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Despairing at lack of volunteering opportunities for DS

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StrikesAtticFlat · Today 17:05

Tearing my hair out with DS21. He is about to start his final year at uni. We asked him this summer to seek voluntary work or an internship to help his future career (Birmingham area). He has an internship lined up but has wasted weeks being unable to start due to admin errors (partly his fault, partly theirs). Meanwhile he says he has applied online for over 15 volunteer positions with charities - ranging from Age to Shelter to the RSPCA to Compassion in World Farming. NONE of them have got back to him...not one. He has been around local charity shops and they don't need anyone.
I am veering between disbelieving him and despairing that there is nothing for an enthusiastic, intelligent young person to do in a huge city even when they are not asking for pay!! I am now just praying that the internship actually happens but it will be another couple of weeks even if the admin stuff is indeed sorted...
Does anyone have any ideas of what else he could try re volunteer work?
He has applied to the following: Tabor Living/ Helping Hands Birmingham/ Age UK/ WWF/ RSPCA/ RSPB/ Botanical Gardens (the only one to get back to him! They aren't recruiting any volunteers because of the drought). Greenpeace...etc etc.

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StrikesAtticFlat · Today 18:26

StudenTessa · Today 18:24

Has he tried his university intranet? My uni’s employability hub sends me loads of emails on a virtually daily basis, with opportunities for voluntary work - much of which can be done remotely or involve working on week long residentials over the summer. I’ve even shared a few of these with DC, who is at a different university.

I do tend to find that young adults, despite growing up with the whole internet in their pockets, are absolutely rubbish at researching and finding out about these sorts of things.

Thank you - and yes, they are (or can be) quite rubbish!! 😄

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PrincessofWills · Today 18:29

StrikesAtticFlat · Today 17:46

Please read my last post. Thanks!

May really is to late to apply.

Firstly most internships need to.be applied for months in advance, so September - Nov for the following summer.

Volunteers need training and most need applications in by March for the summer.

Your son isn't 'getting it'.

Lookatthatrain · Today 18:30

Litter picking?

RaininSummer · Today 18:33

StrikesAtticFlat · Today 17:46

Please read my last post. Thanks!

Sorry.. don't know how I missed that.

StrikesAtticFlat · Today 18:34

PrincessofWills · Today 18:29

May really is to late to apply.

Firstly most internships need to.be applied for months in advance, so September - Nov for the following summer.

Volunteers need training and most need applications in by March for the summer.

Your son isn't 'getting it'.

He has an internship lined up, thanks. That’s not what my post was about.
“Your son isn’t getting it.”
Thanks for this helpful comment!

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StrikesAtticFlat · Today 18:34

RaininSummer · Today 18:33

Sorry.. don't know how I missed that.

No worries at all! Thanks.

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StrikesAtticFlat · Today 18:36

I’m bowing out now. Genuine thanks for all the helpful suggestions and ideas. That’s all I wanted, not a lecture about the perils of helping a 21 year old or asking probing questions to pick apart things that are irrelevant and private.
Have a good evening, all!

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Binnyforthewin · Today 18:40

The National Trust used to run volunteering holidays that were focused week long opportunities.

lisaloo88 · Today 18:41

Scouts

PrincessofWills · Today 18:42

StrikesAtticFlat · Today 18:34

He has an internship lined up, thanks. That’s not what my post was about.
“Your son isn’t getting it.”
Thanks for this helpful comment!

I stand by my post. You said

" He has an internship lined up but has wasted weeks being unable to start due to admin errors (partly his fault, partly theirs)."

So it sounds that he very much isn't getting it . . .

DorisTheFinkasaurus · Today 18:47

The council is always looking for parks/green space volunteers to help with local gardening and maintenance. If you Google names of local parks/green spaces within your area/borough, you should be able to contact them (via council website/FB page/green space page) about volunteering (in my area, this is the case, so I imagine this is sort of universal... I hope.).
Also look into English Heritage and National Trust.
Haven't read the whole thread so forgive me if these suggestions have already been made.

clamshell24 · Today 18:52

Similar situation here and posters saying ‘why didn’t he sort it out at easter’ are not helping. Almost all the young men I know of (and many young women) are organisationally challenged, I’m sure due in large part to the ease of life at home/in bed/covid times/social media. It’s a good idea of yours to send him opportunities. Soup kitchen? Food bank? Charity shops often have waiting lists of volunteers! In addition, nearly all the local council opps i see are ‘once a week 2-4’, not useful for a student going back in a month.

JacknDiane · Today 18:57

StrikesAtticFlat · Today 18:25

Thank you so much. This has actually made me well up. Thank you.

No problem. I have 2 sons slightly older than yours. Both well educated and independent and doing great. I helped them as much as they'd let me along the way. They appreciated it. It didn't hinder them or stop them helping themselves in anyway.

JacknDiane · Today 19:00

PrincessofWills · Today 18:42

I stand by my post. You said

" He has an internship lined up but has wasted weeks being unable to start due to admin errors (partly his fault, partly theirs)."

So it sounds that he very much isn't getting it . . .

No you're not getting it Princess. Your snidey remarks aren't appreciated or helping the op out. So take them elsewhere.

Keepingthingsinteresting · Today 19:05

Having recruited and coordinated volunteers @StrikesAtticFlat most organisations do not want someone on uni hols going in to their last year who isn’t going to last long or be committed, it’s just not worth the onboarding, training etc.

Hairyfairy01 · Today 19:06

National trust, park run, scouts, local football / swim clubs, food banks, care homes, rising for the disabled, local wildlife trusts…… I could go on. I spect he’s not going to these places in person.

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