Feeling happier single than in relationships after some summer solstice reflection

[WorldCupWillie]

Hope this doesn't sound too woo woo. I've been doing a bit of thinking around summer solstice etc. My friend's gone to solstice yoga in Scarborough, I couldn't because of work. Thinking about being single and being happier single than I was in any of my relationships (2 years, 10 years, 4 years, three engagements, one that led to marriage) Do you think I'm just making excuses for myself because they didn't work out? Choosing the wrong guys?

I’m happiest single too - living alone with my cat is pure joy as far as I’m concerned. And if you’re happy as you are that’s all that matters.

I’m not suited to romantic relationships. I wish I had worked this out before my late forties but there you are. Two divorces under my belt.

I just love being single and much prefer it. I totally understand that some people prefer to be coupled up, and good luck to them, but it’s not for me.

I know for a fact that I thrive more when I’m single than in any relationship.

I’m giving a relationship a chance right now (we’re engaged) and he is all kinds of lovely, but I don’t fear becoming single again in the future one bit. It’s like it’s my natural state. 😊

Being single is brilliant and should be more socially acceptable than it seems to be.
I love doing what I want, when I want. I know if I was in a relationship I’d have to deal with crappy behaviour and compromise, but right now I don’t want to. That may change if I meet someone lovely, but like you I make poor choices when it comes to men.
It’s fine to recognise that.
It’s also fine to stay single.
Do what makes you happy.