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Does your child skip lunch due to queues?

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Schoolcanteen · 23/09/2026 12:28

DC’s school has 1,600 pupils. Lunch is at 1.20 -2.20 for all of them, so many are ravenous already. There is one period after lunch, so I understand why many might just wait until they get home or get something on
the way home, due to the queues and late lunchtime. The canteen opens at 8.10, but the playground line up to go to class finishes by 8.20, so it’s a bit pointless trying to get something for later. How hungry is your child and have you made the reluctant switch to packed lunches? Is our school an outlier in trying to cater for this many kids in such a short window or is this just how things are? There are also a few food vans dotted around, but the queues are very long too.

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Phineyj · 25/09/2026 13:55

As in, you don't know how children in the past would have behaved with no "midday supervisors".

Phineyj · 25/09/2026 13:56

JustAnotherWhinger · 25/09/2026 11:09

Staffing is a big problem. The other issue is that parents just accept it and complaints from the kids are ignored by the school.

The high school near us has two canteen spaces (one huge kitchen), kids can take lunch to their dorm classes and all the kids get lunch in their 1h 15min lunch time. The next nearest has 45 mins for lunch, one small space, and it’s notorious for kids not getting fed.

The biggest difference is a very vocal parent group that got involved a few years ago. They put a lot of pressure on the trust to sort lunches (at one point about 300 kids had letters from parents saying their child was to finish lunch before returning to class).

It forced the trust to employ midday staff (they had to pay decent wages to get them) and rejig how they did things.

It was quite amusing for staff at the time because we couldn’t say anything, but it was impressive to see the parents force the trust to allow changes staff had been asking for for ages!

That's interesting.

See also: toilets.

JustAnotherWhinger · 25/09/2026 14:22

CarlaH · 25/09/2026 12:25

Why is the behaviour of children so bad that schools are cutting lunch breaks to the bone?

It’s not just the behaviour of children that’s changed, it’s what’s acceptable to parents.

When I was in P7 I was the head infant monitor. 7 of us P7s looked after the 4 infant classes in the playground. The janitor moved between the two playgrounds, but there was no adult supervision.

We dealt with scraped knees and fall outs. Only reporting anything major to the school office (the staff there had lunch and breaks at different times to the teachers) if it was immediate or to the teacher after the break otherwise.

In several schools I’ve worked in it’s been discussed that actually the kids haven’t changed so much and the schools could use that system, but parents now wouldn’t stand for that kind of system.

There now needs to be adults around at all times, which does cause difficulties for schools as they either have to find and pay people to do lunchtimes (which isn’t easy) or they have to juggle round the staff that they have. Which means in many schools you have SLT and/or office staff covering the kids on breaks and then

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Samysungy · 25/09/2026 16:25

Lexibletheflexible · 25/09/2026 04:47

Many sit in the classrooms with a lovely drink all day. Then they enoy a quiet lunch marking some books. The kids are outside, starving because there isnt any point in eating. I bet they wouldnt mind leafing through a book while they enjoyed a proper meal.

Ah yes the preparation fairies do all their work for them and send all emails! ha ha!

CarlaH · 25/09/2026 17:10

JustAnotherWhinger · 25/09/2026 14:22

It’s not just the behaviour of children that’s changed, it’s what’s acceptable to parents.

When I was in P7 I was the head infant monitor. 7 of us P7s looked after the 4 infant classes in the playground. The janitor moved between the two playgrounds, but there was no adult supervision.

We dealt with scraped knees and fall outs. Only reporting anything major to the school office (the staff there had lunch and breaks at different times to the teachers) if it was immediate or to the teacher after the break otherwise.

In several schools I’ve worked in it’s been discussed that actually the kids haven’t changed so much and the schools could use that system, but parents now wouldn’t stand for that kind of system.

There now needs to be adults around at all times, which does cause difficulties for schools as they either have to find and pay people to do lunchtimes (which isn’t easy) or they have to juggle round the staff that they have. Which means in many schools you have SLT and/or office staff covering the kids on breaks and then

Thanks.

Schoolcanteen · 25/09/2026 17:50

It’s weird how such normal things - eating, going to the toilet, thermal comfort are treated as such difficult mountains.

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BobbleBear · 25/09/2026 18:01

DS is 17 and has never eaten any lunch at secondary school as he hates the noise and busy-ness of the canteen area.

