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Why are ADHD benefits in the firing line?

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FunStork · 08/07/2026 22:36

I've been seeing this a lot recently.

Feels like the media is very much against ADHD benefits claims.

Why is that the one that seems to be getting all the focus?

Another one from BBC Verify tonight:

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c24ym9yd8p6o

Is this an orchestrated campaign?

The head and shoulders of Andy Burnham, wearing glasses, a white shirt and a blue blazer, on a blue Verify-style background, with Verify logo in the top left hand side corner.

How rise in ADHD benefits claims is adding to Andy Burnham's welfare challenge

More than 100,000 people with ADHD as their main condition receive Pip, latest figures show, an increase of 40% since Labour came to power.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c24ym9yd8p6o

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TigerRag · 09/07/2026 22:01

Karma2023 · 09/07/2026 20:23

Should PIP be means tested? I know someone who has recently downsized to a £1m house (to give herself cash, likely to be around 400-500k. She receives very generous spousal maintenance from an Ex and claims PIP, plus has a mobility car. She could be more active but won't because that will impact her PIP assessment. I feel that she has no incentive to try to do more.

However she has 4 holidays a year and that is genuinely not an exaggeration. She doesn't use her savings to live because she has sufficient benefits, lives mortgage free and plans to spend, spend,spend.

I think means tearing must be brought in.

Then you means test DLA, AA and the Scottish equivalent. It makes no sense that a 70 year old on AA isn't subject to means testing but the 70 year old on pip is

Allonthesametrain · 09/07/2026 22:14

Her53ff43 · 09/07/2026 21:41

Self diagnosis isn’t a diagnosis and ND isn’t MH.

I meant that parents who recognise their DC behave 'differently' and are concerned do tend to assume adhd/autism because that's the big umbrella these issues come under. So they self diagnose DC under this realm and then seek medical help.

ND does indeed stem from physical trauma but unless it's known what this is, the behaviour which ensues is initially seen as MH.

JessTheCat98 · 09/07/2026 22:15

TigerRag · 09/07/2026 22:01

Then you means test DLA, AA and the Scottish equivalent. It makes no sense that a 70 year old on AA isn't subject to means testing but the 70 year old on pip is

How do you means test DLA? It is a benefit awarded to disabled children, so they have no income to means test.

Kirbert2 · 09/07/2026 22:26

JessTheCat98 · 09/07/2026 22:15

How do you means test DLA? It is a benefit awarded to disabled children, so they have no income to means test.

The family income, I imagine.

Her53ff43 · 09/07/2026 22:29

Allonthesametrain · 09/07/2026 22:14

I meant that parents who recognise their DC behave 'differently' and are concerned do tend to assume adhd/autism because that's the big umbrella these issues come under. So they self diagnose DC under this realm and then seek medical help.

ND does indeed stem from physical trauma but unless it's known what this is, the behaviour which ensues is initially seen as MH.

Um you’re talking nonsense.

“ND does indeed stem from physical trauma but unless it's known what this is, the behaviour which ensues is initially seen as MH.”

It does not stem from physical trauma and isn’t initially seen as MH.

No parents don’t diagnose and then seek medical help because there is no medical help. There is no cure.

Unwelcomeknocking · 09/07/2026 22:39

pinkyshirtya · 09/07/2026 06:37

Honest answer here..... I think ADHD diagnoses have become a bit of a trend, and whilst debilitating for some, have become an excuse not to work for others.

I also believe ADHD is exacerbated by bad diets, lack of exercise and learned short attention spans due to phone usage and social media, and I resent these people not working whilst I have to.

Absolutely

CombatBarbie · 09/07/2026 22:52

ItsPickleRick · 08/07/2026 23:30

Your posts get more and more ridiculous.

Do you know how difficult it is to get a place at a SEN school?

Haha its called playing the.system

Kirbert2 · 09/07/2026 22:56

CombatBarbie · 09/07/2026 22:52

Haha its called playing the.system

It's called not knowing the system if you think a child can just easily walk into a SEND school.

Does the child have an EHCP?

CombatBarbie · 09/07/2026 23:03

Threads like this really annoy me. ADHD is an illness, I dont dispute that but the amount of adults now being diagnosed, as an excuse so to speak. There are genuine cases, theres also a lot of fake ones using Dr Google to get through the assessments as its easy disability money.

Ive known for 15yrs my brother was either PTSD or ADHD and only got a diagnosis last year. He sounded so relieved when he called me, I laughed (not in a bad way) and said, ive been telling you this for years! Now hes medicated, he is less volatile, actually sleeps.

Nowadays or.past 15yrs anyway, naughty child with no boundaries = adhd.

Most people forget that autism and its spectrum is genetic.....

CombatBarbie · 09/07/2026 23:09

Kirbert2 · 09/07/2026 22:56

It's called not knowing the system if you think a child can just easily walk into a SEND school.

