So me and husband got this couple friend whom we meet occasionally and hang out. I wouldn't say we are very close but just distant friendship. The couple had a baby last year and since then we haven't got that much chance to get out for meals etc like we used to.
I'm currently pregnant and first time I announced to her she offered to give me some of her baby's clothes which I agreed too. Then when it comes to it, I asked her if I can still grab couple of things I might need. We are arranged a date for me to go pick up the clothes from her house but on the day, she cancelled saying her partner wasn't feeling that day. I said fine and forgot about it.
Few days ago like after a month, she said I could come and pick up the clothes. To which I replied I don't need it anymore since I bought everything. Reality is I bought everything as I was getting tired from the pregnancy and didn't want to bother people to give me stuff etc.
On the message she also said they could come to our house and give us the stuff. However since I declined the items, I offered them to still come to ours so that we can catch up. She replied to my message after like 16 hours with a thumbs up, she also didn't answer my question where I asked about her son.
So today, I sent her another text offering they can come for dinner and we will make something for them. She declined the invitation saying it's better to make it next time as her partner is working away next week but they will still come to see us. I just find it a bit weird as we have met on Sundays before he had to go early to work next day and it wasn't a problem.
I'm not sure it's just the late replies, the decline and last minute cancelation etc is throwing me off and made me think that maybe they don't want socialise with us anymore.
Am I just overthinking this or have a I got a reason to feel this way?