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Are there any dentists/hygienists on here?

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ThorsMistress · 17/06/2026 19:40

I need advice and a major hand hold.

I’ve neglected my teeth for years. Petrified of the dentist so put off going for years. I noticed a few days ago my 2 bottom teeth wobbled. I have never felt so scared.

I bit the bullet and went to see my new dentist who is absolutely AMAZING. By the grace of god the mobility in those teeth is only 0.5. I have bone damage but not as much as I thought and we have come up with a plan.

Im having the teeth cleaned by a hygienist tomorrow. I have excessive plaque build up behind my teeth and what I would say is severe gum recession. I am desperate to have the teeth cleaned and get this sorted so I can start on the path of having beautiful teeth.

As the appointment gets nearer the anxiety I have is causing me panic attacks. I know my mouth is going to feel very strange and I’m likely to have very sensitive teeth for a few days, but it’s the eating I’m panicked about. I’m worried about biting into anything and feeling my teeth wobble (I can’t feel them wobble atm, only when I use my finger).
I feel hot and clammy, struggle to breathe and constantly worry. I can’t eat due to a knot in my stomach. It’s an awful feeling.

I know I have a gap between my 2 bottom teeth which has been caused by plaque and that upsetting me too. Does anyone have any wise words? I know this is all my fault, I know I should have looked after my teeth better, hind sight is a wonderful thing. Just please know I am doing something about it now.

OP posts:
echt · 17/06/2026 23:34

It's good that you're taking this on, @ThorsMistress
I've recently had periodontal cleaning that involved having stitches across my upper palate. Deeply unamusing.
Like you I felt chary about biting foods after so decided to avoid it. The sensitivity to cold has taken while to adjust.

Are you being given anaesthetic? On the whole they can, as it were, dig deeper if you're not leaping around the chair. To be fair I'm a gigantic wuss and require ALL the drugs.

Good luck with it all.

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