Does the child have an EHCP?

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Yes.......

babababababababada · 09/07/2026 23:11

uptheposh · 09/07/2026 18:57

You exaggerate how it impacts you.

Friend told me to say my son doesn’t sleep, is unsafe by roads, get anxious with xyz, is always putting himself at risk that he needs supervision etc etc

This is for DLA, he’s 12.

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Is that exaggerating though or down right lying?

CombatBarbie · 09/07/2026 23:12

Kirbert2 · 09/07/2026 22:56

It's called not knowing the system if you think a child can just easily walk into a SEND school.

Does the child have an EHCP?

Edited

Look without telling.you the child's name and school i can categorically tell you, the system has been played. He gets to play football for the most part and can time out in the safe space/library when "he cant be bothered". Ive known this child since he was 2.....hes now nearly 16

CombatBarbie · 09/07/2026 23:15

Stressedoutmummyof3 · 09/07/2026 08:56

You will not get a SEN school place just because you refuse school. My DS needs a SEN place because he has severe autism and has the cognitive ability of a much younger child. We have been fighting for a space for two years.
There is no way a child gets a space because they refuse school. Absolutely no way.
There is either more to his diagnosis than you know or he doesn't go to a SEN school.

Yup you know more than me..... I haven't watched this unfold in the 13yrs ive known the.child.............

Kirbert2 · 09/07/2026 23:16

CombatBarbie · 09/07/2026 23:09

Yes.......

Also difficult to get.

Kirbert2 · 09/07/2026 23:19

CombatBarbie · 09/07/2026 23:12

Look without telling.you the child's name and school i can categorically tell you, the system has been played. He gets to play football for the most part and can time out in the safe space/library when "he cant be bothered". Ive known this child since he was 2.....hes now nearly 16

Not much time left on DLA then.

Allonthesametrain · 09/07/2026 23:43

Her53ff43 · 09/07/2026 22:29

Um you’re talking nonsense.

“ND does indeed stem from physical trauma but unless it's known what this is, the behaviour which ensues is initially seen as MH.”

It does not stem from physical trauma and isn’t initially seen as MH.

No parents don’t diagnose and then seek medical help because there is no medical help. There is no cure.

I'm perplexed. You said ND isn't MH and I agreed it does stem from physical trauma, not exclusively.

ND is such a huge topic and I'm not talking nonsense. Physical trauma in the womb, at birth are indeed relevant to the onset of ND issues.

I'm not willing to go into personal details here but please believe me it's very, very true.

Shrinkhole · 10/07/2026 00:35

WhitePina · 09/07/2026 19:08

It’s entirely possible to be repeatedly assaulted in some jobs.

Well yes. Ironically very often in mental health care jobs that is a frequent risk.

Shrinkhole · 10/07/2026 00:49

Itchthescratch · 09/07/2026 13:35

My point isn't that ND brains aren't wired differently than a so called typical 'NT' brain but that almost all of us have brains that are wired differently to the NT model too. Lots of personality traits are associated with physical differences in the brain. Kindness, extraversion, curiosity etc are all associated with observable differences in the brain and how it works. So these traits shape our brains and where we have strong traits then they will differ from the standard brain.

The diagnostic process relies heavily on self reported symptoms and impacts. Clinics have a 60-95% conversion from referral to diagnosis. The point is that these highly trained professionals often aren't filtering many people out using these in depth diagnostic models versus quite rudimentary screening that relies very heavily on ASRS and examples provided by individuals. There is only so much verification they do of what you're telling them and as referenced in my previous post, people with ADHD are more likely to unintentionally exaggerate how symptoms impact them. I know a lot about the diagnostic process and it's nowhere near as secure as you are suggesting.

I have compared less severe forms of ADHD to glasses and hair dye because it is something that can largely be self managed with various tools and systems. It doesn't go away entirely and will create an additional burden on the individual versus someone that has no ADHD traits at all but very few of us are dealt a perfect hand in life and the state can't equalise everything.

ADHD is a very poorly understood condition and there is a huge amount we don't yet understand about it. The stats aren't even useful because ADHD is so often confused with trauma and other conditions like bipolar. The clinical threshold is also likely to move as we understand more. It's already changed significantly in 2013 when the threshold was lowered significantly, hence the explosion of diagnosis. There is a huge debate now about whether the criteria is currently too wide and medicalising natural variance. Personally I believe it is and that the binary between ND and NT must be challenged and changed. There isn't an obvious point where traits of these conditions flip from being sub clinical to diagnosable and someone just above threshold is ND and someone just below is NT. It is clearly nonsense.

