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Boy with Tourette’s denied boarding after bomb remark

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TamanTun · 26/05/2026 15:00

I was just thinking about the news article about the 13 year old boy who was denied boarding after shouted ‘bomb’ at the gate. His parents had warned the airline in advance, he had his diagnosis letter on him and was wearing a sunflower lanyard. Imagine a world where others would understand and be supportive in a case like this rather than what happened. The family had done everything they could to avoid something like this but yet it did happen. Why can we all not be more accepting? I suppose it comes with educating others and does depend on the situation.

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Twisterlollies · 26/05/2026 22:38

Viviennemary · 26/05/2026 22:35

Absolutely ridiculous. The airline needs to prioritise the safety of the passengers. Which is why these regulations are in place.

Yep, bollocks to that.

Sacrificing public safety (let’s face it - women’s safety) is not a ‘reasonable adjustment’

lifeisgoodrightnow · 26/05/2026 22:40

Twisterlollies · 26/05/2026 22:37

More extreme than airlines handing out printed cards with presumably confidential
medical information to explain why somebody screaming BOMB a thousand feet up shouldn’t make them panic?

So you can’t . Thanks.

Twisterlollies · 26/05/2026 22:52

lifeisgoodrightnow · 26/05/2026 22:40

So you can’t . Thanks.

Ok, let’s do this the embarrassing way for you.

You’re saying nervous passengers needs trump a disabled person’s. That is neither legal nor acceptable.

That’s not what I said. The legal framework you refer to doesn’t even exist - you can’t have an adversarial system between 2 passengers. It would be the airline showing they made necessary and proportionate decisions to achieve a legitimate aim, an objective anyone with half a brain can see is reasonable here (going by the vast majority of the comments).

the airlines assume responsibility for nut allergies and do announcements and in fact don’t bother with ‘cards’ as well for the theoretical deaf people you brought up.

If you cannot see the difference between an easily implemented blanket rule which has zero issues of confidentiality, discrimination or practicalities, and an airline printing little cards to share the medical information of 1 passenger in a bid to minimise distress when they shout ‘bomb’, I’m not sure you’re up to this debate. I will also mention deaf people are not ‘theoretical’, they exist and I’m sure many deaf people flew even today.

CaesarAugusta · 26/05/2026 22:54

Viviennemary · 26/05/2026 22:35

Absolutely ridiculous. The airline needs to prioritise the safety of the passengers. Which is why these regulations are in place.

What regulations?

CaesarAugusta · 26/05/2026 22:55

Twisterlollies · 26/05/2026 22:37

More extreme than airlines handing out printed cards with presumably confidential
medical information to explain why somebody screaming BOMB a thousand feet up shouldn’t make them panic?

Where does it say he was screaming?

CaesarAugusta · 26/05/2026 22:57

Twisterlollies · 26/05/2026 19:44

So? Nobody is saying he actually had a bomb?

Isn't it obvious? People are in effect saying that a boy with this sort of problem could never be allowed on a plane, because the potential difficulties for other passengers are insuperable. Yet another airline apparently managed it perfectly well shortly afterwards,, presumably on two separate occasions.

itsjustthepricewepay · 26/05/2026 22:58

CaesarAugusta · 26/05/2026 22:57

Isn't it obvious? People are in effect saying that a boy with this sort of problem could never be allowed on a plane, because the potential difficulties for other passengers are insuperable. Yet another airline apparently managed it perfectly well shortly afterwards,, presumably on two separate occasions.

More like his parents managed to get him under control

CaesarAugusta · 26/05/2026 23:00

SavedByTheBells · 26/05/2026 20:09

Clearly asking the airport manager for her full name while being filmed with the express purpose of shamming her on SM isn't what I'd call reasonable behaviour

Was that the express purpose? How do you know? Perhaps the purpose was to provide themselves with evidence in order to reclaim their fares.

CaesarAugusta · 26/05/2026 23:01

itsjustthepricewepay · 26/05/2026 22:58

More like his parents managed to get him under control

If you know the magic bullet by which parents can control a child's Tourette's, do tell us all about it. There are many sufferers from Tourette's and their carers who would really love to know.

MrsTerryPratchett · 26/05/2026 23:05

lifeisgoodrightnow · 26/05/2026 22:00

What nonsense Is this by the way. Who said anything about hand waving ?

your severe flying phobia that allowed you to endure a 9 hour flight next to a child having a 9 hour meltdown only underlines exactly that a child tic’ing ( which rarely if ever would last 9 hours I’ve certainly never heard of it) should have been also manageable by you as a nervous passenger.

Edited

For someone who wants Tourette's taken seriously, you're very quick to dismiss other needs.

