we were both surprised the other did exactly the same and pretty early on, we compared our bank savings pass books (Yes, how romantic!!). It worked out well because during our courting days, neither of us felt pressured to spend money on things we didn't value, so we'd spend time feeding the ducks (obviously we bought half price out of date bread at the shop on the way!!). Neither of us had many clothes as we spent our self-determined "clothing fund" on work clothes, so we tended to buy each other clothes for birthdays and christmas rather than landfill destined nonsense gimmicks. Even on holiday, we'd pre-agree a budget, typically (in those days!), a fiver each for lunch and a tenner each for evening meal and a tenner each per day for anything else - we never even rented sunbeds on the beach, we'd just sit on our towels. You can have just as much fun on a budget and it pays dividends for the future.

While I'm glad that paid dividends for you now, it sounds like an incredibly joyless way to live. Merry Christmas, my love, here's a pair of trousers. 😂

Widoeeyes · 25/09/2026 20:33

i was thinking the other day that we wouldn’t need anywhere near as much money as we spend now in retirement. We are planning to downsize; so no mortgage (save £1k a month) and lower council tax / utilities (save £250 a month), no cleaners needed (£160 a month), no dog walker (£300 a month) no takeaways etc (£100 a month) no life insurance (£50 a month) and our son won’t need childcare or various clubs / tuition (£400 a minth) so at least £2 k a month less In spends

herbetta · 25/09/2026 20:46

DoubleShotEspressox · 24/09/2026 14:06

This is nice to hear. Unfortunately I’m mid/late 30s, small kids and just upsized to a massive mortgage so have a long way ahead of me yet.

I’d love to know what you did during your working years to ensure you could enjoy your retirement?

We earn well but don’t have great pensions and savings are tiny, huge expenses with house/kids but working to “catch up”. I wonder if you have any tips on how to get set up for retirement?

I'm no expert, but it's time in the market & tax efficiency. Also what are your savings rates vs mortgage rates.

Do you both have employer pensions? What are your tax rates?

We also bank / invest what we like to call 'free money'. We both have all the supermarket loyalty cards etc and play them off against/ between each other. All the vouchers earned are banked. Likewise we use our employee discount schemes to get discounted giftcards for everything - we bank those discounts too. Plus cashback - all that is approx £100 per month!

Also stooze money from 0% credit cards - currently earns us circa £150 in interest per month. So that is £250 pm to invest, in pensions you will get the tax back on that as well. All of a sudden that's £312.50 pm or £3750 pa to invest & compound. And that's just the free money Grin

Diddleydo43 · 25/09/2026 20:47

HonorBound · 24/09/2026 13:38

Working is expensive, and added to that people get themselves into a system of paying for stuff they don’t need

time is precious

Yeah bc i had unscheduled free time yesterday, I made a yummy dinner out if stuff in the freezer mainly.

Most times I end up doing ready meals bc thats all I have the energy for.

mumumental · 25/09/2026 20:49

Pibrea · 25/09/2026 19:35

This is why the pension triple lock needs to go

I did wonder if there was a subtext here.

scoopsahoooy · 25/09/2026 21:16

PaperFlyingFucks · 24/09/2026 13:50

They say to have a comfortable retirement you need £45,400 p.a. for a single person. You're at c.£19,000 p.a. and sound quite comfortable!

I'm going to do the Rebel Finance School to get a handle on my numbers!

That's a lot of money. I don't earn that now, plus pay a mortgage, pay into pension, still have student loans etc - and I have a car, go on holidays, have a nice life. I can't imagine how loaded I'd feel if I earned 45k and didn't have a mortgage and my pension and student loans coming out each month.

GarlicSomething · 25/09/2026 21:19

DeftGoldHedgehog · 24/09/2026 13:50

Yes, there is a ton of cost associated with work itself, so you can live on a lot less than you think when housing costs are taken care of.

Yep. It varies hugely, of course. My last few years at work, I was earning quite well - top 5% so not rich, but definitely had plenty of spare. Or I should have!

In fact, I spent small fortunes all the time because I was unhappy and stressed. Lots of taxis, coffee & danish every morning, lunch out, drinks and more drinks, beauty treatments and an expensive gym to stave off the effects, dinner at really nice restaurants just for the comfort, clothes & shoes 'because I'm worth it', weekend away at least once a month. M&S ready meals at home and too much good wine to go with them.

Looking back, I saw what I was doing but couldn't see a way out. So congrats to OP and PPs who had more sense than me and made it work! Glad you're enjoying your extended pre-retirement holiday, and long may it last 😎

GlobalTravellerbutespeciallyBognor · 25/09/2026 21:38

Cadeaukatze · 24/09/2026 16:23

But you are contributing with everything you buy (VAT is a lot), fuel tax, petrol tax, everything is taxed.

