I recently put a post on about My partner and I want a baby in the future but he says he’s not quite ready yet (I am) but is happy for me to be pregnant by next April when I’m 31. We always use condoms and he’s usually VERY strict about it. In fact, he wouldn’t even let his penis touch or be near my area without a condom on before, never mind actually go inside me.
The other night, while we were getting intimate, he asked if he could put it in and briefly did without a condom for a few seconds but didn’t move just cuddled, before putting one on. I didn’t question it at the time because I was so surprised. Then the next time we had sex, it was back to normal with a condom from the start.
It’s confused me because it’s completely out of character for him. Am I reading too much into it, or could it be a sign he’s becoming more comfortable with the baby idea? He’s told me he definitely wants children with me, just not this year, so I’d love to hear what others think.
i know it might not seem too deep to others but the fact he was so strict with condoms since we’ve been together and then asks that? It did really through me off. I haven’t asked him as I don’t want to spook him. Thanks