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What do you use chatGPT for, if you use it at all?

155 replies

Groaaan · 10/08/2026 16:19

A friend told me her workload has halved since she started using it but I couldn’t understand how, something to do with spreadsheets. Then I’ve just been reading an AMA where they are, very worryingly to me, having some kind of fantasy relationship with it.

I’ve used it to design an invitation to a 50th and for ideas about designing my new kitchen but nothing more.

Just wondering what other people use it for, if they do at all.

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StarieNight · 11/08/2026 07:16

TwinDolphin · 10/08/2026 22:58

Prior to a couple of weeks ago, I hadn't used ChatGPT at all. But so many people raved about how useful it could be that I decided to give it a whirl. I asked how to create a rather tricky shortcut for Word documents, but the instructions turned out to be useless (adding unnecessary steps, giving inaccurate information) that I abandoned the whole thing. I also asked it to identify a song I have wanted to find for years. Admittedly, I didn't have many useful details to work with, but it couldn't locate the song and offered completely random suggestions instead.

I teach in a university and I don't want my students to use ChatGPT as a shortcut or a way to avoid actually doing essential work, so I feel it would be hypocritical for me to use it myself for teaching. I wouldn't touch it with a barge pole when writing or conducting research.

I also think AI can be exceptionally dangerous when people rely on it for medical information or relationship advice.

I think it's critical that you put your questions for students into ai so you can recognise the answers and see if they are using it.
My aunt works in 6 form and said use is rife

DozyCrow · 11/08/2026 07:17

I'm having my garden landscaped so I've been using it to generate design ideas.

I also use it to enhance or alter photos - backgrounds, focus, remove things or people. I also managed to create a lovely picture of my two DDs together. They very rarely have a photo taken together and when they do, one will be pouting or something.

PearlsTeapot · 11/08/2026 18:44

I use it for so much, I have lots of 'projects' including therapy/parenting/mounjaro/money management. I wouldn't be without it now and think it's well worth the £7 a month I choose to pay. Yes I know it hallucinates but the internet as a whole should be taken carefully and it's no different.

canuckup · 11/08/2026 19:08

Use it work to write text

I then tweak it to sound like a human

tobee · 11/08/2026 19:16

Venting/letting off steam for things because I want a sounding board for things to do with sorting stuff to do with my elderly parents, care needs and finances etc. it’s useful because it’s not emotionally involved and it’s always an ok time with ChatGpt 😀

Ideas about how to sort out practical things in my life.

Ideas on how to write a tricky letter

Games and quizzes when I was bored.

i have an account and is now very good at recommending me films, books and audiobooks to read, see or listen to.

Its quite useful that it makes obvious mistakes currently to keep you on track with being aware of its limitations.

I also find it amusing that, as dd says, it blows smoke up your ass. 😀

stample · 11/08/2026 19:19

Recipes
posters
cartoon style images for work (childcare)
create a photo of a family scenario (my family but when haven’t all been together and merged them)

PearlsTeapot · 11/08/2026 21:38

canuckup · 11/08/2026 19:08

Use it work to write text

I then tweak it to sound like a human

I used it to write cover letters while I was job hunting and I always used to say “write in a friendly human not-ai voice” and it makes a big difference! Try it

MrsOctaviaCharlotteSmythe · 11/08/2026 22:01

PearlsTeapot · 11/08/2026 21:38

I used it to write cover letters while I was job hunting and I always used to say “write in a friendly human not-ai voice” and it makes a big difference! Try it

and i add make it flow, keep to essentials, etc then it in theory makes it seem more human written

throwaway3749574 · 11/08/2026 23:40

I find it helpful but I also don’t like how I am going to it for more and more things. Although recently I’ve found Google AI better than ChatGPT. I’ve used it to help choose paint colours/panels/flooring/fixtures for new bathroom and am happy with the result; other decorating choices; to plan and find best prices for holidays; plan itineraries for cruise ports; get relationship issues off my chest; recreate a spice mix from hello fresh; choosing seats for an expensive theatre trip; and lots of help at the moment with helping yr10 dd catch up on some gcse work over the summer, plan revision etc.; ooh also advice on choosing an evening dress on vinted and lipstick colours. As well as getting parenting stuff off my chest. DIY and gardening questions. Im
a single parent so it functions a bit as a partner to bounce ideas off.

