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Today’s Social Media Ban Announcement: Discussion

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ByeByeTikTok · 15/06/2026 06:44

I haven’t seen a thread for today’s expected ban on social media for Under 16s so thought I’d start one. If there already is one pls link and I’ll get this deleted.

What will it likely include?
What won’t it include?
How do you and your kids feel about it, especially if they’re already using it?
Will you follow it, and when?
Will people try to get round it?

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TemperanceWest · 15/06/2026 11:05

BrookStreamRiverlet · 15/06/2026 10:43

It was all over the news a few days ago in reaction to the events in Belfast - you might want to start by looking at the broader implications of the ‘online safety act’ bearing in mind the use of words such as ‘hateful’ to describe speech is subjective and open to manipulation.

Do you mean this? It is very different to @justasking111 claims that "in times of emergency eg protests, Belfast etc all videos, etc will be blocked in the UK".

UK regulator orders social media firms to adopt measures to stop viral illegal content | Social media | The Guardian https://share.google/VB6CHbuyHmuSb1w6e

EasternStandard · 15/06/2026 11:05

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 15/06/2026 11:02

"Socialism" keeps being blamed in this thread, presumably by people who, for some baffling reason, still believe Starmer's Labour is in any identifiable way "Socialist".

It's Authoritarianism, which transcends both Right and Left. The people actually operating the data-harvesting entities desperately trying to convince government to adopt their tech in all facets of public life, do you genuinely think these people are Socialists?

Socialism is usually a bigger state so that’s why. Authoritarianism is the culprit too.

I get some of the upsides for this but the increase in control can’t be dismissed.

Vanillaicelatte · 15/06/2026 11:07

Sartre · 15/06/2026 10:24

I totally agree with you. If people can’t see this is backdoor digital ID then I give up.

Yep
I followed the OSA it’s taken years to get in place
it’s never ever ever been about child safety

that’s just a stick t beat people with if they say no

this is a way to get people used to scanning their face and giving there id

I don’t use any of the main platforms like Insta Twitter tick tock
i use Facebook now and then but I’ve had the account for years
but if they want me to give up my id they can fuck right off

Angelsarewithme · 15/06/2026 11:07

My 10 year old daughter hasn’t got a smartphone yet and it’ll be a lot more effective and easier for me in the future to say to her you can’t be on social media until you’re 16 cause it’s illegal rather than saying something vague about social media being bad for you. I’m very happy about this and there’s been groups lobbying for this,parents signing petition etc so it hasn’t come out of the blue.

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 15/06/2026 11:11

EasternStandard · 15/06/2026 11:05

Socialism is usually a bigger state so that’s why. Authoritarianism is the culprit too.

I get some of the upsides for this but the increase in control can’t be dismissed.

I get some of the upsides for this but the increase in control can’t be dismissed

This is why I'm not overly worried... yet.

This is no different to the age-verification legislation. It's easily circumvented, impossible to enforce, and therefore does not compel compliance, so it's of limited use for nefarious purposes due to being simple to avoid. However, it is yet another step down the road of the public eagerly running into the arms of State Control, censorship, monitoring of Comms as a matter of routine, big data, data-harvesting, social credit, digital ID, etc etc, so from that perspective it is still concerning.

Again though, I am in total agreeance that SM influence on children does need addressed, just that performative, knee-jerk nonsense like this isn't how to go about it.

Tauranga · 15/06/2026 11:12

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 15/06/2026 11:02

"Socialism" keeps being blamed in this thread, presumably by people who, for some baffling reason, still believe Starmer's Labour is in any identifiable way "Socialist".

It's Authoritarianism, which transcends both Right and Left. The people actually operating the data-harvesting entities desperately trying to convince government to adopt their tech in all facets of public life, do you genuinely think these people are Socialists?

You have a different opinion.
I don't disagree that data harvesters will want the generated data.

However in a tale as old as time, and seen in present day China, and Iran, politicians want to give the people only the information they wwant them to receive, with the right spin.

Henry Novak s family had to fight the police to stop them putting out false information about their son.
The "Sophie of Dundee" child had false information put out about her by the police.
How many stories have we seen doctored by the press or ignored???

Monty36 · 15/06/2026 11:15

Children have died because of it. The big players have not acted swiftly or responsibly.
I admired Australia for doing it first. The internet is not a safe place for children.
Until it is then I support this.

Shatteredallthetimelately · 15/06/2026 11:16

Blahblahblahhhhhs · 15/06/2026 06:52

Honestly in theory I think it’s a great idea.

but unfortunately in practice- we are in general a poor generation of parents who give devices to children to keep them quiet.
“mum can I have your iPad mum mum mum “ and the child will have mums iPad with no restrictions.

and the government will have spent a fortune trying to sort it.

🤷‍♂️

I totally agree with this.

I, and many others with late 80's/90's born DC never relied on devices or waited for any government to do their parenting for them.

Although it'll probably be down to parents to implement the new rules on their DC, many already having proved it's not something they're willing to do hence yet another decision to do it for them bought in .. so let's wait and see.

Hopefully the fortune spent hasn't been a waste of tax payers money.

