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Today’s Social Media Ban Announcement: Discussion

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ByeByeTikTok · 15/06/2026 06:44

I haven’t seen a thread for today’s expected ban on social media for Under 16s so thought I’d start one. If there already is one pls link and I’ll get this deleted.

What will it likely include?
What won’t it include?
How do you and your kids feel about it, especially if they’re already using it?
Will you follow it, and when?
Will people try to get round it?

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TransportNerd · 15/06/2026 09:17

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 15/06/2026 07:31

I think it's a popular idea, and that's probably why they have gone for it. It isn't necessarily the best approach, though. I guess it's easier and more politically expedient to go for a ban than actually tackling the tech companies on the specific features of social media which are problematic.

Molly Russell's father speaks a lot of sense on this issue, and he isn't in favour of a ban.

Very much agree - I think this lets tech companies off the hook. They can now argue "there's no kids on there, so we don't have to moderate content", when of course any tech-savvy kid will work out how to get around it.

I think much tougher regulation would have been a better approach.

Keroppi · 15/06/2026 09:17

They'll just download a free vpn so what's the point

RedToothBrush · 15/06/2026 09:18

PinkChaires · 15/06/2026 09:15

Has the ban had any significant positive impact in Australia? (Genuinely asking)

i dont see why people are upset about this? Its common sense i think that kids should not have access to a place where they can be easily exploited and abused. I really hope that even if it doesny stop access as much, it will stop teens posting as others watching can get very influenced very quickly. I understand why the potential social media curfew has caused some upset though- yoi can vote,have a NI and are considered essentially an adult in many areas (healthcare for example) , but still have curfews on social media?

Because it's very poorly thought out and doesn't really understand the nature of the problem nor consider the unintended consequences.

The children most at risk will still be most at risk. But that's ok as the middle class voters will be under the misguided impression that it's 'problem solved' and be able to abdicate responsibility again.

Whinge · 15/06/2026 09:18

Honeyhonay · 15/06/2026 09:16

Said on a post, on a social media platform…

It's surprising just how many MN users don't realise MN is a social media platform.

relaxitsok · 15/06/2026 09:19

GeneralPeter · 15/06/2026 09:05

Well exactly. How strong is the evidence for the harms of social media relative to that of tobacco, alcohol or gambling?

These things need to be considered on their separate merits. Unless you’d support a list approach where the Secretary of State decides which whisky brands are banned for children based, seemingly, on the size of the distillery and taste of the minister.

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It’s the same playbook. Just like tobacco, we all know social media is addictive because we are all addicted to varying degrees!! What more evidence do you need? I’m being flippant - of course we need evidence for legislative change, but the evidence is building, just as it did with the other things I listed. Often bans have come in as evidence is building, not once it is settled.

Dweeb63 · 15/06/2026 09:19

Sarri · 15/06/2026 09:17

Similar to others on this thread - we've restricted access to all social media, and WhatsApp for our tweenage kid. It has been really helpful to have done this in agreement with other parents of their friends, who have felt the same - means that the 'everyone else does it!' argument does not stand-up and does not appear to have impacted anyones' social lives. If anything, it has kept them out of school dramas.

Of course there will be kids and parents who ignore the ban, but it will change the background conversation and social acceptability of use of social media by children, and it's also a good opportunity to talk about why the ban is in place with our kids.

Yes this is why it has been easy for us to not install any social media on our 11 year olds phone. She has sensible pals with sensible parents who have the same views. Because they are not on social media, she’s not bothered about it at all. But she’s moving to high school after the hols so I suspect that will change.

An 8 year old should be nowhere near social media ffs.

drunkelephant83 · 15/06/2026 09:19

ByeByeTikTok · 15/06/2026 09:11

Surely this is the point of it.

And frankly - why do under 16s need social media? There are plenty of channels where they can access REGULATED and age appropriate entertainment and content.

Tbh my child watches a lot of TikTok’s of children of a similar age to her doing GCSE’s sharing tips for revision, she also follows her old therapist on social media who also shares tips, in fact we found her therapist on social media. Sure they watch other crap but I monitor it, a lot.

Taking Snapchat away, ok, but surely this will all just move to WhatsApp?

Granted some parents don’t give a shit.

ElBandito · 15/06/2026 09:19

TheseWordsAreMine · 15/06/2026 09:13

I would change it to under 21's

So you are responsible enough to vote, but not use social media?

RedToothBrush · 15/06/2026 09:19

EasternStandard · 15/06/2026 09:07

Why is BlueSky left out of the ban, that is odd.

Is it?

You mean the really overly leftie bluesky that apparently has no issues? Except if you still have visions and aren't tone deaf.

TemperanceWest · 15/06/2026 09:19

Tauranga · 15/06/2026 08:47

This.

Why do people applaud the government making more laws? Do you not want to make your own minds up about life instead of being told what to do?

This will be used to implement a ban on adults too, just wait.
I see Blue Sky is allowed ( left wing) but not X

This is socialism.

Has the government actually said Bluesky is allowed? Do you have a link, please?

Cioccoholic · 15/06/2026 09:20

I’m delighted. We have to start somewhere and I did honestly shed a few tears for Al the families who truly don’t have “shit parents” as someone put it up-thread, but have found themselves facing devastating circumstances due to the direct or indirect effects of SM on their kids.

I wish something could be done to rein in WhatsApp but I appreciate it’s a bigger challenge.

TheseWordsAreMine · 15/06/2026 09:22

ElBandito · 15/06/2026 09:19

So you are responsible enough to vote, but not use social media?

