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To think it a shame and a bad example that rugby team set to children regarding excessive drinking

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HotBothered · 22/06/2026 08:24

Localish team did a victory parade yesterday on an open top bus
yes that’s good

but they seem to use alcohol and such a crutch and can’t help think all the kids there seeing that thinking it’s normal and what you do
it’s just a bit disappointing that culture is still like that in this day and age

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concertinacornflake · 22/06/2026 18:22

HotBothered · 22/06/2026 08:37

Yeah drinking on the bus
even to the point of having wear googles
throwing alcohol around
floor covered in beer

I agree with you, they should respect their role model status.

You could complain to the club.

mindutopia · 22/06/2026 18:36

Yes, of course, it’s a horrible example. That’s why I wouldn’t take my kids to that sort of thing. That said, I suspect a lot of the parents who do are already setting a bad example for their children around alcohol.

Plantchoc · 22/06/2026 18:43

mindutopia · 22/06/2026 18:36

Yes, of course, it’s a horrible example. That’s why I wouldn’t take my kids to that sort of thing. That said, I suspect a lot of the parents who do are already setting a bad example for their children around alcohol.

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This smacks of someone who in the past had a problem with alcohol

that they would jump to this

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MyFairLadyC · 22/06/2026 18:51

It’s rugby culture, you won’t change it. Presumably they don’t drink like that all the time though and take their athleticism seriously for the most part. I watched an international game over the autumn and was struck by how fit some of the players looked as opposed to when I was a youngster and the majority of rugby players looked like someone’s overweight, hairy dad. Grin

Plantchoc · 22/06/2026 18:52

They won obviously a pretty big league. So these guys are generally going to be very very fit and athletic.

HotBothered · 23/06/2026 00:11

Decacaffeinatednow · 22/06/2026 13:44

Thanks for sharing the link
it’s so good and reassuring when you see a poll or vote
and you realise the world isn’t full of idiots only a vocal minority
that always wanna argue the blue is red

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FWC2026 · 23/06/2026 00:39

TomClarkson · 22/06/2026 08:37

You appear to be over analysing why a team of rugby players had a drink during their celebrations. It’s probably fair to say they were simply celebrating rather than needing a ‘crutch’ and ‘lacking confidence’

Are you close to someone who has alcohol issues, or are you struggling yourself?

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This.

FWC2026 · 23/06/2026 00:45

concertinacornflake · 22/06/2026 18:22

I agree with you, they should respect their role model status.

You could complain to the club.

They sign up to play rugby, not bring up your kids.

FWC2026 · 23/06/2026 00:46

mindutopia · 22/06/2026 18:36

Yes, of course, it’s a horrible example. That’s why I wouldn’t take my kids to that sort of thing. That said, I suspect a lot of the parents who do are already setting a bad example for their children around alcohol.

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JustGiveMeReason · 23/06/2026 00:53

I think you need to separate out the two things.

One - a victory parade, celebrating a real achievement with an open top bus tour. I don't actually see why the players need alcohol on the bus but I don't have a problem with it either. I think it goes with the territory of celebrating things in the UK.

However I do think there is an issue in most (all?) rugby clubs with the drinking culture and 'ceremonies' such as players having to down a pint faster than the opposition player, when they've been chosen as back / forward / player of the match, or for other "fines" at socials and so forth. That, I do see as a problem, yes.

Plantchoc · 23/06/2026 06:20

The op has avoided confirming whether she’s involved with this rugby team. Clearly - yes she is. How so I wonder

either way…. There are clearly successful athletes in a hardcore sport requiring very very good fitness levels. I think that is a rather inspiring example for children

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