throwaway3749574 · 11/08/2026 23:42

Oh yes - recommendations for books on holiday. TBH it now helps with some things I might have previously looked up on Mumsnet.

Whoops75 · 11/08/2026 23:43

Use it loads for trivia, DH uses it professionally. Wouldn’t be without it.

StillCreatingAName · 11/08/2026 23:59

However did we survive before it? I mean, how did we choose paint colours or compare picture by picture to see our weight loss, create a meal plan for the week, these and many more complex uses and mind-taxing tasks we couldn’t possibly - until now- achieve for ourselves? How did we get our answers before without needing to steal the original creative work of others (for recipes, designs, story writing, art) and churning up the energy use of a small town just to help us decide what we might be having for dinner that night.

herewegoagain432 · 12/08/2026 00:21

A holiday countdown tanning schedule

MrsOctaviaCharlotteSmythe · 12/08/2026 00:25

StillCreatingAName · 11/08/2026 23:59

However did we survive before it? I mean, how did we choose paint colours or compare picture by picture to see our weight loss, create a meal plan for the week, these and many more complex uses and mind-taxing tasks we couldn’t possibly - until now- achieve for ourselves? How did we get our answers before without needing to steal the original creative work of others (for recipes, designs, story writing, art) and churning up the energy use of a small town just to help us decide what we might be having for dinner that night.

Everyone has copied everyone at some point. That is not some new phenomenon invented by AI. Artists copied the masters before them; students copied techniques from teachers; apprentices reproduced the work of established artists; people studied paintings by recreating them, tracing outlines, copying compositions and learning by imitation. We literally did versions of this in art lessons at school.

The same applies to writing and information. People copied passages from books, photocopied articles, transcribed information, collected newspaper clippings, quoted other people's work, borrowed ideas, adapted arguments and built new work on top of material produced by previous generations. Before photocopiers there were carbon copies. Before that there were scribes copying manuscripts by hand. Before that, knowledge was transmitted orally and through imitation.

The important point is that copying has always been part of how human culture develops. Almost nothing exists in an intellectual vacuum. Artists study other artists. Writers read other writers. Scientists build on previous research. Engineers examine existing designs. Musicians borrow structures, rhythms and techniques. Students learn by reproducing what somebody else has already demonstrated before they develop their own variation.

Technology has repeatedly made this process faster and easier.
The printing press massively accelerated the reproduction of information. Photography made visual reproduction vastly easier. The photocopier allowed people to duplicate documents almost instantly. Tape recorders, samplers, scanners, digital photography, file sharing and the internet progressively reduced the cost and friction of copying.

And now AI has taken another step in that progression.
That does not mean that every use of AI is automatically legitimate. There are genuine questions about copyright, attribution, licensing, consent, compensation and whether particular systems have been trained or used in ways that violate existing rights. Those are perfectly reasonable arguments to have.
But pretending that AI somehow introduced the fundamental concept of learning from, reproducing, transforming or being influenced by previous human work is historically absurd.
AI did not invent imitation.
It industrialised and accelerated it.

That is arguably the uncomfortable part of the debate. For centuries, humans could copy things, but the process was constrained by time, labour, skill and access. You had to sit in front of the painting. You had to read the book. You had to copy the passage. You had to trace the drawing. You had to photocopy the pages. You had to learn the technique.

AI dramatically reduces those constraints. And that is why the argument feels so different now. It is not necessarily because the underlying human behaviour is completely unprecedented; it is because the scale, speed and automation are unprecedented.