He leaves home around 8am and gets back about 5pm absolutely starving. He won’t take water, snacks or food with him so he just copes.

A few times he fainted during PE but he doesn’t do PE since 3rd year, so that’s a bonus.

DeadMemories · 25/09/2026 18:19

Yes DD is in year 9 and the queues are horrendous. She takes snacks like crisps and party rings then has some toast as soon as she gets home

Lexibletheflexible · 26/09/2026 04:44

Samysungy · 25/09/2026 16:25

Ah yes the preparation fairies do all their work for them and send all emails! ha ha!

Sending a few emails while you enjoy a lovely lunch isn't the same as standing outside with an empty stomach.

Samysungy · 28/09/2026 14:27

Lexibletheflexible · 26/09/2026 04:44

Sending a few emails while you enjoy a lovely lunch isn't the same as standing outside with an empty stomach.

You don't get a lovely lunch. That is the issue. Do you think eating a banana while standing up is a good lunch to have during a 10 hour working day plus commute? Why are these kids not taking food to school? Being outside is good for kids. Stop being a snowflake about them being outside in the fresh air.

Lexibletheflexible · 28/09/2026 14:37

Samysungy · 28/09/2026 14:27

You don't get a lovely lunch. That is the issue. Do you think eating a banana while standing up is a good lunch to have during a 10 hour working day plus commute? Why are these kids not taking food to school? Being outside is good for kids. Stop being a snowflake about them being outside in the fresh air.

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Because many schools don't allow children to bring any food. Including packed lunch. So they starve all day while the teachers enjoy snacks and refreshments as and when they want. Nobody searches their bags for food they might have brought in.

TheeNotoriousPIG · 28/09/2026 14:48

We had this at school. Something like 1,400 students, split between three half-hour lunches. By the time you'd collected your lunch and sat down at a table, the bell would ring and you'd be expected to rush off to lesson. Some people had packed lunches, and others just didn't eat at school (in my case, it was partly that, partly because of food intolerances, and because I was too anxious about eating in front of other people).

mybeautifulemeraldparure · 28/09/2026 14:56

Schoolcanteen · 25/09/2026 17:50

It’s weird how such normal things - eating, going to the toilet, thermal comfort are treated as such difficult mountains.

Right. How many secondary schools have you worked in, and helped to manage all of this for c1,700 teenagers?

BirdLandedonmyHead · 28/09/2026 15:06

Lexibletheflexible · 28/09/2026 14:37

Because many schools don't allow children to bring any food. Including packed lunch. So they starve all day while the teachers enjoy snacks and refreshments as and when they want. Nobody searches their bags for food they might have brought in.

Where are these schools that dont allow packed lunches?

mybeautifulemeraldparure · 28/09/2026 15:08

BobbleBear · 25/09/2026 18:01

DS is 17 and has never eaten any lunch at secondary school as he hates the noise and busy-ness of the canteen area.

He leaves home around 8am and gets back about 5pm absolutely starving. He won’t take water, snacks or food with him so he just copes.

A few times he fainted during PE but he doesn’t do PE since 3rd year, so that’s a bonus.

Why doesn't he take anything? He could take water, cereal bars, fruit, wraps..eat something at break and something at lunchtime? That's what lots of students do.

Lexibletheflexible · 28/09/2026 16:18

BirdLandedonmyHead · 28/09/2026 15:06

Where are these schools that dont allow packed lunches?

Many of the academies near me do not allow packed lunch. All kids have to have school dinners.

WhatDoRacoonsSay · 28/09/2026 16:25

This all sounds insane.
I started secondary in the late 80s, there were two canteens for 1100 of us, and priority changed every month so everyone had a good turn of going second, sixth formers were always first.
We were also allowed out for lunch.
What's gone so wrong now?

mybeautifulemeraldparure · 28/09/2026 16:28

WhatDoRacoonsSay · 28/09/2026 16:25

This all sounds insane.
I started secondary in the late 80s, there were two canteens for 1100 of us, and priority changed every month so everyone had a good turn of going second, sixth formers were always first.
We were also allowed out for lunch.
What's gone so wrong now?

Lunchtime has to be reduced because that's when the worst behaviour occurs and there's never enough supervision.

stepoutoftime · 28/09/2026 17:58

It was like this at my school, plus we were not allowed to eat inside. I once nearly choked on my cheese sandwich trying to eat it quickly, and I’m sure it encouraged my bulimia. Terrible!

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