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ON GOING ASB NEIGHBOUR FROM HELL - what can i realistically do?

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kylieko1978 · 15/08/2026 11:55

I’m looking for advice from anyone who has dealt with serious neighbour-related antisocial behaviour or a housing association that has failed to act effectively.

I’m a leaseholder in a converted house, and the upstairs flat is occupied by a housing association tenant. For almost a year, I’ve experienced repeated late-night parties, loud music, deliberate banging and stomping, shouting, door slamming and noise continuing into the early hours. I have extensive recordings and a dated incident log.

The situation escalated when I was verbally threatened by my neighbour and her partner. I reported this to the police and have a crime reference number. There have also been incidents involving abusive shouting outside my bedroom window and banging on my door.

The communal entrance door was repeatedly slammed and became badly damaged. An engineer attended and confirmed the damage, filmed it and installed a temporary lock, but the door has still not been properly replaced. This has made me feel especially unsafe because the neighbour appears to have numerous visitors coming and going.

The housing association issued a verbal tenancy warning on 1 July and a written warning on 16 July, but the behaviour continued. My case was previously closed without telling me, leaving me unable to submit reports for a period. My caseworker then left the organisation without informing me or arranging a proper handover, and several of my emails went unanswered.

The situation is severely affecting my sleep, mental health, work and ability to feel safe in my own home. I have now applied for an ASB Case Review/Community Trigger, contacted the council’s ASB team and local councillors, and asked the housing association to consider an injunction.

Has anyone successfully dealt with a similar situation? Should I now speak to a solicitor about seeking an injunction myself, pursue statutory noise nuisance action through the council, or make a formal complaint to the Housing Ombudsman? I want to start a family soon but shes ruining me!!!

OP posts:
CornishTiger · 15/08/2026 20:01

Believe me I knew exactly what my HA should have been doing and still they didn’t. I used to work for then! Not til the ombudsman ruling did they sit up when they were found to be ant fault in all counts and it’s was highly embarrassing for them.

The ombudsman report called incompetent. It was a beautiful read.

I however have PTSD.

kylieko1978 · 15/08/2026 20:15

CornishTiger · 15/08/2026 20:01

Believe me I knew exactly what my HA should have been doing and still they didn’t. I used to work for then! Not til the ombudsman ruling did they sit up when they were found to be ant fault in all counts and it’s was highly embarrassing for them.

The ombudsman report called incompetent. It was a beautiful read.

I however have PTSD.

i am so sorry i can only empathise with what you are going through. my mental health, livelihood, and career have all deteriorated. i am waiting for my stage 2 complaint to then go forward with the Housing Ombudsman xx

OP posts:
Awkwardisfunny · 16/08/2026 20:26

CornishTiger · 15/08/2026 19:48

This is awful advice. You can’t do a money claim for that. You’ll just waste your fee.

If they're breaching their contract and it's causing / exacerbating OP's mental health issues or they sent notice saying there is now a charge / fine for using their property: I believe they can. Of course, it needs legal advice and it isn't a quick fix. But a letter before claim and fear of escalating costs plus fear of a CCJ could stop the behaviour.

Awkwardisfunny · 16/08/2026 20:31

kylieko1978 · 15/08/2026 19:46

thank you! I have been trying my best to try and get things even a tiny bit improved however my neighbour simply does not want to improve. Expecting someone like that. to improve would mean she would need a whole new personality. I dont think i can go down the route of a CCJ as she does not have much at all. Shes on assured tennacy with the HA and im sure the council pays for her rent. She also doesnt work, or pay her council tax, water bill and her prepayment meter continuously beeps into emergency funds. This is a person who doesnt have much in life and behaves in a negative way to society. Ive tried my best to help her too but some people simply wont change esp bc shes double my age!

I get you. That's really sad. They need special accommodation for people like that away from others. Nice accommodation, just designed with her mindset / abilities in mind.

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