Anyone else wondering about ADHD diagnoses in modern mums?

[ChefsKisser]

I’ve noticed recently in my mum peer group sooo many women are being diagnosed with ADHD and starting medication. We are a middle class area, most of these mums have professional jobs, nice looked after houses etc. some but not all have gone private, many through NHS.

Speaking to them lots talk about feeling overstimulated, not being able to sit down dashing from task to task etc. I feel like I feel the same! I also definitely feel like amphetamines would help focus me and slow down my brain… But I also don’t feel like I have ADHD when I read about it I have traits but I think a busy job as a nurse, juggling kids, school, hobbies etc etc is exhausting and constant. I didn’t struggle in school and the only negative impact on my life is that I can basically never sit down and relax.

I don even know what I’m asking really but does anyone else feel like everyone around them is being diagnosed and the starting to wonder whether to jump on the bandwagon?

I think maybe you should read up on it a bit more before making judgements.

Yes, I completely agree! Most of us feel like we’re spinning so many plates and can’t relax but whether that’s life or whether we all have ADHD, I don’t know!

I can’t see why you’d go for an adhd diagnosis (and think you’d get one) if you don’t think you have adhd, you don’t have traits of adhd and your life isn’t impacted by adhd, unless this is a troll post to complain about the rates of diagnosis?

Assuming you’re being genuine, lots of people have traits of adhd, you can’t just ‘jump on the bandwagon,’ and get a diagnosis because you fancy some amphetamines to get you through the day. the diagnostic process is all about how it impacts your life and the adhd traits need to be evidenced throughout your life. The traits also can’t just be explained away by something else (eg a busy mind just because you’re a busy mum)
So given you don’t currently think it’s impacting you or has ever impacted you, you’d have to lie and get other people to lie for you too as they speak to friends and family as well.

Maybe now it’s something you’re thinking about you’ll be more aware and realise some things you’re doing that are due to adhd and you can begin to build a picture and learn about it a little more, but it sounds like from what you’ve said that you’re just busy.