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Do your children cry when they hear sad stories?

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scalt · 13/05/2026 10:34

Children often see stories differently from how adults do: sometimes they will be wondering why adults cry at stories such as The Happy Prince, the ending of Charlotte's Web, or that legendary tear-jerker for adults, the Paper Dolls.

I have a vivid memory of my own childhood, and I remember that my brother cried at sad stories far more than I did: I don't think I learned to empathise with characters in stories until I was at least a teenager, because as far as I was concerned, they were just... stories, with made-up characters. I remember our teacher reading Charlotte's Web (I was six), but nobody cried at the ending; I even remember the delicate way she said the words, as if she was anticipating tears.

However, I do remember a reading comprehension "The Red Morris" about two boys who had got into the wrong red Morris, and their mother crying when they were missing; one of the boys in the class said (with real feeling) "Poor mother". More recently, when I volunteered in a primary school, one girl was really upset to hear the story of Jesus betrayed by his friends.

It actually came as a bit of a shock to me when, at the age of nineteen, I re-read some of these stories, and "felt" the feelings a lot more than I did as a child, and I enjoyed reading in general a lot more than I had before.

What are your children like with sad stories?

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KrillBrill · 13/05/2026 11:54

Yes they do cry, they are 7 and 5. They also find films like Disney ir Pixar ones hard to watch as there is always an emotional element, even in films meant for small children, and it sets them off. And then I cry too!

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