Ideas for a meaningful gift to mark leaving Year 6

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I'm going to preface this by saying - I'm not a parent who makes a big Hallmark moment out of everything. I don't do Christmas Eve boxes, Easter baskets, back to school banners and gifts.. or the other million things I see on social media. (I also don't post anything on SM anyway, so this isn't about having something to post with a cheesy hashtag)

But... my son is leaving year 6 next week and I've really been hit with what a big milestone it is... or that's how it feels. I'm so proud of how he's grown up, the character he's become, etc... of course, everyone's proud of their own.

I feel like I want to mark it in some way with a gift. Something fairly substantial that says, you've worked super hard, I'm proud... and here's something to recognise that your life is pivoting. But I'm really stumped for ideas. Not to stereotype, but if he was a girl, then I'd be thinking along the lines of a piece of jewellery. What's an equivalent for a boy? He already has a watch that he's never really bothered about putting on, so that feels daft. He had his first phone for his birthday earlier this year, so that's out. He's really not that into gaming so anything like a console isn't right.

Any ideas??

Gosh, I thought this was going to be a meaningful gift for the teachers.

I'd probably just ask him to think of something he wants and take him out shopping.

What about a lovely day out? If you’re wanting a momento to keep what about a letter to his future self. You could write it and a pic of first day of school v last day?

ha - for the teachers, I've kept it simple just like I have throughout school life! Focus more on the card and the messages of thanks, with a small token of a bottle of wine or champagne (knowing in advance that the teacher in question likes receiving alcohol!)

I agree with the day out. Let him pick somewhere he'd like to go and celebrate the day however he wants to. Take lots of pictures.
When thinking about gift ideas when nothing immediately springs to mind it's usually better to wait rather than buying a gift for gifts' sake.
Make a memory rather than a gift.

I should have said - he already has a holiday planned with his dad (we're separated), and I've booked lots of day trips throughout the summer holiday, so the experience side of things are covered.

He's having 6 weeks off.

That's a huge treat right there!

Absolutely - let him choose a trip out - acknowledging his more mature status

I think if he already has all the big things he wants/needs, and has lots of fun experiences booked, then there’s not a lot of point buying him something just for the sake of it! It sounds like if you bought him some kind of expensive keepsake kind of gift he’d be a bit non-plussed by it.

Over the years I remember my brothers getting a new watch, a silver tie pin, silver cufflinks, a posh fountain pen etc to mark important occasions but I don’t think most year 6 boys would care about those.

How about get a nice photo frame that takes two pictures, put in one of his first day and one of his last day, and explain to him that you’re putting it up to mark this milestone, you can talk then about how proud you are of him etc and hopefully whenever he sees the photo up it’s a nice reminder for him of what you said.

So it’s not really a gift for him but does mark the occasion in a nice way.

Not a high value gift but a photo book with pics of his school years would be a nice keep safe. Snapfish or Photobox are both good

Don’t over think it. In a year it’ll feel very insignificant.

Just maybe ask him if there’s something specific he’d like and have a nice summer.

I've literally just been thinking about this!

We've ordered him a keepsake bear made with use school uniform, but I also want something more grown up 😬 he also asked the other day for a 'yes' day so might just get him one of those?!

He had a really difficult year-18 months at school. There's been a group of bullies and he's really struggled at times. But he's had a couple of friends throughout, and the last term or two have become really positive. I'm so proud of him for what he's overcome and I want him to know that - I tell him all the time but I'd like to show him, somehow.

I also need ideas for something for his year 6 teacher who finally got to grips with the problems and has been firm, understanding but ultimately seen him through positively. I always write a card to the teachers at the end of the year to thank them, so I'll do this, but again - a decent/not naff gesture??

Soz to hijack!!

Good headphones
Graphic tablet if he's into drawing
Kindle maybe?
If he's a bit sentimental (or you would like to go sentimental), you can make a graduation type video with photos, just not centred about graduation but the years he's leaving behind so far, and add pictures of him and his friends, maybe some notes, tickets, photos of his works and everything that could be related to his studies. The video itself wouldn't be a gift but could make a nice addition to one.
Also are there any upcoming gigs or shows he would enjoy attending? You can get tickets to these events as well.

maybe just take him out for ice cream to mark the day? I think it’s more of a big deal for us than for them.

I'd take this attitude into your son's gift too. Not the wine obviously! But a small token gift (chocolate maybe?) with a card (or a letter) telling him what you've said in your OP, that you're so proud of who he's become and how hard he's worked etc. It's all that which really matters, not a gift that he doesn't even really want (because if there was something he really wanted you wouldn't have needed to start this thread!). Consumerism isn't the way to mark this moment.

I have a daughter and I am putting together a small gift basket for her, which will include a laptop, artxx markers, water bottle, hair care products and I’m making her a scrapbook with all her primary school memories in it.