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Pretty Woman sales staff were rude, but were they really wrong?

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Weretheywrong · 26/05/2026 05:34

Yes, I know. We are meant to cheer for Vivien as she triumphantly returns to have her moment of revenge, all beautiful and with her shopping bags full of thousands of dollars worth of clothes. She was such a likeable character that we did cheer.

But really, the chances of a sex worker coming into your high class boutique having a black credit card that wasn’t stolen would be next to zero. The staff worked on commission probably had kids to feed and mortgages to pay so clearing out the sex worker who would deter customers and would be almost certain to not be able to pay for anything seemed eminently sensible. They were wrong, but how on earth would they have known that?

This movie is problematic in many ways but in this instance, my sympathies lie with the saleswomen.

Let’s not forget Kit offering a blow job to the elderly gentleman in front of his wife at the hotel reception. What on earth did they do to deserve that crudeness. I would be furious if someone spoke to my grandparents like that. But again, it is apparently another stand up and cheer moment.

And Edward is just vile when he gave her the eye to give him his paid for blow job when she was happily watching tv.

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Upstartled · 26/05/2026 11:45

FairKoala · 26/05/2026 11:16

I am presuming that most of the posters trying to make out this sales assistant was right I am presuming have never been served in a retail establishment because of how they look or what clothes they have on.
Or been guided out of somewhere because of some mistaken belief they had no money

It is definitely humiliating.

No. I haven't. Because it is abundantly obvious where there is an expectation to look the part and where you can turn up in average clothes. But, even then, pretending that is akin to going into a fancy place in your low- cut, cut-out lycra mini dress is a stretch.

The whole point, is the my fair lady style transformation. She becomes acceptable only because she changes.

FlippantlyShe · 26/05/2026 11:53

the80sweregreat · 26/05/2026 10:34

I think I was confused as she tells her flatmate she is going to finish high school , so I thought she had moved there for Uni originally ( my bad there )
I suppose he just throws money at her at the end and she lives in luxury forever! I’d love a follow up where it goes wrong , but I doubt anyone would have wanted that sequel where they don’t live happily ever after!

No, so instead we got the undercooked Runaway Bride where Julia Roberts is an adorable smalltown girl with the habit of repeatedly running away from her grooms at the altar, and Richard Gere is the hardbitten journalist writing a hostile story who falls for her.

And Hector Elizondo (Barney the hotel manager in PW) returns as the husband of Richard Gere's ex-wife.

FlippantlyShe · 26/05/2026 11:58

FairKoala · 26/05/2026 11:16

I am presuming that most of the posters trying to make out this sales assistant was right I am presuming have never been served in a retail establishment because of how they look or what clothes they have on.
Or been guided out of somewhere because of some mistaken belief they had no money

It is definitely humiliating.

It's happened to everyone at some point! That's why the scene is the one everyone remembers from the film (and the shopping scenes in general, rather than anything to do with shagging Richard 'Freakishly Smooth Chest' Gere) and why the phrase 'Big mistake. Huge' is still so recognisable.

But it's perfectly fair to point out that it's hardly particularly unwise of a sales assistant at an upmarket boutique to refuse to serve someone whose appearance makes her poverty and desperation clear, on the offchance that she might have access to one of her clients' credit cards and need an expensive makeover.

KSera · 26/05/2026 13:50

GinaandGin · 26/05/2026 10:39

He offered to pay her rent on an apartment and visit her when he was In towm

Like continue to use her as a prostitute?

FlippantlyShe · 26/05/2026 14:26

KSera · 26/05/2026 13:50

Like continue to use her as a prostitute?

Yup, but more of a courtesan, like in La traviata (the opera they go to see, at which Edward is so insanely patronising I can't imagine how she resisted pushing him off the balcony), where Marguerite reserves her sexual favours for one man as long as he can support her.

MarmaladeorJam · 26/05/2026 14:44

Judevalentine · 26/05/2026 09:32

I can barely watch most films from this era. It was incredibly misogynistic. If anything the old 1940s classics were less so and the women tended to have more autonomy and gumption.

I thought that the other day - I was watching Philadelphia.

How we have regressed.

Appalonia · 26/05/2026 19:49

FairKoala · 26/05/2026 11:16

I am presuming that most of the posters trying to make out this sales assistant was right I am presuming have never been served in a retail establishment because of how they look or what clothes they have on.
Or been guided out of somewhere because of some mistaken belief they had no money

It is definitely humiliating.

Some years ago I went to Bristol and there was a tiny shop selling gorgeous, unusual jewellry. There were no prices on anything. I asked the v snooty male shopkeeper how much the jewellery was. He said to me, in a v condescending tone of voice, this isn't Tescos! I could have afforded any piece in that shop, but I didn't buy anything due to his horrid attitude which was designed to make me feel small. I hope he's gone out of business...

SmugglersHaunt · 26/05/2026 19:57

I could never get past finding out it’s not Julia Roberts’s body on the poster. Now I just see it like a disembodied head floating on an anonymous ‘sex worker’s’ body, which probably says more about the film than any critique could

SkaterGrrrrl · 26/05/2026 19:59

cantthinkofagoodusername1 · 26/05/2026 09:56

I haven't watched this for years! I can't remember all the details but I do recall thinking that it was a bit off for her to be offended by Jason Alexander's character propositioning her, because after all, that was what her job was.

Propositioning her? He tried to rape her. Are sex workers not able to say no?

Galaxylights · 26/05/2026 20:04

Missey85 · 26/05/2026 09:46

I always disliked grease I mean he ignores her entirely until she becomes someone completely different 🙁

Yeah I don't take it seriously. It's just highschool bull shiz really. I just like the songs 🤣🤣

HermioneWeasley · 26/05/2026 20:28

If I were running an expensive boutique for wealthy women, I wouldn’t want sex workers associated with my brand either. I’m usually of the view that money is money, but I suspect for their clientele that it would be brand damaging.

ladygindiva · 26/05/2026 23:38

The whole movie is disgusting and problematic beyond words and I hate it. Man pays woman young enough to be his daughter for a blowie. How romantic.

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