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 15/06/2026 11:21

Tauranga · 15/06/2026 11:12

You have a different opinion.
I don't disagree that data harvesters will want the generated data.

However in a tale as old as time, and seen in present day China, and Iran, politicians want to give the people only the information they wwant them to receive, with the right spin.

Henry Novak s family had to fight the police to stop them putting out false information about their son.
The "Sophie of Dundee" child had false information put out about her by the police.
How many stories have we seen doctored by the press or ignored???

Yes, none of this is anything to do with "socialism" though.

China and Iran are both Authoritarian, but they are not Socialist, unless you are still taking the old Stalinist States' self-described brand of "Socialism" tag and using that to describe outright Authoritarian despotism.

No doubt Vance will appear at some point in the next couple of days bemoaning the UK's decent into "socialist" madness, decrying the death of Free Speech and such, while ignoring the fact his own government is desperately trying to dismantle equality, and civil and legal rights in his own country while subjecting anyone suspected of being less than 100% white American to state-sponsored lynchings. As I said, Authoritarianism transcends Left and Right, both are as guilty of it as each other, and it does not, in isolation, signify that a State or Government is Socialist.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 15/06/2026 11:34

I think growing up without social media lays key foundations re: maturity, resilience, intelligence, all things which mean an 18 year old is much better placed to handle social media than a 16 year old
I think locking in those essential coping skills and solid foundations early, without the pernicious influence of SM, is actually going to be really positive for so many people. It will be great to see children building social skills the old fashioned way by playing in person rather than chatting over Snapchat

I agree with every word of this, @FinchiePink, but achieving it's going to take one hell of an adjustment when the simple method of not giving a smartphone to under 16s is anathema to so many

The usual excuses about school schedules, bus passes and the rest all relying on them are easily solved if the will's there, but persuading some that shrieks of "S'not faaaiiirrr, I WANT ..." aren't the same as getting could be harder

FWIW I'm no fan of government control either and would much rather such things be left to individuals, but it's got beyond that now with too many children zombiefied by screens and losing the ability to communicate in any other way

https://euroweeklynews.com/2026/05/31/uk-school-introduces-conversation-classes-as-kids-lose-ability-to-talk/

Kids using phones in schools

UK school introduces Conversation classes

A primary school in Derby has introduced conversation lessons for children, after teachers concerns about pupils struggling with face-to-face communication.

https://euroweeklynews.com/2026/05/31/uk-school-introduces-conversation-classes-as-kids-lose-ability-to-talk/

happydappy2 · 15/06/2026 11:52

So who will be punished if a child accesses social media? How will they be punished?

Nc4dis · 15/06/2026 11:52

All these people going on about government “controlling” you - you realise these tech companies are literally controlling the content of your kids minds with what they are showing them in their addictive feeds? I totally support the ban.

I’m 33 and grew up in the 2000s when it was a wild west with Myspace, Facebook (aka bullying and semi-naked party photos all being released online), forums, gaming etc - most parents didn’t have a clue what their kids were doing. My parents thought I was doing homework! Everyone who is so sure they know exactly what their kids do online, I think is being really naive. In my school people had porn, ISIS beheading videos, all sorts on their phones - and this was a “naice” posh grammar school. Nowadays is 10x worse with the addictive brain rot pushed on us on all platforms, it is a scourge on society.

Yes Youtube can be educational, but even then it’s so addictive, whatever you look up. I want to look up a watercolour painting tutorial - there are so many clickbaity suggestions that it’s easy to suddenly spend 2 hours watching tutorials and not do any painting. Even BBC news, you read an article and at the end it is pushing 3 similar ones on to you. All these platforms want is your attention and clicks. It’s all very well saying “parent well” but it’s much harder to go against the grain when all your kid’s friends are allowed something. Smoking, alcohol, driving are for adults for a reason - it’s not left to the discretion of the parents!

HobGobblynne · 15/06/2026 11:57

Dweeb63 · 15/06/2026 10:46

Maybe the fact that they are going to the lengths of taking this action shows just how harmful social media can be for kids. That’s the point - like smoking and alcohol etc, it is the message that it sends.

Maybe, I'll be interested to see how it will work in practice. I think social media can be really beneficial for some children, if used appropriately. Which is why I think an outright ban is too much.

tfortable · 15/06/2026 12:01

Nc4dis · 15/06/2026 11:52

All these people going on about government “controlling” you - you realise these tech companies are literally controlling the content of your kids minds with what they are showing them in their addictive feeds? I totally support the ban.

I’m 33 and grew up in the 2000s when it was a wild west with Myspace, Facebook (aka bullying and semi-naked party photos all being released online), forums, gaming etc - most parents didn’t have a clue what their kids were doing. My parents thought I was doing homework! Everyone who is so sure they know exactly what their kids do online, I think is being really naive. In my school people had porn, ISIS beheading videos, all sorts on their phones - and this was a “naice” posh grammar school. Nowadays is 10x worse with the addictive brain rot pushed on us on all platforms, it is a scourge on society.