The same technological pattern has appeared repeatedly throughout history. A capability becomes cheaper and faster, the old economic model is disrupted, the people whose work depended upon scarcity become angry, and society then spends years arguing about where the boundaries should be.

So yes, have the copyright debate. Have the compensation debate. Have the attribution debate. Establish rules where genuine rights are being infringed.
But portraying AI as some uniquely evil invention because it learns from existing human-created material requires conveniently forgetting how human civilisation has actually worked for thousands of years.

We have always stood on the shoulders of previous generations.
The difference now is that the machine can climb the ladder considerably faster than we can.

Ohsakes · 12/08/2026 00:34

I don't use ChatGPT but do use other AIs. They are very good for my very mundane queries. Did have to tell one not to be so cutesy and gushy in their interactions with me. They apologised, Very weird.

StillCreatingAName · 12/08/2026 07:53

MrsOctaviaCharlotteSmythe · 12/08/2026 00:25

Everyone has copied everyone at some point. That is not some new phenomenon invented by AI. Artists copied the masters before them; students copied techniques from teachers; apprentices reproduced the work of established artists; people studied paintings by recreating them, tracing outlines, copying compositions and learning by imitation. We literally did versions of this in art lessons at school.

The same applies to writing and information. People copied passages from books, photocopied articles, transcribed information, collected newspaper clippings, quoted other people's work, borrowed ideas, adapted arguments and built new work on top of material produced by previous generations. Before photocopiers there were carbon copies. Before that there were scribes copying manuscripts by hand. Before that, knowledge was transmitted orally and through imitation.

The important point is that copying has always been part of how human culture develops. Almost nothing exists in an intellectual vacuum. Artists study other artists. Writers read other writers. Scientists build on previous research. Engineers examine existing designs. Musicians borrow structures, rhythms and techniques. Students learn by reproducing what somebody else has already demonstrated before they develop their own variation.

Technology has repeatedly made this process faster and easier.
The printing press massively accelerated the reproduction of information. Photography made visual reproduction vastly easier. The photocopier allowed people to duplicate documents almost instantly. Tape recorders, samplers, scanners, digital photography, file sharing and the internet progressively reduced the cost and friction of copying.

And now AI has taken another step in that progression.
That does not mean that every use of AI is automatically legitimate. There are genuine questions about copyright, attribution, licensing, consent, compensation and whether particular systems have been trained or used in ways that violate existing rights. Those are perfectly reasonable arguments to have.
But pretending that AI somehow introduced the fundamental concept of learning from, reproducing, transforming or being influenced by previous human work is historically absurd.
AI did not invent imitation.
It industrialised and accelerated it.

That is arguably the uncomfortable part of the debate. For centuries, humans could copy things, but the process was constrained by time, labour, skill and access. You had to sit in front of the painting. You had to read the book. You had to copy the passage. You had to trace the drawing. You had to photocopy the pages. You had to learn the technique.

AI dramatically reduces those constraints. And that is why the argument feels so different now. It is not necessarily because the underlying human behaviour is completely unprecedented; it is because the scale, speed and automation are unprecedented.

The same technological pattern has appeared repeatedly throughout history. A capability becomes cheaper and faster, the old economic model is disrupted, the people whose work depended upon scarcity become angry, and society then spends years arguing about where the boundaries should be.

So yes, have the copyright debate. Have the compensation debate. Have the attribution debate. Establish rules where genuine rights are being infringed.
But portraying AI as some uniquely evil invention because it learns from existing human-created material requires conveniently forgetting how human civilisation has actually worked for thousands of years.

We have always stood on the shoulders of previous generations.
The difference now is that the machine can climb the ladder considerably faster than we can.

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I’m assuming that your local, friendly ChatGPT generated that response for you?

Wipeywipey · 12/08/2026 08:59

Everyone who is using it for design ideas - whenever I put a Q in about this it tells me it can't generate images - this is Chat GPT though... Do you download something specific?