Voting doesnt have as much impact on society as social media does.

yummyscummymummy01 · 15/06/2026 09:23

I presume YouTube Kids is still allowed? It’s not perfect but I like the science videos on there. As people have said above I think the gaming chat can be as toxic. I wonder whether that will be regulated in time.

MintTwirl · 15/06/2026 09:24

Surely this would have been the perfect opportunity to stop parenting influencers exploiting their children online? Why is that allowed but a 15 year old watching a crochet tutorial is going to be banned?

Mindia · 15/06/2026 09:24

TemperanceWest · 15/06/2026 09:19

Has the government actually said Bluesky is allowed? Do you have a link, please?

there is an easily found list of the banned ones

TemperanceWest · 15/06/2026 09:25

RedToothBrush · 15/06/2026 09:19

Is it?

You mean the really overly leftie bluesky that apparently has no issues? Except if you still have visions and aren't tone deaf.

I have checked, the claim is that Bluesky could be left out of the ban not will. The claim is from GB News, who then go on to say:

"Ministers will rule on which specific platforms face an under-16 ban at a later date".

So, fake news basically. It us being spread on X.

TheseWordsAreMine · 15/06/2026 09:25

Bluesky has its own level of sexual content, it's more trans on bluesky thats why its ok

Whinge · 15/06/2026 09:25

MintTwirl · 15/06/2026 09:24

Surely this would have been the perfect opportunity to stop parenting influencers exploiting their children online? Why is that allowed but a 15 year old watching a crochet tutorial is going to be banned?

This is a good point.

A child can't watch social media content.

But they can be the social media content.

Honeyhonay · 15/06/2026 09:25

TemperanceWest · 15/06/2026 09:19

Has the government actually said Bluesky is allowed? Do you have a link, please?

As far as I can see there has not been a list published and people are just taking any excuse to moan. The only details at the minute is a headline ‘platforms like Snapchat, TikTok, YouTube, Instagram, Facebook and X.’ It seems obvious they’ve used the biggest names for the headline to make it clear what is being discussed.

PropertyD · 15/06/2026 09:25

There are always feckless parents who will help their kids get around the ban. Not sure how many 13 year olds can actually buy a VPN!

There was a young girl on TV this morning saying that she was on for 8 hours yesterday and the ban was wrong. When the reporter asked her what she would do with her time she said 'she would just stare at the wall'. The ban is correct. It wont be 100% and of course I am not sure of the timing bearing in mind this has been going on for years but it is the right thing to do.

bobandhop · 15/06/2026 09:25

bovrilormarmite · 15/06/2026 09:16

At least if my 14 yo daughter is using my instagram account she’ll mainly be seeing puppies, recipes and home decor. Any changes to the algorithm I would notice and swiftly fix.

Instagram is dangerous. I use tofollow school updates and a handful of home improvement creators. It must have picked up on something and my feed was populated with gloomy, depressive content relating to a field of study, advocating for students or newly qualified graduates to give up their studies or jobs and promoting that horrible sense of victimhood, even glamouring self harm. These were coming in hard and fast, post after post. Around the same time I also received a barrage of AI generated posts about CSA and alleged 'survivors' (it was AI generated, not real) sharing stories about going on sleepovers and being abused as children. I felt disturbed by it and I am not easily rattled. Imagine a young teenager dealing with this.

EasternStandard · 15/06/2026 09:27

RedToothBrush · 15/06/2026 09:19

Is it?

You mean the really overly leftie bluesky that apparently has no issues? Except if you still have visions and aren't tone deaf.

They’ll have to include it. Otherwise you’ll just get successive govs doing the same and leaving out what suits them.

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 15/06/2026 09:27

TransportNerd · 15/06/2026 09:17

Very much agree - I think this lets tech companies off the hook. They can now argue "there's no kids on there, so we don't have to moderate content", when of course any tech-savvy kid will work out how to get around it.

I think much tougher regulation would have been a better approach.

This is precisely why it's nothing more than a piece of fraudulent, lazy politicking, which dishonestly purports to be something it is not. The U-18 pornography age verification farce is exactly the same.

There is no intention of holding teens or Guardians responsible for their own use, instead, some unenforceable legislation that purports to shift the onus onto SM companies to regulate who can and can not use their apps. This presents a number of irreconcilable issues which render the legislation wholly pointless.

First of all, any company not based entirely in the UK can simply ignore the legislation because Ofcom is utterly powerless outside the UK, as 4Chan are handily proving, to the extent that even their lawyers are openly trolling Ofcom's continued impotence.

Then there is the simple fact that by shifting onus to the SM companies, they can simply put up a few cursory restrictions on access from the UK, claim "job done", meanwhile every teen just continues on with SM usage as before because the workaround involves two more clicks on a keyboard or activating an in-browser VPN.

Yet another of the endless examples of UK politicians being wholly incapable of grasping what the Internet actually is, or at least, relying on the public's general ignorance of the fact that UK laws have no jurisdiction whatsoever over Internet entities not based in the UK. The fact their products can be accessed and utilised by people inside the UK is inconsequential.

Honeyhonay · 15/06/2026 09:27

Mindia · 15/06/2026 09:24

there is an easily found list of the banned ones

Feel free to share if you’re going to make that claim because it doesn’t appear to be the case.

TemperanceWest · 15/06/2026 09:27

Mindia · 15/06/2026 09:24

there is an easily found list of the banned ones

Is there,? Could you link please, because it seems no announcement has been made on which sites will be banned. Even GB News admits that in its article.