I so massively agree with you about the NT/ND binary narrative needing to be challenged. It’s such obvious bullshit. Behavioural traits are on a spectrum just like blood pressure readings (but less accurately observed or replicable) and where we put the threshold directly affects the number of diagnoses. I have heard some people trying to claim that ASD or ADHD are ‘like being pregnant’ ie not on a continuum with a non pregnant state. This is just so clearly untrue that I can’t believe so many people just nod along with this.

Her53ff43 · 10/07/2026 06:27

Allonthesametrain · 09/07/2026 23:43

I'm perplexed. You said ND isn't MH and I agreed it does stem from physical trauma, not exclusively.

ND is such a huge topic and I'm not talking nonsense. Physical trauma in the womb, at birth are indeed relevant to the onset of ND issues.

I'm not willing to go into personal details here but please believe me it's very, very true.

It is not.

Autism and ADHD are not caused by physical or psychological trauma. They are lifelong neurodevelopmental conditions primarily driven by genetics and early brain development.

Her53ff43 · 10/07/2026 06:31

CombatBarbie · 09/07/2026 23:15

Yup you know more than me..... I haven't watched this unfold in the 13yrs ive known the.child.............

Well you clearly don’t know the child as places in special schools are highly sought after, in very short supply and the process to allocate places is robust and ensures only those with the most need get places. As such many needy children miss out as there simply aren’t enough places to go round.

Seymour5 · 10/07/2026 06:43

Her53ff43 · 10/07/2026 06:27

It is not.

Autism and ADHD are not caused by physical or psychological trauma. They are lifelong neurodevelopmental conditions primarily driven by genetics and early brain development.

Research shows much higher levels of ADHD amongst adopted children. Early brain development is affected by attachment disorders, plus the likelihood of genetic inheritance.

Her53ff43 · 10/07/2026 06:49

Seymour5 · 10/07/2026 06:43

Research shows much higher levels of ADHD amongst adopted children. Early brain development is affected by attachment disorders, plus the likelihood of genetic inheritance.

People with ADHD often self medicate and have risky behaviours. High numbers within the prison system have ADHD.ADHD is highly hereditary. Children whose biological parents have ADHD are both more likely to have the condition and more likely to experience placement in the adoption or foster system.

Hence the need for early diagnosis and support as outlined in the NHS ADHD Taskforce.

Mummadeze · 10/07/2026 07:15

My lovely DD is diagnosed autistic. She also has mental health problems and is under the care of CAHMS. Parenting her has been hard, particularly during her teens. So many people told me to apply for DLA but she is getting free medical care, free schooling and my view is that any other costs should fall on me as her parent. I do have a well paid job (fortunately) so I would never apply for extra money from the state. She would have been eligible but it still felt wrong. As she approaches 18, I worry about her future. Routine tasks are often challenging for her, but I am doing everything I can to try to help her work towards finding a career that will suit her at some point down the line. I understand it can be harder to hold down a job with ASD or ADHD but being in the right kind of job is probably key to giving yourself the best chance. If she has to claim benefits in the future, so be it, but I am trying to inspire her and give her hope of being self sufficient and independent at the moment. That is the end goal. I don’t want her to think she can’t achieve anything once her mental health is improved, even with her ASD diagnosis.

Her53ff43 · 10/07/2026 07:39

Mummadeze · 10/07/2026 07:15

My lovely DD is diagnosed autistic. She also has mental health problems and is under the care of CAHMS. Parenting her has been hard, particularly during her teens. So many people told me to apply for DLA but she is getting free medical care, free schooling and my view is that any other costs should fall on me as her parent. I do have a well paid job (fortunately) so I would never apply for extra money from the state. She would have been eligible but it still felt wrong. As she approaches 18, I worry about her future. Routine tasks are often challenging for her, but I am doing everything I can to try to help her work towards finding a career that will suit her at some point down the line. I understand it can be harder to hold down a job with ASD or ADHD but being in the right kind of job is probably key to giving yourself the best chance. If she has to claim benefits in the future, so be it, but I am trying to inspire her and give her hope of being self sufficient and independent at the moment. That is the end goal. I don’t want her to think she can’t achieve anything once her mental health is improved, even with her ASD diagnosis.

My dd has a similar profile. She has PIP and UC because it’s much needed. She is also very independent and does not want to be on UC for ever. They are needed now but are helping her get well and the qualifications she needs to build a career that suits her.I think telling such young adults they can achieve anything isn’t necessarily helpful however helping them learn how to manage their conditions without crisis and build a life suitable for their well being is. It needs to be lead and managed by them.

SilverLining77 · 10/07/2026 07:53

Seymour5 · 10/07/2026 06:43

Research shows much higher levels of ADHD amongst adopted children. Early brain development is affected by attachment disorders, plus the likelihood of genetic inheritance.

I'd consider FASD - massively underdiagnosed and overlooked on population level - before ADHD. Up to 70% of adopted children are estimated to be exposed to alcohol prenatally.