Blogswife · 12/08/2026 09:19

I’ve streamlined my wardrobe using it. I frequently use it to devise recipes using ingredients that I have in stock .Also used for interior ideas, to devise a gym routine , driving holiday itinerary and to draft a complaint letter

RoseField1 · 12/08/2026 09:22

Wipeywipey · 12/08/2026 08:59

Everyone who is using it for design ideas - whenever I put a Q in about this it tells me it can't generate images - this is Chat GPT though... Do you download something specific?

It can't generate images independently, but if you give it a photo it can change it. You only get a couple free photos a day on chatgpt free though.
Actually that's not true, it definitely can generate independent images but it has trouble with things like generating a room design and will often give you a diagram rather than an image

LathkillDale · 12/08/2026 09:27

I use it for:

  1. meal planning and doing shopping lists to a budget (DD1 has complicated dietary requirements)
  2. when I get stuck in my family tree research, I ask for its help - it looks up land transactions, hearth tax, etc records, I hadn’t thought of and wouldn’t know how to find the records, even if I did
  3. finding a particular service near to me
  4. help with domestic problems like how to remove a stain, or find me a recipe (without wading through websites, covered in adverts)

I know it hallucinates, and double check things like my ancestor’s records. Obviously, I don’t care if it hallucinates a recipe, so long as it’s not poisonous!

OneAmberFinch · 12/08/2026 09:32

Mostly as a journal and thought partner to reason through different things. Very conversational. It feels a bit like creating my own forum discussion.

I'm trying to cut back though.

For me it's more about it being a negative experience in the same way that staying in your room obsessively writing in your journal and thinking hard about issues of the day is negative. Sometimes this is important to do. But testing your ideas against the real, physical world and with real, embodied humans who bring challenges you haven't thought of is important, or even challenges you've thought of but you hadn't realised how many people hold that opinion or the strength of their feelings.

I don't want to lose that muscle.

That's why I enjoy posting AIBUs where 90% of people disagree with me :)

HelenHywater · 12/08/2026 09:34

In what way is Claude better @Lambsydaisy ? I should try it.

I use ChatGPT (or Copilot at work) a lot. For random questions, my renovation - it advises me on paint colours, Ebay purchases, kitchen layout etc. Its helped me plan 2 holiday itineraries. Health questions. A bit of mental health support.

It's shown me my dog as a boy, and my son as a dog. Fashion advice. Hair styles. It gave me a list of korean skincare products for my skin. So much!

For work its drafted papers, documents, looked at law, done emails for me, compared documents, lots of things. It's encouraged at work.

gamerchick · 12/08/2026 11:53

StillCreatingAName · 12/08/2026 07:53

I’m assuming that your local, friendly ChatGPT generated that response for you?

Wheel of fortune. One of the reasons I can't stand an AI response. Can't it learn to cut it down a bit?!

Lambsydaisy · 12/08/2026 12:22

HelenHywater · 12/08/2026 09:34

In what way is Claude better @Lambsydaisy ? I should try it.

I use ChatGPT (or Copilot at work) a lot. For random questions, my renovation - it advises me on paint colours, Ebay purchases, kitchen layout etc. Its helped me plan 2 holiday itineraries. Health questions. A bit of mental health support.

It's shown me my dog as a boy, and my son as a dog. Fashion advice. Hair styles. It gave me a list of korean skincare products for my skin. So much!

For work its drafted papers, documents, looked at law, done emails for me, compared documents, lots of things. It's encouraged at work.

I meant I prefer the way Claude interacts I think. It's not necessarily better!
I use a variety of LLMs, but I do default to Claude most of the time.

FeliciaFancybottom · 12/08/2026 13:09

StillCreatingAName · 12/08/2026 07:53

I’m assuming that your local, friendly ChatGPT generated that response for you?

I think it's at least lent a hand in every response she's made on this thread.