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Cheer me up

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PGmicstand · 09/07/2026 13:34

Rewritten as last post had information that was too outing and I didn't fancy another row.

Please cheer me up. I'm tired, I'm hot and right now I'm feeling cranky and a bit sad.
Had a bit of a row with a close friend yesterday as I've not been as available to them during this year as I have in the past.
A lot has changed in the year. I've had a family member be diagnosed with cancer. I've had a very long-term friend diagnosed with cancer. A close friend moved 200 miles away for a better job (don't blame her), my child has been undergoing assessment and investigations for some health issues as well as potential autism, and another close friend is going through a hideously protracted divorce where her STBX is being absolutely unreasonable and obstructive.
Thankfully the two people with cancer have since had surgery and are in the clear, although have had some horrible experiences.
And to top all that, I've heard this week of the death of two elderly people (one of whom I particularly enjoyed talking to) who go to a social group I belong to.

So please, share something light-hearted or funny to lift my mood.

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Gizzasec · 09/07/2026 14:37

Ok I'm gonna tell you my favourite Scouser joke. Ofc I strongly disapprove of stereotyping of any characteristic whatsoever but on the other hand I'm a Scouser & it makes me laugh every time. 😁

Scouse Lad is out in Liverpool city centre with his girlfriend. She looks in the window of a jewellers and says, oh god look at that gorgeous ring.

Her bf says, I'll get that for yer if you like... after the shop shuts, know what I mean? He winks at her & she looks at him affectionately.

They come to a shoe shop window, she says ohh, look at them Jimmy Choos, I'd love a pair of them.

He says, well, maybe I'll get you them - after the shop shuts. She gives him a big kiss.

Then they get to a clothes shop and she looks in the window and goes, oh look at that Gucci dress! Do yer really love me - would you get me that an' all?

And Scouse Lad says, Eh! What d'you think I am, made of bricks?

Darragon · 09/07/2026 14:41

It’s an old one but it might cheer you up.
The three bears went for a walk in the woods.
When they come back, daddy bear says “Who’s been eating my porridge?”
Mummy bear says “Who’s been eating my porridge?”
Baby bear says “Sod the porridge, who’s nicked the TV?”

BetweenTheThoughts · 09/07/2026 19:29

You've had an awful lot on your plate this year. Sometimes we don't realise how much we're carrying until it all catches up with us.
I hope this makes you smile... A friend's toddler was asked what his dad did for a job. He confidently replied, "He presses buttons on his laptop and sighs." 😂
Or here's another: my dog once barked furiously for five minutes because there was another dog in the garden. It was his own reflection in the patio door.
Hopefully others will share some funny stories too.

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REP22 · 09/07/2026 19:35

This usually makes me smile:

It won't always be this rubbish @PGmicstand - keep going. It will be alright soon. x

Lifestooshort71 · 09/07/2026 19:42

'We adopted the dog of a carpenter who'd died. As soon as we got it home, it made a bolt for the door"

IdenticalHandTwin · 09/07/2026 19:49

One of my favourite jokes:

Two Irishmen are walking down the street looking for a job.
One sees a sign that says, "Tree fellers wanted." He turns to his companion and says, "Aye, 'tis a pity dere's only the two of us!

I'm half Irish, Scouse and blonde so bring on more jokes 😉

IRL - we took on a new member of staff two weeks ago and he phoned in sick in Monday because his 'drug dealer had beaten him up'. Literally didn't know where to go with that 😵 He sent photos of his injuries, he got a right pasting 😱

Sorry you're having such a shit time at the moment OP, stay strong ❤️

worldshottestmom · 09/07/2026 20:08

Aww sorry for what you've been going through OP. I've been having a super shit past 2 years and well. Reading this thread made me chuckle so that's something.

I don't have any jokes (that aren't disturbing), but I can share something that happened in the gym that was embarrassing but looking back made me laugh.

I went to the gym for the first time in years a few months ago. I went over to the squatting rack and was already nervous as it had been 6 years since I last did it. There was a pro ✨️influencer✨️ fitness girlie there who obviously thought she was the shit. Tripod, camera, pink scrunch bum leggings, the lot. As soon as I loaded up my weights ready to squat, she gave me a disapproving look and started aggressively doing burpees into pull ups. Meanwhile I'm stood next to her, completely failing to squat. The bar is falling onto one side, my legs are shaking, I'm struggling to get up. There's a guy behind me literally laughing at me. All the while this is being filmed on her camera.

