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Boy with Tourette’s denied boarding after bomb remark

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TamanTun · 26/05/2026 15:00

I was just thinking about the news article about the 13 year old boy who was denied boarding after shouted ‘bomb’ at the gate. His parents had warned the airline in advance, he had his diagnosis letter on him and was wearing a sunflower lanyard. Imagine a world where others would understand and be supportive in a case like this rather than what happened. The family had done everything they could to avoid something like this but yet it did happen. Why can we all not be more accepting? I suppose it comes with educating others and does depend on the situation.

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youalright · 26/05/2026 16:14

PeachMelbaYoghurt · 26/05/2026 16:13

I do understand your point of view, I'm terrified of flying myself and suffer panic attacks on planes. But I do think if passengers were made aware of his condition, then that would have helped to alleviate panic in others. Being scared of flying (which as I said, I am), isn't a disability, Tourette's is.

But ptsd and other anxiety disorders are disabilities there will be many people on the flight with both.

Dramaticcandle · 26/05/2026 16:16

PeachMelbaYoghurt · 26/05/2026 16:13

I do understand your point of view, I'm terrified of flying myself and suffer panic attacks on planes. But I do think if passengers were made aware of his condition, then that would have helped to alleviate panic in others. Being scared of flying (which as I said, I am), isn't a disability, Tourette's is.

What if someone with different disability wouldn't the be able to fly?
Eg. severe anxiety disorded, ND, PTSD and so on.
Whose disability would "win"

CheeseNPickle3 · 26/05/2026 16:17

Belinnda · 26/05/2026 16:14

But if they let him board the plane, he might have carried on … I’m not an especially nervous passenger but I wouldn’t want to sit near someone shouting bomb all the time. It would freak me out a bit I think!

Yep - he almost definitely would have carried on. That's exactly how tourettes works. He can't stop it. It's one flight for you but it's his entire life.

PeachMelbaYoghurt · 26/05/2026 16:17

kittyplotty · 26/05/2026 16:12

What if an actual terrorist is on the same plane (this is what aviation security seeks to prevent) and everyone ignores shouts of bomb?

But unless the Tourette's sufferer is also a clairvoyant, how would they know? Airport security is supposed to check ALL passengers for explosives. A Tourette's sufferer shouting bomb whilst an actual terrorist is on the plane with a bomb would be quite the coincidence. I also fail to see the connection between the two as one would be a disabled child with Tourette's, the other, a terrorist. Two very separate and unconnected things.

People on this thread astound me.

Jamesblonde2 · 26/05/2026 16:18

I’m team airline. Safety of passengers and their well-being is paramount. Disability doesn’t trump everything. His parents can still take him on holiday abroad, they can drive.

youalright · 26/05/2026 16:18

A person's disability doesn't trump other peoples disability and comfort levels. What if a man with dementia or autism liked to grab at women would that be OK for them to be on the flight because they had a disability.

PeachMelbaYoghurt · 26/05/2026 16:19

youalright · 26/05/2026 16:14

But ptsd and other anxiety disorders are disabilities there will be many people on the flight with both.

Again, I understand that, I have cPTSD, but as I said before, if people are made aware, they hopefully will have some understanding. We all have to live in this world together and sometimes we have to tolerate being together.

TamanTun · 26/05/2026 16:19

It will be interesting to see if the airline can prove whether they explored all possible adjustments in order to comply with the 2010 Equality Act, especially as the parents followed all steps they needed to in advance. I understand that
security protocols need to be followed but I am sure there could have been other prior accommodations that could have happened from the airlines side that could have avoided this.

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Tontostitis · 26/05/2026 16:19

CheeseNPickle3 · 26/05/2026 15:40

People with tourettes should absolutely be allowed to fly. It just requires better management so letting them board first, announcement to the other passengers etc. Anything else is discrimination.

I do take the point about it being upsetting or frightening for the other passengers but a little grace goes a long way.

I also think that if anyone was actually planning to bring a bomb on a plane the last thing they'd do is announce it loudly.

It's got nothing to do with wondering if he had a bomb or believing he had a bomb or the potential of him having one. It's the fact that when someone shouts bomb on a plane in an airport or in a queue for a plane it causes a mass panic. By the time you've said don't worry he's got tourette's and waved your.sunflower lanyard around people could have died in a stampede or a mad rush or refuse to get on the plane demanded their things back the chaosit would cause is the problem not whether or not he'd actually got a bomb.

OneOrangeBulb · 26/05/2026 16:19

BogusBargins · 26/05/2026 15:50

I watched the families TikTok video where they were up in the airport duty managers face and barely allowing her to explain the rules and regs behind their decision. Public opinion sided with the airline, family did not expect this and have taken the video down (posted a link to another poster who stitched before it was pulled)

The child had actually said the word a few times in the airport and then up at the gate too - aviation law supersedes disability law and that’s that really.

Fully appreciate Tourette’s displays itself often by saying the exact opposite of what one should, there were some helpful comments in the video around being prescribed sedatives and perhaps melatonin to help relax them, very sad situation for the child involved.

vm.tiktok.com/ZNRnKkJ3T/

The parents behaviour was appalling, they deserved being denied boarding with the way they acted tbh.