And if you have enough of an income you will pay tax. It's only about £12k a year before you have to pay it.

I also don't object to IHT as I think it helps to level the playing field and if you spend spend spend there's less of it to pay anyway. It's a tax on hoarders. It' a bit different if you die young but if you die in your 90s you had plenty of time to reduce your estate.

The problem with this concept of levelling the playing field via IHT is that many people are motivated by a desire to give their children more than they had. (We can argue over whether that’s sensible in itself but that’s another issue.) Taking 40pc of their earned capital would reduce the incentive to work, build a successful business and employ people, ie it would operate to discourage the exact behaviours every western economy seeks to encourage.

WaterlooBridge · 25/09/2026 22:14

MalewhoisLaffinalltheway · 25/09/2026 11:12

Sorry for the delay in getting back to you. I was out doing my evening job last night and just catching up.
Don't really want to say what I did for a living as my employer was a sensitive corporation, but similar to a Civil Servant. Office/Desk job.
My finishing salary was about 70K and as I said previously, I was with the same employer for 30+ years. Not always in the same role, as I moved internally twice.
I can't emphasise the importance of AVCs if you have that opportunity. I'd never have been able to retire if I didn't have the security of that lump sum created by the AVCs.

Who knew spying came with such a good pension provision 😁

ConstantlyFuriosa · 25/09/2026 22:46

AnaColombiana · 25/09/2026 19:19

What about if you rent?

Then you’re fucked.

Outtaxed · 26/09/2026 05:47

AnaColombiana · 25/09/2026 19:19

What about if you rent?

You need to factor that in for the rest of your life. Put money in investments if possible to help cover that cost, or save to buy a small place in the future (if realistic). This issue will be a massive problem for younger generations who are priced out of the housing market or paying mortgages well into retirement.

Anyone who has had a decent job and retiring around now should be doing rather well as they’ve likely benefited from modest mortgages and housing prices (of course this is a generalization: ill health, divorce, unemployment can screw that all up).

Differentforgirls · 26/09/2026 06:58

Widoeeyes · 25/09/2026 20:33

i was thinking the other day that we wouldn’t need anywhere near as much money as we spend now in retirement. We are planning to downsize; so no mortgage (save £1k a month) and lower council tax / utilities (save £250 a month), no cleaners needed (£160 a month), no dog walker (£300 a month) no takeaways etc (£100 a month) no life insurance (£50 a month) and our son won’t need childcare or various clubs / tuition (£400 a minth) so at least £2 k a month less In spends

Why wouldn’t you need life insurance?

FruAashild · 26/09/2026 07:15

People keep saying they live on less than £45K now and can't imagine having that much in retirement but 'comfortable' in these discussions actually mean 'rich' to most people. I have ex colleagues who have retired on final salary pensions who have similar or higher retirement incomes. They drive nice cars, have multiple trips abroad every year (I'd say a holiday every couple of months), their houses are beautifully maintained, they eat at Michelin starred restaurants, go to the theatre regularly, have lots of expensive hobbies, help out their children financially. Similar to their lifestyle when they were working (but with longer and more frequent holidays because they have more time). And when you are in that bracket of society you are likely to enjoy good health well into retirement so will continue that lifestyle for longer. My MIL died recently aged 90, she had multiple trips abroad all her life, her last one was just 6 months before she died. If you are on a 6 figure sum before retirement then the idea of living on £45K in retirement feels like a massive drop.

FruAashild · 26/09/2026 07:18

Differentforgirls · 26/09/2026 06:58

Why wouldn’t you need life insurance?

People typically have life insurance to pay off their mortgage and provide an income for their dependents. The only reason for having life insurance in retirement is to pay off your IHT bill so your heirs get all your assets.

Differentforgirls · 26/09/2026 07:24

FruAashild · 26/09/2026 07:18

People typically have life insurance to pay off their mortgage and provide an income for their dependents. The only reason for having life insurance in retirement is to pay off your IHT bill so your heirs get all your assets.

Edited

What about your funeral costs? We’re both retired and have life insurance. No mortgage to pay off. Very unlikely there will be inheritance tax. House is worth about £300k.

Epoisses · 26/09/2026 07:26

Differentforgirls · 26/09/2026 07:24

What about your funeral costs? We’re both retired and have life insurance. No mortgage to pay off. Very unlikely there will be inheritance tax. House is worth about £300k.

We have paid for our direct cremations already. No wasting money on a funeral

Differentforgirls · 26/09/2026 07:42

Epoisses · 26/09/2026 07:26

We have paid for our direct cremations already. No wasting money on a funeral

The funeral isn’t really for those who have died, it’s for those left behind.

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