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Know what you're going to see.

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Frikkinperiod · 22/05/2026 07:28

I saw the Rocky Horror show last night. Some of the fun of the show is the audience shouting out rude (known to the cast) ad libs. The couple in front of me were merrily shouting these out, along with others across the theatre. The cast were responding as normal.

The couple in front of them appeared to be getting crosser and crosser about this - the turning round and glaring turned into full on "shut your mouth", then swearing at the shouting couple. The couple shouting weren't being intimidated, or saying anything back, just got louder with their shouting - I'd have done the same.

At the start of the interval, the grumpy couple tried to have a go at the shouters, but the shouters told them it's part of the show, and walked off. This incensed the grumpy couple.

Just before act 2 started, a manager came and had a go at the section for "being aggressive and rowdy". Clearly the moaners complained.

The moaning couple hadn't returned (and didn't). The shouting couple laughed. The manager looked stupid to those of us who knew what had gone on and were getting annoyed with the moaning.

I hope the moaning couple were seated near people on the other side of the theatre who were shouting the ad libs even louder. I hope they had a terrible evening.

I had a great night!

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jetlag92 · 24/05/2026 19:36

Somethingbland · 22/05/2026 07:43

Calling them the grumpy couple seems very unfair. If they weren't aware this type of behaviour is " normal" for the show then I can understand them being upset.

And I don't think the manager would have called the audience section out for being aggressive and rowdy without justification - he will know how audiences usually behave so this must have been bad behaviour by comparison to the norm.

Sounds an absolutely horrible night out to me but then I've never been into the Rocky Horror Show anyway.

We had a similar thing recently and TBH I hate people "joining in" during regular show, but rocky horror it's expected. The couple next to me were getting really annoyed at another group of people and the theatre could have just said something at the start such as " we welcome the usual audience participation".

Not everyone is aware!

Notmyreality · 24/05/2026 19:40

Divebar2021 · 24/05/2026 10:39

I’m curious how someone can get to be an adult and not know at least the premise of the show. It’s not as if the film is very standard and it’s been referenced in other programmes over the years. However even if you’re fresh on earth from another planet you take in the fact that it’s not isolated and the staff and cast are not concerned. Makes me wonder what they actually thought the show was about

Indeed

chipsticksmammy · 24/05/2026 23:22

Lots of people in costume and your bag being searched as you go in should be big clues.

I’m sure when I saw in Edinburgh the usher explained why our bag was being searched (I’m looking for Kit Kats) and mentioned it’s ok for some participation but to not be too rowdy.

It was very nicely put.

Tarkan · 24/05/2026 23:41

DH and I went to Book of Mormon a few months ago and a couple arrived around 10/15 minutes late so we were all disrupted as they were shown to their seats, right in the middle of a row. One of them had mobility issues so it took the usher ages to guide them as it was hard to see the stairs in the dark and they were quite steep.

I don’t think they even lasted half a song before they got up, disrupting everyone again, as they left in disgust.

I would have thought it had been around long enough that people would know that it wasn’t the sort of thing to go to if you’re easily offended but I guess not.

MrCollinsandhisboiledpotatoes · 28/05/2026 15:18

Frikkinperiod · 24/05/2026 16:39

That moaner sounds a nightmare!

How was Jason?

He was great, he played it with a very lazy, nonchalant vibe, which I think really worked

CharlotteStreetW1 · 28/05/2026 18:47

MrCollinsandhisboiledpotatoes · 28/05/2026 15:18

He was great, he played it with a very lazy, nonchalant vibe, which I think really worked

We saw him in it decades ago. I'm pretty sure his performance was "chemically enhanced" shall we say. Very funny.

Lurkingandlearning · 28/05/2026 19:41

The Rocky Horror Show is very different to most theatre. When I went many of the audience dressed up as characters and the audience participation isn’t heckling. It’s more like panto than Les Mis. And it’s a lot of fun.

Don’t reviews give this information.

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