I'm on Instagram the following week and the FUCKING VIDEO COMES ON MY FEED. Couldn't believe my fucking eyes but couldn't help but burst into laughter at how fucking tragic it was.

Also the last time I went, I was doing cable kicks and accidentally kicked a woman in the bum. Luckily she found it funny.

Relish in my embarrassment. Hope things get better for you.

worldshottestmom · 09/07/2026 20:08

Posted twice, sorryyy

shellyleppard · 09/07/2026 20:11

@Gizzasec that's really funny!! 🤣

REP22 · 09/07/2026 20:20

I suppose an awful day that I had (to hopefully make you feel better), is the day that I was in the middle of the North Dartmoor wilderness (funnily enough, exactly 3 years ago next week). The dog's harness snapped and he disappeared. Taking my mobile phone and car key with him. An awful day, involving numerous members of His Majesty's Armed Forces. A day that got more and more surreal and ended with me having to hide an entire chicken curry in my bra and pants. Awful. True. Awful.

Dog was fine (little git).

On the joke front - I used to work with a vet who was employed by the local zoo to circumcise the male elephants. The pay was terrible but the tips were enormous.

Keep going. xx 💐

shellyleppard · 09/07/2026 20:24

@REP22 why did you have to hide an entire curry in your underwear??? 😱😱

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 09/07/2026 20:32

Chin up, my lovely. x

PGmicstand · 09/07/2026 22:41

Thanks all, that's made me laugh - sorry about the gym experience though.
I'm still puzzled at the curry underwear and bemused by the drug dealer/late for work. The latter reminded me of when I did jury service many years ago and the guy who was accused of theft decided he didn't want the defence lawyer (solicitor?) to speak for him. He denied everything and all was going well until he said, "Last time I was here for nicking stuff, you said...."

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Dontlletmedownbruce · 09/07/2026 23:53

My friends keep teasing me about my new boyfriend, they joke he is a fake, that I just made him up. I'm getting sick of it now to be honest. Well the joke is on them because they aren't real either...

REP22 · 10/07/2026 12:34

@shellyleppard and @PGmicstand It was a day of very bleak and very surreal despair. A chilling pantomime of chaos. A day of ghastly mortification which the staff of the hotel in which I was staying unwittingly contributed to. They were absolutely lovely, but their first language was not English and they had not understood fully when the Army rang them to request they organise a taxi to collect me (and the eventually-located dog) from the battle camp.

Eventually an amenable taxi driver was located on my seventh attempt with an army officer's borrowed phone and, a £110 journey later, we were back at the hotel around midnight. Bless them both, the hotel chaps were mortified at their innocently done part in the day's carnival of horrors and they headed to the closed kitchen and brought me a bowl of chicken curry that they had made for themselves (proper, authentic Indian curry with everything - including all the bits and bobs body-bits, easily identifiable to the eye, and bones of the chicken). Alas, I am a vegetarian.

These dear young men gave me the lovely curry that they’d made for themselves, after I’d had such a horrendous time (and with no food – my picnic lunch being safely sealed in the marooned car, mocking me from the back seat). It was so very, very kind of them. I couldn’t bear to turn it away or seem rude. What could I do?

I pretended to eat it. That’s what I did. I put it all in my mouth and chewed, professing delight at every lovely mouthful. And, to be fair, it was absolutely delicious. I swallowed the tasty veg and mushrooms and the outstanding home-made sauce. But as soon as I was unobserved or backs were turned, I took out the bits of un-swallowed chicken and carefully concealed them about my person, unseen by anyone.

I was somewhat limited as to places of concealment, as you may imagine. So each piece of chicken was quietly transferred from my mouth to my hand and from thence to the only hiding places available: my bra and my underpants. Oh yes. Yes I did.

I take no pride in the fact that I did this for the entirety of the meal undetected, in the presence of the other guest in the bar (an equally grateful and infinitely more honest recipient of some of the curry) and my kind, generous and thoughtful friends from the hotel. I felt unbearably guilty the whole time.