I don't have to explain the cause or timeline of my medical needs to you.

CaesarAugusta · 26/05/2026 23:06

MrsTerryPratchett · 26/05/2026 20:14

Also on the plane could be people with GAD or severe phobias or ESL who can understand bomb but not a long announcement or young children who will be distressed or people with CPTSD or veterans or any number of people with needs too.

Planes aren't 1 person with needs and 199 without.

I deal everyday with people with competing needs. And announcing people's disabilities to all and sundry is also an issue. Also discriminatory. It's a child's medical information FFS.

Manifestly people who cannot understand announcements on planes need someone with them to explain them, otherwise how are they ever going to follow directions in the event of an emergency? If a child is old enough to understand "bomb" then they're old enough to have it explained to them why they don't need to worry about it. People with phobias or PTSD will presumably make provision for tranquillisers or whatever they need before they set foot on a plane, given the various unexpected events that can happen. If they've been pre-warned, they're far less likely to be triggered anyway.

Presumably they deal with the issue of announcing the information by securing permission to do so. If the passenger doesn't agree, he doesn't get to fly. But that doesn't appear to have been the issue here.

lizzyBennet08 · 26/05/2026 23:06

I don't know what the answer is . But really it's not as simple as be kind and ignore it Z flying is terrifying for lots of people and someone shouting about a bomb whether before or during could be incredible distressing for them as well.

Such a horrible horrible condition. Such an invasion of their privacy

ThereAreOnlyShadesOfGrey · 26/05/2026 23:08

CaesarAugusta · 26/05/2026 22:57

Isn't it obvious? People are in effect saying that a boy with this sort of problem could never be allowed on a plane, because the potential difficulties for other passengers are insuperable. Yet another airline apparently managed it perfectly well shortly afterwards,, presumably on two separate occasions.

Bullshit.

He wasn’t removed from the flight in case he said the word bomb, he was removed because he did not once, but multiple times.

It’s like any situation. You wouldn’t for instance take an issue with someone with a disability which could mean that they have violent tendencies, but if those violent tendencies actually materialised, then you would take according action.

Presumably the child wasn’t shouting bomb when he boarded the other flight. Somehow I doubt the parents uploaded that bit, you know, the positive side, to social media.

He wasn’t allowed on the other flight because they were understanding, he was allowed on because he hadn’t repeated the previous behaviour. Surely it’s not that hard to understand.

But I stand by my belief that this whole thing was a setup by the parents.

lifeisgoodrightnow · 26/05/2026 23:09

Twisterlollies · 26/05/2026 22:52

Ok, let’s do this the embarrassing way for you.

You’re saying nervous passengers needs trump a disabled person’s. That is neither legal nor acceptable.

That’s not what I said. The legal framework you refer to doesn’t even exist - you can’t have an adversarial system between 2 passengers. It would be the airline showing they made necessary and proportionate decisions to achieve a legitimate aim, an objective anyone with half a brain can see is reasonable here (going by the vast majority of the comments).

the airlines assume responsibility for nut allergies and do announcements and in fact don’t bother with ‘cards’ as well for the theoretical deaf people you brought up.

If you cannot see the difference between an easily implemented blanket rule which has zero issues of confidentiality, discrimination or practicalities, and an airline printing little cards to share the medical information of 1 passenger in a bid to minimise distress when they shout ‘bomb’, I’m not sure you’re up to this debate. I will also mention deaf people are not ‘theoretical’, they exist and I’m sure many deaf people flew even today.

You brought up all those theoretical scenarios to divert the debate away from what it is.

tourettes is a disability and therefore a protected characteristic. Your ‘nervous passenger ‘ example at that level is not.

the deaf passengers again in this scenario were brought up by you and I gave you an off the cuff solution. In reality deaf people are as sidelined by airlines as this poor boy has been.

you are very much trying to derail this thread with some subtext of appeal to your own knowledge which frankly you have failed to display over multiple posts to multiple people.

you’re right I’m very much not up to debating with someone who is trying to derail this thread. I won’t be engaging with you again.

oh and btw you know exactly what I meant by theoretical deaf people. Nice try.

lifeisgoodrightnow · 26/05/2026 23:10

MrsTerryPratchett · 26/05/2026 23:05

For someone who wants Tourette's taken seriously, you're very quick to dismiss other needs.

I don't have to explain the cause or timeline of my medical needs to you.

Nope. Just pointing out facts.

there was no hand waving or getting in people’s faces at least as reported so far. Maybe we will hear from the airline more in the next few days. In reality what we most likely will see is that Tourette’s people continue to suffer the most appalling prejudices simply due to ignorance.

