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Which countries are worth considering if we leave the UK?

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Camarthen67912 · 10/06/2026 17:27

It's got to the point where, by the end of August this year, we will pretty much be the only ones of our friend group left in the UK, and it's got us wondering if we should be leaving too!

I just wondered if there's any places we hadn't thought of but that might be worth looking into.

DH's cousin is moving to Malta next month which was somewhere we hadn't really considered. Thailand apparently has a very good scheme as well, and two of my uni friends are in Sri Lanka. Another school friend is moving to Canada soon. Cyprus is another place I've heard people rave about too.

We're fairly open to suggestions, but I can't say Dubai/Abu Dhabi/Oman especially appeals.

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Silverbirchleaf · Yesterday 10:36

Friends daughter is very happy in Singapore.

if you speak Spanish, then South America seems the obvious choice outside Spain.

wheresthesnowgone · Yesterday 10:36

MoleskineNotebooks · Yesterday 10:32

Yet another one of these bizarre threads where a disenchanted Brit seems to think that the world is their oyster.

Some people do have choices. Not everyone is restricted to one place if they don't want to be.

frozendaisy · Yesterday 10:40

Bermuda

MoleskineNotebooks · Yesterday 10:42

wheresthesnowgone · Yesterday 10:36

Some people do have choices. Not everyone is restricted to one place if they don't want to be.

Sure. I've lived in several countries myself. But I've never posted on the internet asking 'Which country should I move to?' because friends had moved on, and I had some utopian idea about some other country that would be delighted to offer me and my DH a visa, provide sunshine, child safety, a higher disposable income and good job opportunities for my children?

In fairness, this poster speaks more languages than the usual people who post this, but doesn't in fact appear to be focusing particularly on countries where she/her DH speak the language.

friedaklein · Yesterday 10:43

Thailand and Sri Lanka do not have good youth employment.

Monty36 · Yesterday 10:48

Beware the grass being greener. Every country will have things about it that will not be great. From disagreeable wildlife, to weather systems that are far more extreme. House prices may be far higher in some places than expected.
And ease of travel. We are lucky in being virtually smack bang in the middle. Live in any of the extremes and travelling to some places becomes very hard indeed.
I suppose what I mean is be realistic. It is easy to look at somewhere sunny and think it would be better than here. And here at the moment is crap. In all sorts of ways. Choose wisely. From money to attitudes to things we take for granted but might be very different elsewhere.
And last and not least at all is the exchange rate. If paid here how would it work out wherever you are going.

ElizaMulvil · Yesterday 11:03

You need to consider the future for your children.

And yourself before you move. Friend 1 moved from GB (with 3 children 2 in school. First to US then Hong Kong, then Washington. His wife sacrificed her career, the children were totally confused educationally. Both parents were UK graduates their children ended up non graduates. Friends 2 left UK for Europe. Wife had to sacrifice her career. Family returned to UK when children were teens. Education totally at sea. Both couples ended up divorced. Both husbands remarried. Both wives didn't and ended up in poverty. So you need to consider whether you are already self sufficiently financially, if not could you work abroad? Could you cope financially if the marriage ends? What plans are needed for your children's education if you leave the UK system?

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deplorabelle · Yesterday 14:36

When you say safety for your children what are you considering are the major risks your children face?

Often people mean crime, but your children face a far higher risk from road traffic collision so you should factor that into your calculations en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_traffic-related_death_rate?wprov=sfla1

igelkott2026 · Yesterday 16:39

I think instead of asking on here which countries are best, I'd be looking at which countries I think I can get a visa for, and then narrow down from there.

As you both speak Spanish, maybe looking at available visas for Spain would be a good idea. But note youth unemployment is bad to worse everywhere (except for the Netherlands).

Dusktilldawn99 · Yesterday 16:42

Somewhere they like immigrants more than here!

Ritaskitchen · Yesterday 16:45

You need to consider the passports you have, the skills you have and the restrictions. Eg in Europe my understanding is that first they consider nationals, then other EU nationals and lastly non Eu nationals. So it’s much harder to get a job.
in other areas you need an employer to sponsor a visa.
That’s your first thing to do.

Ritaskitchen · Yesterday 16:46

Ooh and of course any languages you speak. Unless the office language is English.

lljkk · Yesterday 16:47
  • somewhere we'd have more disposable income
Egypt, seriously, you'd have loads disp. income there, and the sunshine/warmth. I bet the safety for kids indices are good, too.
  • safety for our children
Do you want to elaborate, safe in what way? Unicef child happiness index most rates Denmark, Netherlands & France. You'll only get lots of sun in France. France is not known for high disposable income, though. Portugal has sun and high happiness & maybe lower cost of living. Language is like Spanish.
  • opportunities in the future for our children (so good youth employment etc)
Qatar is a high income country with very low youth unemployment. They have sun, at least.

Youth unemployment by country, around the world | TheGlobalEconomy.com

The average for 2023 based on 177 countries was 15.77 percent. The highest value was in Djibouti: 76.27 percent and the lowest value was in Niger: 0.42 percent. The indicator is available from 1991 to 2024. Below is a chart for all countries where da...

https://www.theglobaleconomy.com/rankings/youth_unemployment/

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