Wracked with guilt, and with my “feminine support garments” now full-to-seepage of curried ex-poultry, I then had to walk waddle, hunched over and clinging to myself, past everyone, all of whom were cheerfully bidding me goodnight and expressing again their sorrow for the day’s misfortunes, me desperately trying to get across the lobby and up the stairs, whilst they waved me off, without chicken-leakage or betraying the lumpen shapes about my chest and lower regions which would announce my heinous, traitorous, disrespectful secretions.

Once I was safely back in the room, putting the Chicken Pieces of Shame into the dog's undeserving, miscreant maw, I believed that I had never felt quite so wretched in my life.

It was truly a day of horror upon horror - the only redeeming aspects being the fact that the dog was found, he was clean and innocent of livestock/wildlife destruction, and, of course, the kindness of the military. The chicken curry was the least of it - but by far the most wretchedly surreal.

The day ended. We can laugh about it (mostly) now. It serves as a tale to amuse (even a few days later - we happened upon a group of Australian tourists doing a coach tour, they were taking pictures of the photogenic dog. I told them what he had done. One of them laughed so much he hurt himself and had to go and sit back on the coach).

Bad days end. Better ones will come. Keep going. xx

shellyleppard · 10/07/2026 12:52

@REP22 okay I understand about the curry now. But how did darling dog get lost in the first place? Was it on a live firing range ( similar to Salisbury plain???) ..... I'm glad you are okay now....chin up lovely.

REP22 · 10/07/2026 13:54

shellyleppard · 10/07/2026 12:52

@REP22 okay I understand about the curry now. But how did darling dog get lost in the first place? Was it on a live firing range ( similar to Salisbury plain???) ..... I'm glad you are okay now....chin up lovely.

Hehe, thank you ❤️ It wasn't within a live firing range (Dartmoor has several, like Salisbury Plain). There is an active battle camp not far from Okehampton. Dog and I were doing a carefully-planned six mile walk right in the middle of no-where. We stopped for a rest at our first waypoint. The dog's lead was attached around my waist. He was standing on a rock shelf and something caught his eye - he sort of leapt/fell, twisted in mid-air, and the waist harness snapped with a "twang" that echoes in my ears to this day.

With a sense of sick dread he took off after a sheep (my worst nightmare as a keeper of livestock myself) but, just moments later, I saw the same sheep (distinctive horns) with a group of others huddled together in a little area beneath where I was standing, calm, clearly unharmed and no longer being pursued. I could see no other livestock running anywhere in the vicinity, and no trace of a wounded or killed animal. No cries, barks, yelps nor guttural shrieks rent the moorland air. Urgent twittering calls of a meadow pipit, disturbed from its grassy nest by canine interloper, came there none. In fact, no sign of any animals anywhere, apart from the now peaceful and huddled group of sheep, quietly chuntering to each other while grazing and the gentle call of the moorland birds at peace - so I knew the dog was just well and truly gone. Not even a rustling or parting of bracken, gorse or heather betrayed his passage. And it was then that I noticed that the pack containing my phone and car key was also gone, tangled in the training lead of the long-gone dog.

The military were out because they were hosting a load of Ukrainian recruits who had come over here for training for the front lines in their ongoing war. There was a massive training exercise going on in the area at the time. After searching for the fugitive dog for an hour, I stumbled back to the car park in tears after about an hour, knowing how screwed I would be if I got back there any everyone else had gone, so remote were we. There was a range rover in the car park with 5 officers in it, observing the training exercise and so I asked them for help. They were amazing, all out instantly and sorting a search party. The radio commands were... well:

Officer: “Alpha Command to all units – real-world situation here. We’ve got a civilian who’s just approached us; she’s lost her dog…”

Radio: “…schkkllkk… Real-world situation. Lost dog. Description. Over. schkkllkk…”

Officer: “Staffie cross French bulldog. Gunmetal grey. Wearing red harness with black straps, trailing black lead. Over.”

Radio:schkkllkk … [repeated description]. Over. schkkllkk…

Officer: “Additionally, the dog lead was attached to pack. Was green with black straps…”

Radio:schkkllkk… green with black straps pack. Over. schkkllk …”

Officer: “No, wait, there’s more. Inside the pack were the civilian’s mobile phone and car key. Over.”

