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Water Safety - drowning can be quick and silent "Drowning doesn't look like drowning" article

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JoBrodie · Yesterday 23:01

Some of you will be holidaying with children near water and if so I'd urge you to read (or re-read) this article so that you can be aware of what to look out for in case someone gets into difficulty.

"Drowning doesn't look like drowning" article
In 10 percent of drownings, adults are nearby but have no idea the victim is dying. Here’s what to look for.

Films and television have taught us that drowning is a loud, shouting, 'help, help' kind of thing but unfortunately real drowning is often very quiet and calm (the person is likely unable to speak or communicate / respond to 'are you ok?' let alone splash). I was astounded when I read this article a few years ago - I had no idea it was mostly like that.

Be like the meerkats and if possible have a lookout on land (as you'll see from the article, being in the water isn't always a guarantee someone will spot it).

See also the 'Float to live' guidance from the RNLI Lifeboats.

  1. Tilt your head back (ears in the water)
  2. Relax and breathe normally.
  3. Move your hands and legs to help you float.
  4. It’s OK if your legs sink (we all float differently).
  5. Practise floating in a supervised pool before you go on holiday.

Drowning Prevention Week (a campaign from the Royal Life Saving Society UK) is happening from 13-20 June 2026, with resources for families and schools.

Jo

Drowning Doesn’t Look Like Drowning

Drowning is not the violent, splashing call for help that most people expect.

https://slate.com/technology/2013/06/rescuing-drowning-children-how-to-know-when-someone-is-in-trouble-in-the-water.html

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ItaGonnaBeMay · Yesterday 23:01

Bumping, thank you for sharing

TirednessOnToast · Yesterday 23:10

THANK YOU for posting this. Around 12 years ago, I read an article just like this on MN. 4 days later I took my Dd to a public swimming pool. She was 6, having swimming lessons, lifeguards on duty & I was right there. It was absurdly crowded, do wrnt she went down & didn’t come up the Lifeguard didn’t see. If I'd not read the article I'd still have thought drowning was like the movies. It's not. She's downstairs gaming now thanks to MN. Please share widely.

RonnieForteWhiskyTalkinNSOUL · Yesterday 23:11

Good insightful post

ScullyD · Yesterday 23:43

Thanks for this OP. A good friend died when we were teenagers by drowning. I still feel the rules and awareness aren’t what they should be but RNLI does such great work.

loveyouradvice · Today 01:19

how can i read the article

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