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Did you feel differently about your house after you paid off your mortgage?

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woof1 · 01/08/2026 20:31

Just that really. I’m due to pay mine off on the 1st December. I’ve had a mortgage for 37 years and I’m wondering if it will feel like a big deal, or whether I might view the house differently.

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Tumbler2121 · 01/08/2026 20:36

Didn't feel any different, I wasn't in a hurry to pay it off so it ran 25 years, in today's terms the monthly amount wasn't much but I had lived through 15.5% for a while early on.

SusanJJ · 01/08/2026 20:40

It's a nice feeling and I was glad of the extra money each month but the house felt the same.

Rumpledandcrumpled · 01/08/2026 20:48

No, we paid it off a year or so ago,but by then wasn’t much left and we just cleared it, think it was 5o or 75k left on it, so we settled it as the mortgage period ended and the rate was going to shoot up. The house is low seven figure value so we kinda all but owned it anyway. We knew we were going to, thought it might be a big moment, was very anti climatic.

Except Natwest made it as fucking difficult and stressful as possible , they gave us the redemption figure, then couldn’t find the money after we paid it , then said we’d paid part of it. Then offered us a remortgage for the remainder, then had to apologise and said they’d missed it, and it was cleared. Took umpteen phonecalls. I recall saying to the lady this is supposed to be a life milestone, a special moment, you’ve made it an utter nightmare.

two years later, two weeks before the house insurance auto renews, they write to me, not giving the right notice period they are legally obliged to do, and saying we aren’t insuring you again; basically as it was listed. No reason. No fuck all. Just in two weeks you’ve no insurance. Two or three lines on a bit of paper.

had to get on the phone to them again, lady right away said oh is it listed. Me yes, she says yeah it’s something to do with the under writer. Sorry about that. I said is it just buildings then, no she says we’ve cancelled your contents with it. Me why, her , sorry I don’t know, we just do that. So then I had to find someone to insure me as I’d two weeks.

fortunately loads do it, so was sorted within the hour. but fuck me, I’m glad not to deal with them again. What if I’d been on holiday and something happened.

Natwest. Spoiling life’s special moments.

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ChateauMargaux · 01/08/2026 20:55

Yes. It was a real celebration! Then my husband lost his job.. so we were bloody relieved!! We had thought to start thinking about what else we would do with the extra income.. oh well .. never mind!! We are still very happy that we own the roof over our heads, given a huge amount of uncertainty in our lives.

woof1 · 01/08/2026 21:00

Mines with Nat West too 😝

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Mumoftwoteenagers · 01/08/2026 21:01

It was a sort of “quiet nice” rather than an “ecstatic nice”. Just a security thing I guess. Like having a really good smoke alarm fitted. 😂

It went in stages though. Mortgage under £200k. Mortgage under £150k. Mortgage under £100k. Mortgage less than our savings. Mortgage less than £50k. Mortgage less than £10k. Mortgage gone.

All nice little milestones.

2chocolateoranges · 01/08/2026 21:05

It’s just nice not to have that one bill along with the payment protections to pay.

it’s good to know whatever happens we have a roof cover our heads,

PrincessOfPreschool · 01/08/2026 21:11

I guess it's a big a deal as you make it. Your cash celebrate if you want!

Mortgages are so 'detached' that I've never felt the house wasn't mine and actually a chunk belonged to the bank. So when it was actually mine (ours!), I didn't feel any different at all. And with inflation plus teenagers, we don't seem to have any more disposable income than we used to.

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