Radio:schkkllkk… … …schkkllkk… …schkkllkk*ing hllschkkllkk…”

Yes. Yes, that's what I said.

Awful. And it just got worse and worse. But I cannot fault the officers. They were magnificent. An absolute credit to His Majesty and the country.

And this day did end. The miscreant mutt sits beside me as I type, enjoying his little floor-fan. Wearing the same harness. Good job I love him.

Keep smiling. All shall be well. x

shellyleppard · 10/07/2026 14:09

Op now it all makes sense!!! Glad you and the pupper are okay 💐🪻❤️

PGmicstand · Yesterday 14:42

@REP22 that really was SOME experience - sorry you had to go through it but it really did make me chuckle.

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REP22 · Yesterday 15:31

PGmicstand · Yesterday 14:42

@REP22 that really was SOME experience - sorry you had to go through it but it really did make me chuckle.

Thank you; that's lovely to hear. I'm so glad it made you smile. That was only a very small part of that wretched, tainted week. I should have known that it was cursed from the outset. The very first day, in fact.

Before leaving for Dartmoor, I knew I’d need a new waterproof coat - so off I went to Mountain Warehouse on my way back from a work meeting. Being currently a larger lady, the choice is somewhat limited… I spotted some macs rolled up in individual packs and one in a large size – a little too large, but – “brilliant” I thought, I’ll have that. I was in something of a rush as it was after a lengthy work meeting and I was on my way home, so I grabbed it, bought it - I didn’t unwrap it but just put it in my rucksack. The very first day out we went off onto the Moor and we were a good hour into our walk, when it started pouring down with rain.

“No problem” I thought, and I put the rucksack down, got out my lovely new packed jacket; unpacked it - it was a f~cking pair of trousers.

Steeply downhill from there. The whole sorry affair of the abscondment cost me £710 in total (taxi fares, emergency replacement key service out to the middle of nowhere, etc.) plus the utter mortification. The upshot of it is that the dog has to appear in outfits of my choosing every Christmas, and an annual appearance dressed as "some salad" at a local festival until every penny has been repaid. We're up to about £93.60 so far.

Keep smiling. xx

PGmicstand · Yesterday 16:18

Interestingly friend rang me yesterday to apologise. She has a very small social circle, and so I'm the "go to" person. On top of that she's had her own demons to battle, which I do understand, but acknowledged that she'd been unfair in how she read and reacted to the situation.

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DinoLil · Yesterday 16:35

Just sending you a hug!

I've just phoned my mum and said, nope, had enough, turrn the temperature down please.

My dog sounds like a steam train.

I'm sick to death of living in a jet engine with all the fans on. Also sick of lugging watering cans down the garden.

Also sick of living in the dark, peering in the fridge and thinking no ta, and oh, here comes steam train again from having a wee!

You are not alone!

Felinesonmeshirt · Yesterday 16:52

REP22 · Yesterday 15:31

Thank you; that's lovely to hear. I'm so glad it made you smile. That was only a very small part of that wretched, tainted week. I should have known that it was cursed from the outset. The very first day, in fact.

Before leaving for Dartmoor, I knew I’d need a new waterproof coat - so off I went to Mountain Warehouse on my way back from a work meeting. Being currently a larger lady, the choice is somewhat limited… I spotted some macs rolled up in individual packs and one in a large size – a little too large, but – “brilliant” I thought, I’ll have that. I was in something of a rush as it was after a lengthy work meeting and I was on my way home, so I grabbed it, bought it - I didn’t unwrap it but just put it in my rucksack. The very first day out we went off onto the Moor and we were a good hour into our walk, when it started pouring down with rain.

“No problem” I thought, and I put the rucksack down, got out my lovely new packed jacket; unpacked it - it was a f~cking pair of trousers.

Steeply downhill from there. The whole sorry affair of the abscondment cost me £710 in total (taxi fares, emergency replacement key service out to the middle of nowhere, etc.) plus the utter mortification. The upshot of it is that the dog has to appear in outfits of my choosing every Christmas, and an annual appearance dressed as "some salad" at a local festival until every penny has been repaid. We're up to about £93.60 so far.

Keep smiling. xx

I’m lol at the coat/trousers reveal 🤣🤣🤣

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