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Is everyone else pretending they’re drowning in work?

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Shareadog · Today 11:00

I’ve worked in office jobs for about 25 years, and I’ve always wondered: do people in self-directed, knowledge-based roles actually spend 37-40 hours a week actively working?

I almost never have, the only exceptions have been during major pitches. However, I’ve consistently received strong reviews and positive feedback. I was promoted last year.

In my current, fairly senior role, I’m regularly praised for both the quality and speed of my work and I definitely don’t avoid taking on extra work or projects. Maybe I’ve just been unusually lucky with manageable workloads, but after this many years that seems unlikely.

I’m not off doing anything exciting—I’m available and responsive—but there are decent stretches when I just don’t have much to do.

Everyone else around me constantly complains they’re drowning, overworked etc.

Am I the weird one, or is everyone else stretching the truth about how busy they are in these type of senior roles?

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MushMonster · Today 15:52

Shareadog · Today 15:18

‘Tell me you’ve never worked in a senior office role managing your own clients without telling me’ springs to mind here….you’re just not understanding how these workplaces and roles operate. I am not contributing in any way shape or form to others being more busy. So stop accusing me of things that aren’t accurate and stick to what you know.

It may not be your personal case, but it is the case of many many others with the same attitude.

You do not need to lie to anyone if they ask how you are, at least you are hiding something. You lie, so you are hiding something. It is simple. And do not try to complicate it.

TorroFerney · Today 16:22

Gealach · Today 12:17

I think it depends on the role. If you work in a reactive role you are going to feel stressed and busy in a busy job. If you can manage your own time a bit more then you can usually manage it.

I find loads of people work really inefficiently, have meetings that could have been emails, don’t plan projects properly at the start… then they end up busy and stressed.

in my last job, this person left who said they were highly busy, could never take on a new task and was always deflecting attending meetings. When they left I temporarily covered their role, I was fully prepared to die with stress and discovered I could do all their tasks in 30 minutes or less per day!

Now I’m a bit suspicious of people who say they are busy all the time.

Oh yes the professionally busy. They are irritating. I think it depends how old you are how long you’ve been in your job. I’m more getting paid for my skills than output now I’d say so I can add value by being there and giving advice rather than doing. But I’ve put some long hours in over the past 20 years so I don’t feel guilty. And I’m not doing gods work. I could get made redundant tomorrow and nothing catastrophic would happen at work, I think when we realise that it does make you think why am I killing myself.

Ithinkhesamerdog · Today 16:24

Yes. Drowning. And not due to lack of being organised /prioritising. Drowning even when prioritising. It's a highly technical job and there are just far fewer of us that the work load requires (public sector)

We tend to be immune from redundancy rounds though because everyone can see how stretched we are

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JohnnieFedora · Today 17:52

I don't work hard...no need as I've automated probably 70% of my role.

Do I care or feel guilty that I'm not"working hard"? No. I'm paid for my knowledge and experience, not per piece produced 🤷

happybug1234 · Today 18:13

Totally agree OP! I work at a fast pace but never in several jobs have felt overworked. In my experience a lot of people do a lot of time wasting, asking questions, clarifying but I just crack on.

RaininSummer · Today 19:41

Drowning most days and just staying afloat. Civil service.

TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · Today 19:55

I have a knowledge based role, of a subject people hate. They're so happy to have me to rely on that they don't care if I'm not always busy. I'm adding AI qualifications because everyone wants someone else to tell them how to do it right.

I've and a caseload this year which has been a slog, but I'm looking forward to be back to very little afterwards.

But I've worked in systems improvement before, and have never come across a process I couldn't trim the fat on - usually time and money both.

onmylastnerveseriously · Today 19:59

I’ve never drowned in work or felt that stretched. Got promoted faster than anyone else throughout my 20s and 30s. Now mid forties, my last salary was 145k. I’m self employed now and still not drowning.

My job is very much expertise based so maybe that’s why?

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