Yes Youtube can be educational, but even then it’s so addictive, whatever you look up. I want to look up a watercolour painting tutorial - there are so many clickbaity suggestions that it’s easy to suddenly spend 2 hours watching tutorials and not do any painting. Even BBC news, you read an article and at the end it is pushing 3 similar ones on to you. All these platforms want is your attention and clicks. It’s all very well saying “parent well” but it’s much harder to go against the grain when all your kid’s friends are allowed something. Smoking, alcohol, driving are for adults for a reason - it’s not left to the discretion of the parents!

Agreeing with every word.

TrayBakesAreSweet · 15/06/2026 12:45

TheWineoftheChicken · 15/06/2026 10:00

I don’t think WhatsApp comes under the scope of the ban so hopefully he can still keep in touch with friends?

Yes, that’s a fair point. At least he won’t be completely cut off.

Honeyhonay · 15/06/2026 12:45

GeneralPeter · 15/06/2026 11:03

Main story in the Metro today was a bereaved father saying the measures are rushed and address the wrong things. He seems to think a big opportunity to do effective regulation is being missed becuase of a political desire to announce something eye catching.

It’s interesting he doesn’t go on the news to discuss parents role in policing how much and what type of content their very young teens consume online though.
The current proposed legislation is a lot more than many parents are doing to keep their own children safe.

Mepop · 15/06/2026 12:47

ImImmortalNowBabyDoll · 15/06/2026 10:52

I am not sure how it's going to work.

Are they going to delete all the accounts of the U-16s currently on SM? Or just not allow new sign-ups?

If YouTube is going to be included, does that mean that YouTube will only be accessible by age verified login with no open access? Or will you still be able to watch videos but not post or comment? If YouTube isn't included, doesn't that just mean that content creators targeting kids will just focus more on YT than TikTok?

What does it mean for "family influencers" and "kidfluencers"? Are they going to be able to post content that their kids cannot access? Or will they be banned altogether? This is going to be fiddly for providers to delete all media featuring kids- what if the kids in question have now grown up?

What will be done about parents simply using their own ID to sign their kids up, as already happens with U-13s?

My teen’s best friend moved to Australia recently. Teens there cannot access YouTube at all with an account. So they cannot watch videos at all on YouTube. I think the same is proposed here. You cannot use YouTube.

I do think the YouTube total ban is concerning my eldest is 18 he used YouTube for revision for GCSEs, teachers point the kids to educational sites some kids will not be 16 when they take GCSEs and will not be able to access it. Other kids may not have ID to get accounts - do many 16 year olds have id they feel safe sharing online? The face certification/verification might work well for us adults but for teens it does not work well.

FancyBiscuitsLevel · 15/06/2026 12:54

You tube will be the interesting one. If WhatsApp is included that will make my DDs ability to coordinate her “train buddies” getting on the same train to school trickier and make my life a little harder.

justasking111 · 15/06/2026 12:54

Tauranga · 15/06/2026 11:12

You have a different opinion.
I don't disagree that data harvesters will want the generated data.

However in a tale as old as time, and seen in present day China, and Iran, politicians want to give the people only the information they wwant them to receive, with the right spin.

Henry Novak s family had to fight the police to stop them putting out false information about their son.
The "Sophie of Dundee" child had false information put out about her by the police.
How many stories have we seen doctored by the press or ignored???

I have family in China. This is harsher believe me.

justasking111 · 15/06/2026 12:56

FancyBiscuitsLevel · 15/06/2026 12:54

You tube will be the interesting one. If WhatsApp is included that will make my DDs ability to coordinate her “train buddies” getting on the same train to school trickier and make my life a little harder.

He said WhatsApp and blue sky were excluded.

JustKeepSwimmingJust · 15/06/2026 12:57

Teachers will have to find non-you tube resources. Now is the time to pressure bbc to modernise bitesize, not push kids who are supposed to be doing homework into the infinite click you tube environment.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 15/06/2026 12:58

Is it no longer possible to watch YouTube without logging in? Sorry, I don't use it much, so not really sure?

justasking111 · 15/06/2026 12:58

Mepop · 15/06/2026 12:47

My teen’s best friend moved to Australia recently. Teens there cannot access YouTube at all with an account. So they cannot watch videos at all on YouTube. I think the same is proposed here. You cannot use YouTube.

I do think the YouTube total ban is concerning my eldest is 18 he used YouTube for revision for GCSEs, teachers point the kids to educational sites some kids will not be 16 when they take GCSEs and will not be able to access it. Other kids may not have ID to get accounts - do many 16 year olds have id they feel safe sharing online? The face certification/verification might work well for us adults but for teens it does not work well.

My son at university has to follow lectures on YouTube. He likes it because you can replay them. I wouldn't like to see GCSE and other youngsters blocked from educational information.

bobandhop · 15/06/2026 13:12

FancyBiscuitsLevel · 15/06/2026 12:54

You tube will be the interesting one. If WhatsApp is included that will make my DDs ability to coordinate her “train buddies” getting on the same train to school trickier and make my life a little harder.

What's App included in the ban? Ridiculous.

Honeyhonay · 15/06/2026 13:13

bobandhop · 15/06/2026 13:12

What's App included in the ban? Ridiculous.

It’s not, many people are just making things up at this point.

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