She is 17 soon, had another fall out with her mum and won’t stay here (she’s refused to for years as she says we live too far away and needs her friends, don’t ask, we’ve tried) her mum has kicked her out yet again, they don’t get on mainly because her mum is not a nice person, she’s been doing this since she was 13 and dsd has learnt to not need her. Only sees us for a limited time because she wants to stay at her bfs or friends houses, We’re basically begging her to come and live with us, she’s won’t go to college, wants a job which she isn’t really trying to get… doesn’t want to do the work that comes with college. We’re offering her a roof over her head, food in her belly, money for essentials, but she’s not having it, has contacted a charity for their help! Said she wants to live in a HMO with people her age, I just don’t get it? She could be housed with addicts all sorts in an absolute shithole ! We live an hour away by car from where she lives now. she could get the train to see her friends/they could come here, she can look for a job around here, or we can finally convince her to go to the local college but she just will not budge. What else can we do ?