What if you met someone who is lack of good manner educated about how to respected the others?

[justicefriend]

A friend of mine recently shared a story about how she felt uncomfortable when she been met a lady without probably manners educated and respected behaviors from here.
She told me that and she let me help her with this post to a Lady who’s named “Downtownlaughing” it seems this lady she just really doesn’t get enough good education from her parents for how to be friendly as a person who should be. T

She said that Lady kept using her offensive words and behavior to attack my friend. Also on purpose to reported my friend to making her get banned from this platform. That’s extremely rude and without educating behaviors whatever whereas you are from.

Eh?

If anyone else’s is known this lady please kindly take a screenshot for this post to her and tell her specifically what what’s happening and how my friend would like to let her know she’s not going to get any understandable and forgiven from anyone at all due to her behaviors! She should really go back to kindergarten to learn how to being a good person.

First post nailed it.

If anyone else’s is known this lady please kindly take a screenshot for this post to her and tell her specifically what what’s happening and how my friend would like to let her know she’s not going to get any understandable and forgiven from anyone at all due to her behaviors! She should really go back to kindergarten to learn how to being a good person.

@justicefriend no one knows what you’re talking about.

On the wine or gin ?

She probably will showing on this post too and attacking me because I am helping my friend

I suspect that OP has used a translation programme from her first language.

It's clear though. Her friend posted on here and another poster was arsey towards her then got her banned

If you have an issue with a particular post you need to report the post to Mumsnet - not start a new post. No one knows what you’re talking about.

She said this lady kept using offensive language and behaviour to attack my friend. She also intentionally reported my friend to get her banned from this platform. That is incredibly rude and bad behaviour, no matter where you come from.If anyone knows this lady, please screenshot this post and send it to her. Tell her exactly what’s going on. My friend wants her to know that no one will offer her understanding or forgiveness for her behaviour. She really ought to go back to kindergarten and learn how to be a decent person.

I’m from Busan, South Korea.

It is quite hard to get banned from Mumsnet. Are you sure your “friend” behaved well?

Well, Lady Cressida Bottomley-Fitzherbert, my manners coach has always advised that one should refrain from making observations regarding another’s education and respectable comportment until one’s own linguistic arrangements have been suitably brought into line with the general expectations of civilised discourse.

I trust this provides the requisite clarification, or at the very least contributes constructively to the broader question of how these matters might, in due course, be appropriately regarded.

Yes, my friend didn’t do anything wrong. But that lady kept attacking her. She mentioned someone selling cheap necklaces and left comments about sales platforms on my friend’s post on purpose. She is really ill-mannered.

Ah yes, well, necklaces or jewellery often incite rage in others - such an unsightly response.

My advice is to simply retreat behind one’s nearest ornamental chaise longue, allow the jewellery to settle emotionally, and refrain from further engagement until everyone has regained a suitable level of composure. One must never underestimate the social consequences of an inadequately supervised necklace.

Good,I admire your elegant command of prose. Yet polished grammar is not the same thing as basic human kindness.
One may wield fine words and still lack the decency to treat others fairly.

This really isn't worth your time or effort. Being banned from Mumsnet is no great tragedy.

How wonderfully theatrical. It is not the necklace at fault, but those who choose to weaponise trivial commerce remarks to harass others.
A chaise longue may calm frayed nerves, yet it cannot excuse petty malice dressed up as refined wit.

A ban itself is no tragedy. What matters is the terrible experience this person’s behaviour inflicted on my friend. Even small, unintended actions can have a profound impact on others. That is why I chose to stand up for her.

That lady had a bad experience with her own purchase, yet she ought not to take that frustration out on my friend. My friend did nothing wrong at all. There is no reason for her to launch such attacks. She simply transferred her own negative feelings from that unpleasant shopping experience onto someone entirely uninvolved.

Was your friend selling jewellery on Mumsnet or advertising somebody else's jewellery? Advertising is not allowed.

Ah, quite so - and I fear my earlier remarks may have allowed the chaise longue to become rather more involved in proceedings than was strictly necessary.

My manners coach has always impressed upon me that even the most spirited exchange concerning inexpensive neckwear should, wherever possible, be conducted with grace, good humour and an appropriate amount of tea.

I entirely agree that kindness is rather important, although I maintain that there is no reason why it cannot occasionally be accompanied by completely unnecessary levels of aristocratic nonsense. I trust this settles the matter satisfactorily, or at least allows it to be placed somewhere discreet until luncheon.

As for your friend’s recent exile from Mumsnet, I think one should regard such events not as a social catastrophe, but as a brief period of enforced digital sabbatical - rather like being asked to leave the drawing room while the footmen rearrange the furniture.

My friend was not selling necklaces or advertising anything here at all. Yet that lady kept commenting on my friend’s post, repeatedly asking if she was the person selling cheap necklaces. She ranted about her terrible experience with a flawed flower bracelet and took all her negative feelings out on my friend.

It's hard to make a sensible reply without knowing what actually happened. Your friend must have inadvertently broken the rules as there is no other way to get banned. Swearing and bad language is allowed on Mumsnet