Dramaticcandle · 26/05/2026 16:20

TamanTun · 26/05/2026 16:19

It will be interesting to see if the airline can prove whether they explored all possible adjustments in order to comply with the 2010 Equality Act, especially as the parents followed all steps they needed to in advance. I understand that
security protocols need to be followed but I am sure there could have been other prior accommodations that could have happened from the airlines side that could have avoided this.

What do you reckon would reasonable adjustment here be??

Tontostitis · 26/05/2026 16:20

PeachMelbaYoghurt · 26/05/2026 16:19

Again, I understand that, I have cPTSD, but as I said before, if people are made aware, they hopefully will have some understanding. We all have to live in this world together and sometimes we have to tolerate being together.

And sometimes people who shout bomb in an airport can't fly we all just have to be a bit understanding

PeachMelbaYoghurt · 26/05/2026 16:20

youalright · 26/05/2026 16:18

A person's disability doesn't trump other peoples disability and comfort levels. What if a man with dementia or autism liked to grab at women would that be OK for them to be on the flight because they had a disability.

Oh come on, the child wasn't groping women, it's hardly comparable 🙄

CheeseNPickle3 · 26/05/2026 16:20

youalright · 26/05/2026 16:18

A person's disability doesn't trump other peoples disability and comfort levels. What if a man with dementia or autism liked to grab at women would that be OK for them to be on the flight because they had a disability.

Also yes. With appropriate management. You don't just let someone go round grabbing people, you manage the situation by sitting them in the window seat, having a carer next to them etc.

youalright · 26/05/2026 16:21

PeachMelbaYoghurt · 26/05/2026 16:19

Again, I understand that, I have cPTSD, but as I said before, if people are made aware, they hopefully will have some understanding. We all have to live in this world together and sometimes we have to tolerate being together.

And sometimes we have to put the safety and comfort of the majority over a single individual.

youalright · 26/05/2026 16:21

PeachMelbaYoghurt · 26/05/2026 16:20

Oh come on, the child wasn't groping women, it's hardly comparable 🙄

Its exactly the same its about making others scared and uncomfortable

PeachMelbaYoghurt · 26/05/2026 16:23

Tontostitis · 26/05/2026 16:20

And sometimes people who shout bomb in an airport can't fly we all just have to be a bit understanding

We clearly disagree.

I'm accepting of everyone's disabilities, it's a shame others aren't. This is exactly why there are laws to protect those with disabilities are necessary.

You and all the others on this thread carry on thinking your own disabilities matter more than those with Tourette's. Tourette's sufferers get so much nasty judgemental discrimination against them every single day. My poor child, growing up in this nasty world.

Wynter25 · 26/05/2026 16:23

PeachMelbaYoghurt · 26/05/2026 16:02

Agree, as a mother of a 13yr old with Tourette's, I find the responses on this thread very very sad. Tourette's is a disability, and by it's very nature, inappropriate things are verbalised. The sufferer cannot stop or control this.

So many people still in this day and age just do not understand or have any compassion for Tourette's sufferers.

The staff could have, and should have handled this better, so as not to discriminate against a disabled child.

They did the right thing.

Jamesblonde2 · 26/05/2026 16:23

BogusBargins · 26/05/2026 15:50

I watched the families TikTok video where they were up in the airport duty managers face and barely allowing her to explain the rules and regs behind their decision. Public opinion sided with the airline, family did not expect this and have taken the video down (posted a link to another poster who stitched before it was pulled)

The child had actually said the word a few times in the airport and then up at the gate too - aviation law supersedes disability law and that’s that really.

Fully appreciate Tourette’s displays itself often by saying the exact opposite of what one should, there were some helpful comments in the video around being prescribed sedatives and perhaps melatonin to help relax them, very sad situation for the child involved.

vm.tiktok.com/ZNRnKkJ3T/

Urgh the family sound a right piece of work. Glad the public opinion is with the airline strictly following safety procedures. Egg on the family’s face.

Friendlygingercat · 26/05/2026 16:23

The needs of the many outweigh the needs of the one. This was immortalized by Spock in the 1982 film Star Trek II: The Wrath of Khan.

PeachMelbaYoghurt · 26/05/2026 16:24

youalright · 26/05/2026 16:21

Its exactly the same its about making others scared and uncomfortable

Sexual assault is not the same as some involuntarily shouting a word that makes others scared. Wise up.

TamanTun · 26/05/2026 16:24

Dramaticcandle · 26/05/2026 16:20

What do you reckon would reasonable adjustment here be??

Pre boarding

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Jamesblonde2 · 26/05/2026 16:27

TamanTun · 26/05/2026 16:19

It will be interesting to see if the airline can prove whether they explored all possible adjustments in order to comply with the 2010 Equality Act, especially as the parents followed all steps they needed to in advance. I understand that
security protocols need to be followed but I am sure there could have been other prior accommodations that could have happened from the airlines side that could have avoided this.

Issue is done and dusted as far as I’m concerned. Shout bomb, you don’t get on the plane. Take a non-flying holiday if you’re going to shout bomb.

youalright · 26/05/2026 16:27

PeachMelbaYoghurt · 26/05/2026 16:24

Sexual assault is not the same as some involuntarily shouting a word that makes others scared. Wise up.

Someone with dementia grabbing someone would also be involuntary and would also make people scared and uncomfortable. Which is why its exactly the same

Mumsntfan1 · 26/05/2026 16:27

TamanTun · 26/05/2026 16:24

Pre boarding

Ah yes. Gets on the plane screaming bomb then all the other passengers get on just fine.