Twisterlollies · 26/05/2026 23:16

lifeisgoodrightnow · 26/05/2026 23:09

You brought up all those theoretical scenarios to divert the debate away from what it is.

tourettes is a disability and therefore a protected characteristic. Your ‘nervous passenger ‘ example at that level is not.

the deaf passengers again in this scenario were brought up by you and I gave you an off the cuff solution. In reality deaf people are as sidelined by airlines as this poor boy has been.

you are very much trying to derail this thread with some subtext of appeal to your own knowledge which frankly you have failed to display over multiple posts to multiple people.

you’re right I’m very much not up to debating with someone who is trying to derail this thread. I won’t be engaging with you again.

oh and btw you know exactly what I meant by theoretical deaf people. Nice try.

Edited

You can ‘discriminate’ against a protected characteristic if it is a proportionate way if achieving a legitimate aim. It isn’t a failsafe way of always being a priority. The airline was completely justified in prioritising the comfort and wellbeing of all the other passengers on board. I’m disabled, so I do get it, but my disability is in fact impacted by flying as my medical equipment generally has to be more thoroughly checked than general luggage. I’m fine with it.

The fact 90% of people disagree with you should speak volumes but it doesn’t, because you’ve entrenched a narrow and self righteous view on this thread and can’t bear to admit defeat. That’s your prerogative.

You won’t be engaging with me again as you can’t, you know your posts are weak and inaccurate.

Im sure the lack of legal action, or a failed legal action, in the coming months will be the decider here.

Twisterlollies · 26/05/2026 23:17

CaesarAugusta · 26/05/2026 22:57

Isn't it obvious? People are in effect saying that a boy with this sort of problem could never be allowed on a plane, because the potential difficulties for other passengers are insuperable. Yet another airline apparently managed it perfectly well shortly afterwards,, presumably on two separate occasions.

If he shouts ‘bomb’ left right and centre then no he shouldn’t be getting on a plane. It isn’t a human right and airlines are not benevolent services.

KilkennyCats · 26/05/2026 23:18

youalright · 26/05/2026 16:14

But ptsd and other anxiety disorders are disabilities there will be many people on the flight with both.

Agree.

LancashireButterPie · 26/05/2026 23:21

CheeseNPickle3 · 26/05/2026 15:40

People with tourettes should absolutely be allowed to fly. It just requires better management so letting them board first, announcement to the other passengers etc. Anything else is discrimination.

I do take the point about it being upsetting or frightening for the other passengers but a little grace goes a long way.

I also think that if anyone was actually planning to bring a bomb on a plane the last thing they'd do is announce it loudly.

I absolutely agree with this. Poor lad and poor family.

bumptybum · 26/05/2026 23:44

Hellieboar · 26/05/2026 15:13

I don't think a sunflower lanyard is as powerful as a bomb.

There was no bomb. There was the word bomb. Totally different

bumptybum · 26/05/2026 23:46

Twisterlollies · 26/05/2026 23:17

If he shouts ‘bomb’ left right and centre then no he shouldn’t be getting on a plane. It isn’t a human right and airlines are not benevolent services.

Because what? A boy with Tourette’s saying bomb repeatedly on a plane whose staff have been notified of his condition will what exactly?

bumptybum · 26/05/2026 23:47

itsjustthepricewepay · 26/05/2026 22:58

More like his parents managed to get him under control

Tell us you know fuck all about Tourette’s without telling us

bumptybum · 26/05/2026 23:50

itsgettingweird · 26/05/2026 19:44

Being protected from discrimination doesn’t mean protected from having to abide by rules and regulations - or the law.

It’s called “reasonable” adjustments.

An airline can decide it’s not reasonable to risk scaring 200+ other passengers mid flight.

So ASD children who shout a lot shouldn’t be allowed to fly either? Because , you know…. Other people

bumptybum · 26/05/2026 23:52

Shittyyear2025 · 26/05/2026 20:47

If he was shouting FUCK over and over he would likely also be prevented from boarding. Nobody wants to hear BOMB on a plane, same as nobody needs to hear any inappropriate language on a plane. We've all watched videos of folk being de-planed for bad language, captain has the final say on that - BOMB is waaaay beyond Captain's level of authority. Like I said earlier, not sure what the best thing would have been to do here but I would NOT have boarded after anyone mentions blowing up the plane...

So if a 23 year old boy with obvious Tourette’s and whose family face notified the airline shouted bomb, you wouldn’t board?

Sounds like you have a problem

Jellybelly80 · Yesterday 00:15

SandwichSuperstar · 26/05/2026 18:43

And how could they stay at home?

Are you suggesting the airline contacts every single passenger on board to pre-warn them?

Im suggesting that anyone so nervous in the first place should stay away from planes full stop.

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