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Solo trip at 60. Too old or too young for the options?!

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Lumpycat · 11/07/2026 06:50

Thinking about booking a solo holiday. I am a divorced 59 year old woman. Very active and sociable and am confident in travelling and life in general. I work full time. Live in London.
I live with my adult children and have zero interest in a new relationship.

Want to book a trip to ‘somewhere’ in September to celebrate my 60th. Thinking culture and history and beautiful landscapes and great food. So have decided Italy might work. Tuscany/Florence area.

As I want to explore the area and only have a week it might be useful to go on an organised tour. So the logistics and travel are handled and the itinerary organised in a logical way.

Might be nice to have some company for some of the trip such as mealtimes and then have my own room to retreat to and free time to fill how I want.
Am a bit unsure about the organised aspect of it though. I have always travelled independently before or with friend or family. I have visions of being herded by a tour guide and the time being over controlled.

Was almost ready to book when I saw on a review that a guide might meet me at Heathrow to help with the journey. Really don’t need that level of support! I know people are all different and it might just be an option for more anxious or disabled people.

I would also need to pick from a very limited range of options as the tour groups obviously have a few departure dates. In fact I can only find one option for the date and region I want. It’s around £2300 for one week Heathrow to Pisa. That is fine but I could obviously do it more cheaply and flexibly myself.

Anyway. Thoughts on how to travel solo as an independent person but with some elements of an organised tour? There will be local companies offering day trips and excursions but less likely to have company at mealtimes and get to know people.

The G adventure type places seem to run much younger and I don’t want to be 40 years older than everyone else!

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Grannalintab · 12/07/2026 21:00

Grannalintab · 12/07/2026 17:06

I am over 70 and have done several trips with G Adventures so can really recommend them. Plenty of people are older, especially if you choose their comfort level tours. The camping ones tend to draw a younger crowd although in Namibia we did a couple of nights camping and still had all ages. A few years ago I did an excellent tour with them to Uzbekistan and would say overall that they are great for solo travellers to places that are a bit less straightforward to organize yourself or you want to cover long distances. I do everything myself if I go to places well on the beaten track, such as where you are heading in Italy. For a future trip I highly recommend Slovenia, a less obvious but beautiful country. (Don't miss Kale Bled!)

That should say Lake Bled! But back to GA, they have tours that are specifically aimed at 18-30 but plenty more that aren't and it is easy to check typical age groups for the tours.

HappyHedgehog247 · 12/07/2026 22:08

Had a good experience with Exodus for a location I wanted to visit but as a woman thought company and local knowledge would help. You can phone them up and discuss who else is on the trip ie ages, to get a sense of fit. Not needed for Italy but I would do it again for certain locations and the getting on a mini bus bit was offset by not having to make many decisions for a week (I make a lot of decisions every day!) with culture and great company thrown in.

LoveHearts69 · 13/07/2026 20:13

Lumpycat · 11/07/2026 17:21

@Gerwurtztraminer thanks very much for the local tips. Sadly too late as I have booked now and just went for a good central hotel in Florence. Have never been before and I know it’s going to be crazy touristy but I suppose it won’t get any better in my lifetime!

Did think about doing two centres but want to just unpack and relax there. There’s a pool and bar and AI tells me it’s top rated by solo travellers so that’ll do.

Was looking at 2300 for a week organised tour with accommodation based in some small town. The hotel and flights were 1400 and 260 so definitely seems better value doing it this way.

This sounds lovely! I’m excited for you and I think the freedom to completely do your own thing once there sounds like what you need, solo travel is liberating! Hope you have the most amazing time!

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Deathinvegas · 14/07/2026 12:37

I’ve done intrepid a few times and there has always been a wide range of ages on the trips. Their trips also have free time for you to explore on your own and an option to book a private room.
I’ve only ever done basic or classic, I’d guess their comfort trips would be more likely to attract people in their 40s.

Spotnick77 · 14/07/2026 15:47

Investigat 5W, its a womens friendly, travel organisation. womenwelcomewomenworldwide. It puts you in touch with womed in other countries as well as the UK.
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Mumoushka · 15/07/2026 12:46

Chuckling because as I was reading this....'Thinking culture and history and beautiful landscapes and great food.'...I was thinking Florence.....and then I read Florence! GMTA!

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