I was part of a core group of friends at school many years ago. We stayed in touch for a long time but since having kids 15 years ago I didn’t really see anyone any more. Not really planned just everyone lived in different places and regular catch ups got less regular. I do message them all at least once a year and always suggest meeting up but it never comes to anything. Anyway I’ve just found out that the others all meet up pretty regularly. I just assumed that we all drifted apart but it seems like it was just me! I can accept that they just don’t like me as much as they like each other but it’s just made me feel really sad. It’s not being helped by the fact that all my other friends still have big groups of friends from school who they still see regularly and I’m just a bit sad that I don’t have that. Even my husband still sees his school friends regularly and he’s terrible at keeping in touch with people!
just wanted to share to see if anyone else had similar situations.